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posted 7/20/2010 9:27:38 PM |
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  alybai42

Hi All,

I thought I would come on over to AMD and see what is going on? Anything new?
I have been gone a while and come back and have no e-mail's..No big deal.

Some of my friends on here know where to find me if I needed to be found..

This has been a long hard 4 month's for me. I lost my boyfriend 4 months ago today. After work I went to visit him. Talked to him. Fixed his flower's..Cried a lot of tear's. I still have his clothes where he left them in the closet. I am not ready to let go I guess. I was on a anti-depressant for two month's and just took myself off of it. People tell me I need to move on. I will move on when I am ready.

Work sucks..It is so slow right now..Summer is our slow season.

The weather is hot hot hot..What is sad is my manager gave me a brand new air conditioner and I can't get anyone to help me take the old one out and put the new one in. I hurt my back just getting it into the house. My daughter and me tried to get the old one out and couldn't do it. My friend's call when they need help or to borrow something. I call them and they are busy. Don't call me back. Tell me yeah I will come and help you and never hear from them again. Some friend's huh
Or they want to be paid for it. I was raised to help people out if they need it. I didn't expect anything in return. That is my BITCH for today..

So tell me what is going on in the world of AMD

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sugarnspice005

Jul 20 @ 9:33PM  
Hi Aly! Glad to see you stop in for a bit.

I'll tell ya...only you know when you're going to be ready to move on. Letting go is difficult...I know...been there myself.

Work has picked up for me....I've gone from complaining about having too much time off to not having enough time off. And yes, the weather has been HOT here in Michigan also. Although today was a bit of a reprieve....only got up to 82 today. Of course...the heat comes back tomorrow.


Here's a green cookie for your tip.
alybai42

Jul 20 @ 9:36PM  
Summer time is always busy for the hotel/motel business I think. People travel. I wish I could go somewhere but of course I can't..Need to work. My daughter asked how come we can never go to the beach like all her friend's..I said I have to work and I can't afford it either.

Thanks for posting on my blog Sugar,,
soft_touch938

Jul 20 @ 10:15PM  
Hi Aly...so good to see you post...missed you!

Yeah Indiana is (as PTN says) dammit hot! Although it wasn't so hot today, the humidity made up for it.

I'm not doin' too good.....got some medical difficulties which is a real bummer for summer activities. I see the OB/GYN tomorrow...maybe some answers then. And no....I ain't pregnant..

Sending (((hugs))) cause I can and you'll move on when you're darn good 'n ready.

But anyway, I've been stayin' busy so in spite of everything, I'm enjoying summer...it t'will be gone too soon I'm afraid.

Leavin' a tip cause it's good to see ya back...
theSkwirl

Jul 20 @ 10:25PM  
Hey, them people what tell you to move on? Tell them I said, "You move on.. Tammy will get there when she's damned good and ready!". That irks me.. you're sposed to just forget anything ever happened? Indeed not.. grieve as long as you NEED to grieve.

Love ya IbeTammy.. I'd come help ya if you didn't live a gozillion miles away.
Wordsofwit

Jul 20 @ 10:49PM  
So tell me what is going on in the world of AMD?

Very little,

Good to hear from you. We hope that things improve for you.
onehornytoad69

Jul 21 @ 4:49AM  
Hi there Lady!!!
I have No advise to offer....! All I can do is offer you some Big Hugs!
If I come up that way...I would be Glad to install your AC!!! It has been hot as a Motofugger here also!!!
Lisa46

Jul 21 @ 11:50AM  
Nice to see you Tammy, yeah I also was raised to help others but when it comes time for me they all go MIA. I know quit asking for anything then a friend yelled out me cause I won't ask him for anything I mean I only see him once or twice a year I ain't gonna ask for something. Humm maybe I should ask if he has any friends

If ya need to talk you got the number
slohand_47

Jul 21 @ 5:47PM  
Word of warning. I don't know which anti-depressant you were taking, but SOME of them (like Prozac) build up in the body slowly and have a cumulative effect. IF you go off of them cold turkey, it can cause much more severe depression than before you started taking them. You have to go off them gradually, over time. Check with who ever prescribed them for you.

Other than that, I agree with everyone..... it takes as long as it takes and you can't hurry things. When you have a good reason to clean the closet some day, you will. I still have my dad's work hat & coat hanging in the shop & he's been gone for 18 years now. I just like seeing them there....... like he's still here working.
ladybootscooter

Jul 21 @ 9:46PM  
Hang in there Ibe Tammy. You'll move on when you're good and ready to move on. Until then don't worry about what other folks say. Every heart is different and some of us take longer to heal than others. Sorry you can't get any help from friends. Maybe next time those same "friends" need a favor you should be busy too! You've not missed much that I can tell, course I just pop in and out, post some, read some, lurk some more. It's just not the same these days. But it is good to hear from ya.
Hugs........Ibe Stormy!
KitKat25

Jul 22 @ 4:27AM  
Good to see you Aly.

For some...it takes a very long time to move on...and that's okay. There's no need to rush right? It's not a race. Take care of yourself...and forget about those people who tell you to move on. It's really none of their beeswax.

I hope your heart starts feeling better soon.

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