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posted 5/15/2010 6:47:08 AM |
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Does Toys...Make it Harder for us to Please our Partners?
Meaning.....some of Us...go a long,long.... time without Sex ....!!
So We use toys to help us out in a Pinch!!! Sometimes the Toys are bigger that Average(for women!) ..and sometimes the toy is a Lot Tighter than Normal(for men!)
I will admit...I "had" a Toy...that was to simulate a BJ....and I'm telling woman could Match this!!! No its not the Same....but in a worked Very Well!!!
Have we used the Toys...To much? I mean..Ladies....if you use a Dildo...that is "Large"....for months on end..and then take on an Average Dick......Isn't that Asking for a Large Let Down?
I noticed in This blog that Some of the Women...Stated that they Only wanted larger Cocks!!!

Have we let the Toys...Fuck us? Have They "Raised the Bar" High that No Person can reach it? (without using Toys!)

I will be the 1st to admit...that toys are a relationship...!!! (Pleasing Each other!!!)...But this is not what I am asking!!!!
Have we...Let our Toys...fuck us Up?

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May 15 @ 7:55AM  
the whole world is becoming fucked up

I often wondered about women who always wanted men with large , or larger cocks, at the end of the day, isn't it saying something about the size of them .

* ducks and runs for cover zig zagging through the blogs while the ladies arrange the posse and keep reloading

May 15 @ 8:13AM  
ok, everyone knows that i bitch about not having sex all the time, so yes, i have toys....i dont care much for dildos, but like a small vibe.

but with a toy, its only the destination, when makiing love with a man, it's the journey that provides pleasure.

May 15 @ 8:44AM  
Does Toys...Make it Harder for us to Please our Partners?

Great question. I'll be checking back in to see what the ladies have to say.

May 15 @ 9:03AM  
For me, no. Masturbation and playing with toys for me is only a tension reliever and will never ever be the same as having sex with an actual person, especially if you love the person you are having sex with.

May 15 @ 9:07AM  
If the toy is bigger than me why should I be jealous or mad ..... Hell it's cutting me some slack....

May 15 @ 9:13AM  
I see ur point but me? I'm willing to wrk with a raised bar n love a challenge ;)

May 15 @ 9:38AM  
No, I don't think toys make it harder to satisfy our partner. If used correctly it can enhance a sexual experience. However, personally, I decided not to use a jack rabbit all of the time because the clit part of the vibrator was over-stimulating. I quit using it because I didn't want that to develop into a potential problem. I also have a medium size dildo and a 10" one. When I'm alone the medium is my "go to" toy, but sometimes when I'm really horny only the "big boy" will do!

Women have a responsibility for at least part of their own sexual enjoyment. Learning how to exercise and use our kegel muscles can keep a pussy tight even when using a large dildo repeatedly and men love it when they can feel their cock being tightly squeezed during sex.

May 15 @ 11:14AM  
Well, you all know I love my toys and I'm bluntly honest about it with any partner, so they have to love them too. I couldn't be with someone intimidated by them.

May 15 @ 2:53PM  
I can tell you that overuse of vibrators can desensitize us somewhat.. but no.. my toys are my toys.. and my lovers are real! I'd rather have real any day.

May 15 @ 3:01PM  
I just want a real cock that vibrates and then I will leave the toys alone. Maybe there is an implant made specially for that....hmmmm...anyone willin to give a try???

May 15 @ 5:18PM  
Have we let the Toys...Fuck us?


Thanks for the laugh OHT. answer the blog question.

I was actually just looking at "toys" today and was amazed at the "large" selection of women toys. Good gosh...I would be scared to use half the toys I looked at today because the length and the girth were so large.

I'm an average size gal...and I quite like an average size guy...especially if he knows how to use his equipment.

For me...I only like toys on occasion...and then I only use something to relieve the tension until I can have the real thing. The real thing IMO is soooooooo much better than a toy.

May 15 @ 5:45PM  
Thanks Everyone for your 2 cents!!!
I myself learned that the toy I had..was so Awesome...that when I Got the the real thing...(BJ..from my Last GF)..that I was Like Bunny...I wanted the "Vibe's" to Start up...and finish the Deal!!! But it never happened!! WTF?
So my toy got Trashed..because...I wanted to enjoy the real the Fullest!!! As Rare as that may be!!!!

Sunshine...You Said it all...but Not in the way you wanted too!!! are implying that...You have to have Toys!!! Am I Right?
Yeah my 2 cents are that We Are Fucking Ourselves!!!
Do it by hand...and leave the Good shit for your Partner!!! Make him or her use the toy on ya!!
Well.... that's just my Take on all that!!!!
Thanks Again!!!! Yall are the Greatest!!!

May 15 @ 6:27PM  
For me, no. Masturbation and playing with toys for me is only a tension reliever and will never ever be the same as having sex with an actual person, especially if you love the person you are having sex with

Exactly what I was going to say.

May 15 @ 6:46PM  
There is a cock ring that has a little bullet type vibrator on it that drives me and whoever I use it on crazy Feels great for both.

Sep 19 @ 9:46PM  
toys are great when used with your partner. they are a great enhancement tool. but they can be very impersonal to say the least. there is no replacemen t for the real thing

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