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posted 8/12/2010 11:47:27 AM |
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ok lets start over. my wife has been involved in work and other activities so much that for three weeks there has been no sex. she finally came to me and said she had a special time picked out. time place everything. the sex for just sex sake was no good. for pleasure it was no good. for love no good. do i tell her?

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max49

Aug 12 @ 1:00PM  
You would have to be either very brave or very stupid to tell her. After all she DID try to make it right with you. Did you ever stop to think that maybe it wasn't good for her either. Just my worthless opinion. Good luck with whatever you decide.
budman701

Aug 12 @ 1:17PM  
Well atleast we got the he/she situation resolved
Now to be realistic....Did she plan the evening so that she could spend time with you or was she just trying to make you happy?
sugarnspice005

Aug 12 @ 8:23PM  
wtf ya complaining about? She freed up some time for YOU. I don't know her job, or the other activities that keep her so busy...but hell! She obviously cares enough to want some time with you. Go with it...have fun! It can be romantic if you let the mood take ya.

Goodness...there are people out there in the world begging their s/o for sex...and your wife is setting up a DATE for you and her!
sawduster

Aug 13 @ 12:55AM  
ok, sounds like there are some reasons neither of you has mentioned to the other for the lack of pleasure on your part, and maybe hers as well. she may fake it to make you feel good, or you may to make her feel good. so time for a good long talk about the whats and whys. i'm thinking yes the work and what ever else has some to do with it, but not all of it. and she did do something major to see to your needs. so dig a little and find out the why of it. if it is something recent, it may be work, and will likely pass, if it is ongoing, then something else is afoot.

tassie1

Aug 13 @ 6:51AM  
yep, I tend to agree my friend, it says more than you realise that at least she tried to make the effort to find time just for you, irrespective of wether it may or may not have turned out as perfect as you may have wanted. maybe its time to ask if you expected too much or y'all were just too tired to realy relax and enjoy it as much as you'd have liked, but at the end of the day, damn... at least she made the effort, she could have just as easliy brushed you off with nothing.
just be grateful and it if plays on your mind too much, sit down and talk without being judgemental or critisising to see how you might be able to improve things next time.
and if thats too awkward, try writing down how you feel in an email and sending it to her, gotta luv modern technology, it does help break the ice sometimes.
maxximuss1967

Aug 13 @ 12:13PM  
YEA! TELL HER...AND SAY WHAT DO I LOOK LIKE A FUCKING MACHINE! LOL!

MY EX WIFE WANTED TUESDAY NITE TO BE SEX NITE SO SHE DIDNT HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT UN PLANNED........DID I MENTION SHE IS MY EX!

TELL HER TO PENCIL YOU IN FOR A 3AM BLOW JOB! GEEEEEE!
Wordsofwit

Aug 13 @ 2:28PM  
I an just curious about things like how long you have been married, if this had ever happened in the past, if there any issues or pressures at her job beyond the norm, what is normal frequency and quality of sex, etc.

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