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posted 8/11/2010 9:46:39 AM |
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recently i was told that, women do not need sex as much as a man does. is this true? that as a women grows older she needs more foreplay. im a 53 year old male and can still enjoy sex at anytime. to me sex is where both parties, recieve love, pleasure, and nutureing which is important in our lives. i personally love to please, more than be pleased, but i do get extream pleasure from that. please share your thoughts openly

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Aug 11 @ 10:06AM  
I find both of those statements are accurate....for me. As I have gotten older I don't desire sex as I used to, but still enjoy it just as much, when I do have it. But I don't agree that women and men are the same when it comes to sex...not at all !! And as a woman I have always found that the more foreplay....the better the sex!

Aug 11 @ 10:34AM  
Sex if narrowly defined is a release of endorphins this is the same for men and women it is how they are processed that is different, I know that for me after having great sex I am filled with energy, men mainly are ok now off to sleep... There are a few exceptions, now the converse is the emotional sex that two people can have and the bonding and so forth this is an entirely different kind of sex and one I hope both share, sometimes one or the other has this emotional sex and the other just sex and things are out of whack, the best is when both people are emotionally and physically in sync, but this does not happen as often as it should.. what was the question again LOL....

Aug 11 @ 10:38AM  
I agree with sara but would like to go a little farther. Every person...male or female, is different and the secret to good sex is communication. You can't totally rely on, "well my last partner liked such and such so this one will too."

Sara mentioned how much she enjoys foreplay. I like it too but probably a different kind of that begins long before we get to the bedroom. I like PDA's and teasing and flirting and intimate talks and a build up of anticipation long before we get to the bedroom.

I've found...for me...that I can turn off that switch that says sex...if it's not available to me then I can just shut down, occupy myself with other things and do without sex without any problems. I think that probably has to do a lot with my age and the fact that I don't care anymore to have casual sex without a committed relationship because THAT'S when the sex is really, really good!

Aug 11 @ 11:57AM  
I agree with redbronz, sex is so much more complex then a simple question. But I believe women have a hard time freeing themselfs from the days stress and events...where a man will. Most the time I am a giver in bed as well, I love to please my girl, but Sunday night...I was a taker.....and my gf loved it! she wont quit talking about it! So I believe women and men are the same, only more pieces of the puzzle need to fall into place for a woman to be able to completely give of her self.... I also believe sex is not worth the effort or my time if I don't care for the girl....

Aug 11 @ 5:33PM  
interesting question...

I have found with most women,when it comes to sex they lean towards more emotional feelings and full-filment, where-as men tend to go with the physical and visual attractions and the feelings that go with that.

* well thats what it said in this book called ; understanding women, by some mate of Softy's called Joe

me, I'm an Aussie, we just like seeing nekkid wimmin and bewbies
and sexual foreplay should consists of ; oi, you awake ?


Aug 12 @ 7:48AM  
Men have sex to have sex. Women have sex for many other purposes, not only for pleasure. Thats good, 'cause we, men would rarely get sex from them otherwise.

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