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  Lisa46

Did you ever think you'd be single at your age? I have been in love only once in my life, lust don't count. I've been proposed to twice or was it three times? I said no, in my heart I knew it wasn't right. Now I wonder was I to picky? Is my expectations to high? At times I hate being alone and then others I'm grateful. But what about when you just need someone to talk to? I don't go out to bars maybe I should start? Or what about when you just need a good bout of hot sweaty sex? Its been so long I think I forgot how Oh well I'm having a pity party anyone wanna join in?

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Ewe_Wish

Apr 18 @ 2:23PM  
Aw honey.........Ill bring the popcorn No one should have a pity party alone...............

As for your question..........Nope I didn't think I would be.......I grew up believing that once you get married you stay married........for better or worse........worse was when he held me and our children hostage at gunpoint.........he went to prison and I divorced him.........I have been married twice since then and became a widow with both marriages. I am not seeing a man and I love the relationship we have..........but we will never get married and thats exactly the way I want it.............very seldom does life end up the way we envisioned it being..............
onehornytoad69

Apr 18 @ 2:32PM  
Got a Extra seat there Lady?
I'm with ya 100%........! and No...When I got Married..I thought it was for Life!!!
Now under My circumstances...I can Only Remember what Love and Lust are all about!
ThePurpleProphet

Apr 18 @ 2:41PM  
It's been 9 years for since te last time I had sex. I don't my right hand. So I know exactly how you're feeling.
Dione

Apr 18 @ 3:37PM  
I was married for 21 years, divorced, married again for 10 years and now a widow... and I'm not 60 years old yet. So, nope, I didn't foresee this when I was younger. I have no idea what the future holds... I do my best to live in the NOW.
RJ53

Apr 18 @ 5:25PM  
I did not have a clue as life is what it is. I never owned a crystal ball for the future.

I was thinking about out of 56 years I have been married a total of 8.5 years. There were a few good times but most of that time was really bad. Husband #1 forgot to tell me he was already married when he married me, husband #2 was hiding a serious drug addiction and #3 which lasted a very long 6 years was pretty miserable from the start because of a conflict of personalitles. 1 rigid military type + I laid back hippie does not = 2 happy people.

I thought I might be single at my age but who knows what is down the road.? I might meet someone who could change my mind about that or I might not. It is all good. I never rule anything out but by the same measure I never count on the unknown to be anything more than that.
Wordsofwit

Apr 18 @ 6:19PM  
I figured that when I got divorced at 29 I would find someone else. I found a lot of someone elses but not a happily ever after. Oh well. I don't give it much thought anymore.
RJ53

Apr 18 @ 6:46PM  
I figured that when I got divorced at 29 I would find someone else. I found a lot of someone elses but not a happily ever after. Oh well. I don't give it much thought anymore.

I don't dwell on it but it does come up now and again. You know the people who are shocked that I am 56 and single and keep asking me when I am going to get married again. Then in the next breath start bitching about what their husband or wife did or did not do. Like that is encouraging.
StraddleMyNose

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Apr 18 @ 7:46PM  
I never really thought of it because I never had a problem staying single the rest of my life.
KitKat25

Apr 18 @ 8:41PM  
I'm sorry you're having such a tough day Lisa.

I've been single for large chunks of my adult life...and I've had some of the same thoughts you mentioned in your blog. I think you have to live your life for you and find your own happiness. It's been my experience that you usually find someone along the way who makes your journey even sweeter.

Of course...sometimes they take their bloody sweet time to appear. It sure would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us when our SO would be arriving.
lunanegra

Apr 18 @ 10:35PM  
I never really thought of it because I never had a problem staying single the rest of my life.

Although you meant well, by your statement, I dont think that helped.
StraddleMyNose

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Apr 18 @ 10:41PM  
Did you ever think you'd be single at your age?

I was answering her question on this one. I didn't realize that I was suppose to help, Luna
StraddleMyNose

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Apr 18 @ 10:55PM  
What I should have also stated in my first comment on here is that when I did finally find the right person whom I want to spend the rest of my life with recently, I don't want to ever go back to single life ever again. At 43, I'm very glad I waiting for the right woman to come along.
alybai42

Apr 18 @ 11:01PM  
When I got a divorce I swore I would never get married again. I didn't want to go through that abuse again. I know not every man out there is like that but I was too scared to take another chance.

I was asked twice since then and said no. I knew deep down that is not what I wanted.

I like not being tied town so to speak. Yeah I have had long term relationships and to me it was just like being married without the paper.

I have loved and lost (just recently) and I sometimes wonder if I would of married him if he would of lived. I don't think so. He had a mind of his own and did what he wanted. I tried to help him just as I would of if we would of been married.

Now I just want to spend some time alone. I had a good man for the most part and it may take me a long time to find that again but I am not looking either.

Even when I was younger I never thought of marriage or being married. I do know I wanted a child and that I got out of my marriage. That was about the only thing I got out of it.

Sorry this blog is all about me..

*Pass the popcorn please
StraddleMyNose

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Apr 18 @ 11:10PM  
At 43, I'm very glad I waiting for the right woman to come along.

That should read waited. lol

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