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What Do Women Want In a Man...?

posted 7/11/2010 6:35:29 PM |
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No doubt I'll probably be starting out on the wrong foot the moment I use the word "love". That's okay though since these days the "L" word seems to scare the hell out of most people anyway. I only know that I sure miss it in my life. It's been over six years for me, and yes, while I have had a couple of momentary flings during that time, it just isn't the same as having that one really and truly special person-ality that you can share everything with.

I've been trying to learn to live alone and not be lonely, but I don't think I've been very successful. My flings have been... unsatisfying is the only word that comes to mind. To be somewhat vulgar about it I sometimes wonder if I would have felt better if I had just masturbated instead. Nah, that wouldn't work either. I guess for me it is pretty simple. Play pals alone just aren't enough. I need a companion. The strange thing is that I believe that most people want a companion and play pal all rolled into one. Monogamy isn't a bad thing. All that seems to be required for it to work is a dash of creativity, a dab of spontaneity, a heaping spoonful carefree adventure, and (here it comes...), the willingness to risk being hurt. Yep! That might just be the fly in the ointment.

Ladies, I have to tell you, you have me somewhat baffled. Is having a guy that is willing to really love you such a turn off? Or is it that you have somehow have gotten stuck on the idea that you have a pretty bad boy to turn into a prince, otherwise things just ain't gonna be right? Or even, dare I say it, that woman have come of age and are now playing the same games that many a man was once notorious for.

One of the more disturbing parts of all this is that for a time I got somewhat lost from my personal values, and while I dislike having to admit I began acting like a bad boy. I learned how to show you just the right amount of attention, and than just as quickly shut you out. Sadly, most of you came running back for more of the same treatment.... Now, at least physically anyway, I'm just your average guy, and because of that I knew very early on in life that I would have to be an accomplished lover to make up for that deficit. Oh the things that can be learned from books and just a little practice.... And so, for a time I would bed you, and treat with indifference the morning after. And even then you came running back for more. All the while I hated myself because the truth is I adore women. The truth is I'm more like Don Quixote than Casanova. And so I'm back to square one because if I dislike me and the things that I do, how then can I like or love you.

Ladies, do you see what a problem this is? Help me out. Tell me what it is that women really want in a man. If it's all just muscles and good looks I guess I'll be signing up for lots of plastic surgery and hours in the gym. If it's a wimp you want than I just go kill myself, because I just can't roll like that. On the other hand if it's a prince that looks pretty much like a frog, well than I'm your man!

Okay ladies, you're on. You can ever say that at least one man didn't really ask.

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Jul 11 @ 8:07PM  
Most women aren't going to admit it.. but you answered your own question.

Or even, dare I say it, that woman have come of age and are now playing the same games that many a man was once notorious for.

Jul 12 @ 12:16AM  
Yep,, pretty much what she said. Sometimes it's easier these days for a woman to just act like a man and use the 4F system of dating.

1) Find em
2) Feel em
3) Fuck em
4) Forget em.


Jul 12 @ 6:55AM  
unless you experience true love at least only once in your life, no-one can really know what your trying to explain, luckily I know exactly what you mean, I hope you find that one special person again sometime in your life.

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