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posted 8/8/2010 1:43:29 PM |
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Mamas back and well been staying in the back ground and just reading and posting a few comments but after reading max-1967 blog I wanted to say my mind...

Yes it is hard for a man to hear no won't do that and all that other bullshit...
But me for one being a real good sub I also do have my limits....
Some woman feel the right cause it is our body not yours to bend to a mans pleasure....
If you can't find one that wants to do all what some men feel we should well sorry to say go deeper into want you really want a sex toy or a real loving realationship that can last for years to come...
I for one do have one and he knows what I will do and not do.. And yes I will if the moment is right will have my limits pushed and have enjoyed it in the heat of the moment..
So men sorry to say get a life take a real good look in the mirror and see inside youself of what you really do want and need...And sit back and really listen and read between the lines of what they are saying to you....
You know I just relized something it might be a bad experience that they have had and well you could if you took your time with them made it better for them instead of bitching about it....

Hate to say this but maybe you Whom ever feels this way needs to grow up and get some real balls and be a real man...

Hate me if you must after this but it is all true... a man with real feelings for their woman in my eyes is a real man....

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Wordsofwit

Aug 8 @ 2:39PM  
I cannot comment on the subject of being a sub. But I do want to thank you for your post.
themama

Aug 8 @ 2:53PM  
16 views one comment...I guess touchy subject for most...

Your welcome Bruce...

It's not just me being a sub but well will help some men understand I hope on how some woman subs or not do have their limits and some do set limits on what they will do and not do after they have tried it or not...
themama

Aug 8 @ 4:03PM  
You know also on another note....Yes I will bring my own comments up aloud to it's my blog...lol
But well yes I do understand men do have their needs and what so... But you know men do need to talk to their other half of what their needs are and see if we can or want to meet them.. And also the other way around...
tassie1

Aug 8 @ 5:12PM  
irrespective of wether it involves being a sub etc, I couldn't have said this blog better, at the end of the day no matter what games and role playing ppl may be interested in, it still boils down to simple respect for your partner doesn't it ?
I know, I know , what would that crazy Aussie know ...

good blog, here's a kudo but don't tell skwirl or she'll want my nuts for givin them away to other ppl's
hornymanalways

Aug 8 @ 5:31PM  
Yes I do understand you need respect in a relationship...I for one do for themama...
She also understands my wants I don't push her in what I need..But in the heat of it all if it does happen I am in glory...
somnium

Aug 8 @ 7:06PM  
But you know men do need to talk to their other half of what their needs are and see if we can or want to meet them.. And also the other way around...

That's my reasoning behind cuddling and why I emphasize cuddling in my essays!

sugarnspice005

Aug 8 @ 7:35PM  
Hey Mama!!! Been a while since I've seen you around....like a week or so...

Oh yeah, and thanks for saying it better than I could.

Here's a kudo for ya!
themama

Aug 8 @ 9:28PM  
Hey SS...lol..... Thank you...I tried my best and I guess I hit it on the nail just right...
I should thank everyone else for the kudos now just hope the skwirl don't come and steal them... lol
KitKat25

Aug 8 @ 10:43PM  
You know I just relized something it might be a bad experience that they have had and well you could if you took your time with them made it better for them instead of bitching about it....Hate to say this but maybe you Whom ever feels this way needs to grow up and get some real balls and be a real man...

You're are not only themama...you're da woman!

Kudos for saying "it" so well.
themama

Aug 8 @ 11:09PM  
Thank you kitkat
maxximuss1967

Aug 10 @ 11:01AM  
Great blog! I agree with you! (nothing wrong with limits) I just think if you have a true loving relationship you both will do a little bending...in and out of the bedroom for the one you love! But when you find the perfect love...Great sex will come as a byproduct of the love and passion.(its not what my girl will do or wont that makes her great in bed). I just dont understand the reason to tell me at our first dinner date what you do or dont do in bed! that is a mistake, i dont need to know that on our first date.
maxximuss1967

Aug 10 @ 11:21AM  
and that was what my blog was all about! not that women should submit to every sexual whim.
themama

Aug 10 @ 11:20PM  
Max-1967 Well that is what your blog sounded like...So that is why I posted my blog.. Thank you for letting me know different

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