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Do/would you care if your spouse or s/o opened your mail?

posted 4/28/2010 8:11:40 PM |
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Would it bother you if your spouse or s/o opened up your snail mail? I know some people in relationships would have a problem with their spouse or s/o opening up their mail without a thought in the world. If you cared if they did, why? If not, feel free to explain.

Also, are you the type that would open up your spouse's or s/o's mail?

As for me, I would care for the most part. If it was something like an ad or sale with a business, I don't think I would care as much.

Bonus question:

If the mail was addressed to the both of you, would you go ahead and open it, or would you just go ahead and let them have at it?

I would open it in this situation.

Bonus question #2:

If the mail was addressed to someone else, like a neighbor, and the postal worker accidently delivered it to your house, would you open it? Also, would you walk it over to your neighbor?

No, I wouldn't open their mail, and as far as giving it to them, sure, if I saw them out, but for the most part, I would put it on the rack of my mailbox and let the postal worker deliever it to them the next day.

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theSkwirl

Apr 28 @ 8:21PM  
Since I don't keep secrets from my partner.. I don't care what he opens. I've nothing to hide at any time. My kids on the other hand.. I'd smack em.
sugarnspice005

Apr 28 @ 8:25PM  
I have no problem with it. Most of the mail I get is bills anyway, so if my s/o wants to open those..he can pay them too.
PinkToeNails

Apr 28 @ 8:28PM  
Well....since I haven't had a "real" s/o since they started delivering mail, I would still have to say that it probably wouldn't bother me.... ditto what sugar said!! lol
RJ53

Apr 28 @ 8:28PM  
They could open all my bills they want if they want to help pay them. Things like a letter from my kids hell no they should not be opening them. Depends on what it is.
ynot7769

Apr 28 @ 8:29PM  
not if it was something we'd agreed to but till then mail n a wallet n a purse are PRIVATE....just me...
Ewe_Wish

Apr 28 @ 8:40PM  
When Gary was alive whoever picked up the mail opened it......we didn't have anything to hide........now I would never open my boyfriends mail but we dont live together either......

if i got somebody elses mail........I just mark on envelope wrong PO bx......and slide it back into the mail slot...........
rdsingle

Apr 28 @ 8:44PM  
I dont like any one opening my mail. I dont open others peoples mail. So I expect the same courtesy. Just plain manners. if it isnt yours dont mess with it. As for other peoples mail delivered wrong, I give it back to the mail carrier or mark it delivered to wrong address.
Wordsofwit

Apr 28 @ 9:10PM  
Would it bother you if your spouse or s/o opened up your snail mail?

No.

Also, are you the type that would open up your spouse's or s/o's mail?


There was never a problem with doing so if it was a bill or something. But if it was something like an obvious birthday card or a letter from her family, I wouldn't.

If the mail was addressed to the both of you, would you go ahead and open it, or would you just go ahead and let them have at it?

I had to reread this question three times to make sure I got it right as it appeared to be quite irrelevant, but maybe I was missing something. I did, indeed, read it correctly the first time.

If the mail was addressed to someone else, like a neighbor, and the postal worker accidently delivered it to your house, would you open it? Also, would you walk it over to your neighbor?


No, I wouldn't intentionally open it. If it is nearby like across the street or next door, I put it in their mail box or deliver it. If it is on another street, I just leave it in the mailbox and put the flag up.
flavorbuster

Apr 28 @ 9:17PM  
Nope
onehornytoad69

Apr 28 @ 9:50PM  
No, I would Not Care!!
If She is my S O...she is a part of me!!! I Love deeply!! Whats mine.... is hers....!! (and Hopefully whats hers is Mine!!!)
StraddleMyNose

Apr 28 @ 11:13PM  
Nope
Wow, a man of few words. I thought that you would have a little more to say other than just nope.

I asked in the blog:
If the mail was addressed to the both of you, would you go ahead and open it, or would you just go ahead and let them have at it?

Bruce wrote:
I had to reread this question three times to make sure I got it right as it appeared to be quite irrelevant, but maybe I was missing something. I did, indeed, read it correctly the first time.

It was easy to understand. Not sure why you had a problem with the question...
1bunny629

Apr 29 @ 1:43AM  
I have nothing to hide...never cared...never will...
flavorbuster

Apr 29 @ 8:28AM  
Wow, a man of few words. I thought that you would have a little more to say other than just nope.
I think I owe you something. > .....
KitKat25

Apr 29 @ 11:20PM  
I have nothing to hide...but I prefer to open any cards or personal letters that are addressed to me. My SO can open all the bills and junk mail he wants.

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Do/would you care if your spouse or s/o opened your mail?