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posted 7/23/2010 4:13:39 PM |
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  whisperingcomet

I was just watching a talk show...and some MD sex specialist is saying that during sex, and courtship....

men dont see the flaws on your body....only women see them in themselves...

Of course, I have to flaunt it again, that i had sex last week and i must say...his body was not the greatest...but i liked it...slightly short..slightly chubby...of course, if he was a women, i guess i would have called him short and fat

So my advice of the days....Girls...let's relax...and enjoy the journey...

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Lisa46

Jul 23 @ 4:35PM  
I like my men tall with some meat on him always have. When I put my arms around a man I wanna feel skin not bones. Now if I can only find a man who likes his woman with skin lol
1bunny629

Jul 23 @ 4:39PM  
I know one person that can't get passed the idea of a woman being over weight. Believe me, he is no prize physically and is very narrow minded. I think he is narcissistic.
I see my flaws, but most men don't. They are just happy to have a hole to fill. Be it physically or mentally'just glad to have someone to be with. This is totally based on my experience and the fact that I hang out with more men then women, and they open up to me because I don't judge their idiollogy.
So...good for you...and good for him. If you look past the physicality and concentrate on the spirit; you become a better person and find that the reciprocation is largely returned.
whisperingcomet

Jul 23 @ 4:51PM  
Dammmmn...i love Bunny when she is deep thinking
ksk72

Jul 23 @ 5:10PM  
Sex appeal is an attitude not a look. If she believes she is sexy so will he.

I walk around town all the time laughing at the stares I get when I am out with my 6'5" blond with a 8pack. So what if I am short and fat. For guys into my body type I am hot as hell, have a killer personality and I love sex. I dont care if every man likes me cause I know there are plenty that do.

Gals we need to focus more on our good points and less on our faults
whisperingcomet

Jul 23 @ 5:13PM  
I compleatly agree...after all we are Goddess!
somnium

Jul 23 @ 5:27PM  
I see my flaws, but most men don't. They are just happy to have a hole to fill.
^^^^^ At my point in life, that's a statement that so rings true!!!


ynot7769

Jul 23 @ 5:45PM  
i know i can think of times/women in my life i saw as perfect.....i think the reason is SOME men see thru their hearts NOT JUST their eyes...but then thats just me talkin. .
onehornytoad69

Jul 23 @ 7:09PM  

men dont see the flaws on your body....only women see them in themselves
.
I'll agree with that!!!
Especially if there is an Connection!
StraddleMyNose

Jul 23 @ 9:23PM  
during sex, and courtship....

men dont see the flaws on your body....only women see them in themselves...
I would have to agree with this statement
RJ53

Jul 24 @ 12:08AM  
I think you are right about that in the case of most men. Of course there are those who think they should be able to attract what they attracted 30 or 40 years before. With some it is an age thing with some it is a weight thing or some other thing but I have noticed that most of them should go look in the mirror naked before they think women should have to be perfect. I am not referring to any of the males on here but men in general.
justme4u

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Jul 24 @ 12:23AM  
I think most women in thier minds worry to much that we are looking at flaws. One if we are with you, usually we are very happy. Two, what you may think are flaws we may like.
Women give birth.................We dont lol. We get beer bellys etc.
I mean for real what kind of flaw can a woman have that you would ever think would turn us off?
If you were perfect we probably wouldn't want you.
ll women are fine
1bunny629

Jul 24 @ 2:05AM  
I like this blog. It really got some good coments. I have learned over the years that my body works for me, but I have to keep up with it becuse when I let it go...it doesn't work so well. I don't do it to attract men. I do it for me.
My e used to put me on a pedestal. I was his model, and he was the artist. He thought I was perfect. That was hard on me because I saw my flaws; not just body wise, but spiritually, emotionally and mentally. He expected me to be perfect, but never really let me just be me. It was a constant battle to keep up.
I loved him dearly, but it taught me alot after I let him go. I think now he understands. I feel better knowing I taught him something and that I learned that perfect beauty only resides inside. I can look at myself in the mirror now with ease and grace. I am less judgemental for wht I have gained from that time in my life.
God I worked hard to appease him. Now I work hard to appease me. I do it more from the inside that the outward appearance.
Somene made a comment about my short hair the other day. I told him...it is still me. My heart is the same and my sirit is still the same. Love me ...for I am me.
justme4u

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Jul 24 @ 2:46AM  
Women ar elike fine wine They get better with age.

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