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posted 1/9/2007 7:00:58 AM |
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Alrighty......So, we have past the first meeting with someone...when is it appropriate to actually open the secret drawer and bust out the toys??

I mean usually, by this time, the guy already knows I love my vibrators and numerous other toys, but I think the first time together, you should get to know eachothers bodies and kinda just enjoy eachother, save the true freak in you for the next few meetings. Am I right?? Or should I just bring it all out on the first meeting and just enjoy??

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Jan 9 @ 7:15AM  
Well, my sweety isn't here, so I will answer this one alone. lol. If it were me you were meeting, I would say bring 'em on, but then I love when a woman is squirming in total pleasure! Bring up the topic with the person you are meeting, and gauge the reaction, he will let you know with a look on his face. I would be wide eyed and smiling ear too ear!

Jan 9 @ 7:19AM  
Bring on the freaky and just enjoy!

Jan 9 @ 7:26AM  
I say bring them out the first time if he knows about them and you are both comfortable with it. I say bring them out the first time and get freaky or kinky together.

Jan 9 @ 8:07AM  
I would think if you are ready to get naked with someone, this subject should have already come up. If it's something you enjoy and want to include, don't let it be a little, dirty secret. Seems most guys like the whole idea of the toys anyway.

Jan 9 @ 8:13AM  
Bring them out on the first date. The only thing you should be concerned about is if you have one of those super size dildo's . Don't put the competition too high for him right away. Once he has managed to satisfy you with his manhood, then bring the super size out and enjoy.

Jan 9 @ 8:56AM  
I say wait for the second date. I never have sex on the first date... besides, it gives both parties even more to look forward to each others bodies just by waiting. More rewarding!

Jan 9 @ 9:10AM  
i reckon you should mention it, and have them handy 'just in case' he is in a frisky mood.

an ex of mine mentioned it a few times in the beginning. So after a little while i asked for a demonstration and she obliged (under condition). As she went on she put it in my hand and directed me.....

I can still see her shaking the bed to pieces screaming in ecstacy. The two months that followed will be in my mind forever.


Jan 9 @ 3:55PM  
Hey! be your freaky self and let him deal with it! After all the final word comes down to you anyhow! If he is squeemish or feels weird then show him just how much fun he could be having!

Jan 12 @ 9:50PM  
I agree with you. If you are freaky, it shouldn't be introduced during the first sex encounter, but should be introduced relatively early in the relationship. If you wait too long, you'll get comments back like "you didn't used to be like this". and they will work to change that behavior to resort you to an earlier stage of the relationship.

With my last girlfriend, I introduced my spanking and biting fetishes too late in the relationship and it started freaking her out. However, another woman showed me her vibrator pal upon our first meeting and I used it on her during our second sex encounter. It was a great experience.

Jan 20 @ 6:04AM  
hmmmmm if he knows you love ur toys - keep them handy may regret it if u dont.

Feb 23 @ 1:32AM  
Just go with the flow. If it feels right go ahead just be there and keep the toys handy but hidden at first. You may not use them the first time you meet but... you never know and the boy scouts have a motto.... "Be Prepared!"

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