It should be people trying to fix what's wrong with this country not work against each other...
Exactly. That's why instead of using politics to decide something we should be using something more empirical such as political/social science. That way we avoid the bias that plagues partisan politics.
They think “free” is too be able to fill their wants and desires...
I cannot agree with this more. "Freedom" equates to responsibility, not entitlement and impunity.
...by taking money from the govt which is just stealing it from other Americans.
Then you had to ruin the point by saying this. The whole reason for living in a society in the first place is cooperation. Do you intend or have you used things like insurance? Social Security? Short-term unemployment? Do you believe for one moment that the money that is extracted from those things is the money you personally contributed to them? If you have experienced just one red cent from anything like that it's because of a complex social risk management system. The rest of society works in just the same way. If you don't like it, then stop using the system (and that includes the Internet) and become a hermit.