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Is the shape of your body that important?

posted 1/3/2007 1:20:58 PM |
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Ok so I carry a few extra pounds, I am still a loving caring person looking for love. So many people take physical appearance as a persons only asset and never give the inner person a chance. Just cause a person is not phyically appealing to someone they turn their back on them never giving a second thought to whats on the inside of that person. How can people be so shallow?

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Jan 3 @ 1:58PM  
You know,,its a damn shame, but it is a matter of natural selection..I'll explain,,A woman or man walk into a bar,,,your choices are usually of locals,,and you must prove yourself in speech as well as looks all at the same time,,knowing that maybe not this weekend but she/he is local and if i see them again and they get to know me,,,there may be a chance,,,now!!..when the choices become an online world of thousands,,,even millions from all over the world and you can view and go after whatever you want in the thousands,,why not go for the gold..Why take time to know them, so much to choose from,,the first message was to short,,no pic,,they wrote an essay e-mail...mass delete and move on...Those like yourself that would probably treat a woman like gold fall behind,,,because there is the hope/posibility of finding your temperment and niceties in a better/more appealing are judged for the most part long before you have the time to prove yourself....and off they go..It is why I take it with a grain of salt and hope to find nothing more than one smile a day at a joke, or amusing comment and leave the dating to be done in real time....

I wish you the best of luck..

Jan 3 @ 2:11PM  
It's just the way some people are. It's annoying, but try to keep in shape and be active.

The first thing a person does is look at you. Attraction is vital for sex or dating. It's just natural.

Jan 3 @ 2:25PM  
That's the 100 million dollar question!!

Problem is, it's one that will NEVER be answered...truthfully!

I'm not normally a negative person...but...

Jan 3 @ 2:37PM  
I am as guilty as the next person for overlooking some one who is kind, caring and considerate just because of the way they look. As I have often said it is the persons looks that attracts us but what keeps us there is their personality.
I am no oil painting so women tend not to see who I am either but if you persevere you will find some one after all feint heart never won fair lady!
Be positive but be yourself and you never know what could happen.

Jan 3 @ 4:06PM  
I agree with Indyfem. To get anyone's attention, that person has to be attracted somewhat to your looks. Mostly everything else as far as inner beauty follows once you get to know them. I know there are a lot of shallow people out there that won't get involved with many people because of their looks. Bottom line is, beauty fades away over time, stupidity and shallowness is is forever.

Jan 3 @ 5:13PM  
Well I think I have to disagree, everyones opinion on looks are different. It is not physical looks that attract me, but more personality, I understand that there has to be a connection there, but that comes in many different forms. No matter what I say here it is not going to come out the way I would like, so I will stop here. But looks do not make the person. Really wish I could word it different.

Jan 3 @ 6:53PM  
You can't deny that physical attraction plays a part. You can call it shallowness or you can recognize it as a fact of life. It's not a politically correct point of view but reality is what it is. People can pontificate all day about inner versus outer beauty but in the end what counts is what they really feel. But then different people have different conceptions of beauty and I don't think for most people a few extra pounds is necessarily a deal breaker. The nice thing though about this site is that we have a chance to let our inner selves shine through and offset any physical imperfections we may have.

Jan 3 @ 9:37PM  
There is that initial attraction, it is mostly what we see at first, then we get to know more. It also can work the other way, maybe you get to know someone here without their photo, or seeing just body parts. Then you get to know them better and the weight is not important. Look around and everywhere you will see people carrying many extra pounds and in relationships.

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