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posted 1/4/2007 6:05:54 PM |
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  maggiemae1969

I have encountered so much strangness, that I wonder if I am even submissive..... my heart is and I have a willingness to please.... but am scared like a baby now, my trust of the lifestyle is gone and my emotions are all over the place..... I have met some nice men here that say they are Doms as well, seem so pleasent , but I cant get over the images in my mind, thinking omg.... and I know very well that some of them will not let you set limits be it hard or soft ..... they would think that is defiance....... my Master would ........ thanks for the advice and some eye openers........

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Argit01

Jan 4 @ 6:19PM  
Anyone who does not respect another's limits in what they will or will not do is an arrogant bully. I am quite a soft hearted person and am not ashamed to show my feelings but if anyone deliberately hurts me or oversteps the mark they had better watch out as I have a very nasty temper. Having said that I would never hit a woman not even if that is what she wanted (I am not talking spanking here either).
Nighthawk43

Jan 4 @ 6:28PM  
anyone who is like that, is like that! Not just behind closed doors. That is just my opinion! I don't understand why someone would agree to be beaten, mis-treated, or put down, in the name of foreplay? Not me! Not ever! Just say NO! LOL
ynot7769

Jan 4 @ 6:46PM  
there's a BIG difference between a domanat submissive relationship as opposed to an ABUSIVE ONE........sounds like SOME of who your talking to don't know the difference.....there trust n bond beteen a Dom n Sub is poss even more important then that of a vanillia relationship......you MUST have totaly trust that each respects this relationship for it's fun n satisfaction it brings....but brings withOUT harm to either........limits are required n safe words........i don't see how there can be any gray area in this ....but then ....that's MY opinion.......
ponme

Jan 4 @ 7:02PM  
Yeah what Y said. Huge difference between D/s and abuse. If a Dom/me doesn't want to know your hard and soft limits right up front.. then that person is not a Dom/me but a player of a very dangerous game.

Being submissive, I will say it again, does not mean turning total control of your physical well being over to another person. It cannot. There have to be limits in every relationship. If a 'Dom/me' doesn't wanna hear your limits.. run away. FAST. Do not allow someone like that to have any control in your life. You are still a human being and still have basic human rights. I don't care what your title may be.

2passionate4u767

Jan 4 @ 9:10PM  
listen to the little guy with the diaper on... has some wise words for you.
Mymastersslave

Jan 5 @ 9:04AM  
Limits must be set, long before you meet them. Be firm, you have the right to say how far YOU will go. A REAL dom will understand and respect that. My master and I had set our limits long before meeting, and our first time together was amazing. Over the last few months we have expanded on that and its great. If you want to see what a real dom/sub relationship is, we are looking for a 3rd and would travel.... let us know.
lovewarrior

Jan 6 @ 10:57AM  
Simply because a lady is interested in totally pleasing her lover, and is submissive while making love, does not make her a candidate to be some freako's love slave...
maggiemae1969

Jan 6 @ 11:31PM  
I have been shown a whole new prespective on t his lifestyle, have had a new person how love and loving is supposed to be, I really thought that the collar was like a ring but for your neck.... a symbol..... of caring for me, then I find its to lead me around? omg ......... I really was shocked and saddened.....
Rikosound

Jan 7 @ 12:39PM  
Set The Rules! If They're broken and you are still okay then sucker slap the guy with a frying pan! Tell him then that was part of the consequences of not abiding by your rules!
maggiemae1969

Jan 7 @ 1:25PM  
well for heavens sakes my typing sucked on that last post..... anyway , I am thinking that this lifestyle is not for me , the man I called " Master" is not happy with me , but then I dont suppose I would be either...... defiance is not accepted graciously ......

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