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posted 7/13/2010 12:11:58 AM |
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  wissadp

Why do some people have to be such assholes? The guy I've been seeing casually for the past 18 months got pissed at me today because I wouldnt drive him somewhere. I had 1 day off this week where I didnt have anything planned and he asked if i could drive him to Des Moines . I said it was POSSIBLE but didnt confirm anything. Turns out my parents car broke down and needed to borrow mine for the day to get parts. Needless to say this guy got mad at me because I didnt drop everything and go running to him and chauffer him around all day.

Needless to say he pretty much told me to fuck off and he wasnt my friend anymore. Am I reading to much into this or is he an asshole and jerk?

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cottoncandydragon

Jul 13 @ 1:50AM  
Sounds to me me like you got off cheap and easy. He probably isn't worth stressing over.
Call yourself lucky!
lunanegra

Jul 13 @ 2:41AM  
Needless to say he pretty much told me to fuck off and he wasnt my friend anymore. Am I reading to much into this or is he an asshole and jerk?

Go back and read that statement again, and tell me what you think.It shouldnt really need saying.
Wordsofwit

Jul 13 @ 3:09AM  
I would suggest that you start associating with adults and blow off the children.
shyguy140

Jul 13 @ 7:27AM  
You do not need someone like this in your life. Sounds like a control freak.
wissadp

Jul 13 @ 11:21AM  
yup he basicly told me to fuck off after I told Him HE made the plans NOT ME
NightOfOld

Jul 13 @ 2:42PM  

I agree with the others about him BUT; You also were in the wrong.

By telling him it was possible, you led him to beleave you would.
Wordsofwit

Jul 13 @ 2:49PM  
Playing devil's advocate, it would have been polite as soon as you knew that were loaning your car to your parents to have called and explained it. If you did, you didn't communicate it in the post.
sugarnspice005

Jul 13 @ 6:26PM  
Well, if he's going to get pissy over something like that....you're better off without him as a friend.

sawduster

Jul 13 @ 8:56PM  
ok, for my two cents worth. if he can't take the idea your parents mean more right now then he does, tough. you did not say yes, i will, but it might be possible. if i know i'm going to need something done for me or need help on a given day, i ask before hand, and try not to depend on one person. sounds to me like he doesn't understand he ain't your first priority. so, with his attitude as stated, you're better off without him and it.
wissadp

Jul 14 @ 3:34AM  
i did tell him i wouldbe loaning my parents my car the night before and would not be able to take him. I also told him I was getting tired of always driving him around and not getting paid for gas. His responce to that was I was going to ay for gas on this trip.
BGDICK4U

Aug 11 @ 2:31AM  
your friend need his ass kick becouse you are a angel sweet i wish i had a girl like u
PinkToeNails

Aug 11 @ 6:18AM  
So does he not have his own car?? And how old is he?

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