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posted 7/29/2010 5:51:20 PM |
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Casual encounters can quickly get a bad name. Maybe it's the word "casual" that degrades this type of encounter(?) Speaking as a happily married man, there are times I have desires for an extra-martial encounter with a willing and cooperative lady that is mature, stable, and open-minded enough to appreciate the joy and satisfaction that comes from such encounters. Of course, there must be absolute confidentiality and discreetness by both parties...no-strings-attached by either. Either party can discontinue such encounter if there is a fear of marital difficulties. Both parties must understand that such encounters seldom work as long term "affairs". It just may be that lack of understanding causes or contributes to the present marriage failure rate of approximately 75% (including the almost 25% that merely live under the same roof to keep the family from breaking up). The stigma of so-called "cheating" hangs over the heads of those who think or act on their desires to expand their sexual experiences...when, in fact, stronger marital ties often evolve from these experiences, when entered into responsibly. Think about it....it is totally "unnatural" to spend a lifetime of suppressing sexual desires strictly because of a cultural and/or religious taboo...the human body is not made that way!...it was our creator that made us the way we are, right?. It's commonly know as "mind-control", especially in western cultures. It's failing miserably (for both male and female) in our American culture, in my humble opinion. For the record, I love my wife even more today (after almost a half century) than the day I married her!

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sugarnspice005

Jul 29 @ 6:01PM  
And if your wife is fine with you having sex with other women, that is her business. Myself, I'm not the open minded. Want to call me "selfish", fine, then I'm selfish as I will most certainly NOT share my man with another woman. And if he wants to "play" in another woman's bed...she can have him.

That's just me. That's the way I am.
soft_touch938

Jul 30 @ 12:12PM  
I have to wonder how you'd feel about your wife having an affair....or 2 or 3 or more. After all, if it's good for you, why not her? My guess is you're cocksure she wouldn't do that so you feel safe.

I say if you wouldn't want another man's cock thrust inside her then what makes you think it'd be ok with her for you to thrust yours into another woman? She wouldn't know you say?

Bet me! Murphy's law....she will find out eventually and will be devastated. If you are willing to put her to that kind of risk then what an asshole you are. And it makes no difference what a woman tells you...the risks of STD's is rampant and methinks wifey will not be happy to end up with one...or crabs.

As for God? He gave man a brain too and expected him to use it...most don't. They can only think with their genitals.

Sad. (and I bet this don't get posted)
LuuvaGrl

Jul 30 @ 1:30PM  
I'm with you Sugar....not the sharing type....

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