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I continue to be a lightening rod for people that take things personally. One of my biggest points of dismay is people that take things personally on this site, or whatever site they are on, with anger management issues that they need to address as unreslolved personal problems.

Nobody should give damn what anyone says in cyber space, Does it matter if somebody doesn't like you a thousand miles away? I hope not for the sake of one's sanity.

At times we all face issues where we react, sometimes over react. But do we need to, right then/right now? Often not. It isn't like Pearl Harbor. Often individuals are very passionate people. That is a double edged sword that cuts both ways. There is rarely a need to respond immediately. Is there truly significance of magnitude? Though against our nature, restraint with measure is difficult to do.

Some people are taking actions that go far beyond realistic reasons for personal involvement. In reality it is a non issue. If somebody expresses a contrary opinion, so what? People need to let it go. After all, it is only just one person posting that is probably hundreds, maybe over a thousand away.

I think we all sometimes lose our sense of perspective. Let me put this into simpler terms; is there any realistic reason any of us need to give a damn what a stranger thinks that resides a thousand miles away? Hell, no. But to varying degrees we do.


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tassie1

Mar 4 @ 4:03AM  
from where I live, most everyone is over a thousand miles away
but yeah , i get ya point.
kudo's for a thought provoking blog
girlcountry

Mar 4 @ 7:42AM  
couldn't agree more, Bruce!!
frogprincess

Mar 4 @ 7:47AM  
It's a learning curve. They will take it seriously until they know that it's a non matter, and then, after a spell, they'll "get it".
Good blog!
lunanegra

Mar 4 @ 7:54AM  
I know....I know ..although I'm pretty sure this blog isnt related to me.

Your insight is the very thing that keeps me from throwing my computer out the window sometimes...that and not being able to afford another.
RevDocLove

Mar 4 @ 8:43AM  
Fuck 'em if they can't take a joke
ThePurpleProphet

Mar 4 @ 9:02AM  
Hey Bruce. I left because you were blogging about now I come back to see you're still blogging about me. I just can't get a break.

How ya been, buddy?
themama

Mar 4 @ 9:17AM  
Kudos to you Bruce...
flavorbuster

Mar 4 @ 10:05AM  
Bitch Fuck
I've had to grudge fuck a bitch a time or two.
Does it matter if somebody doesn't like you a thousand miles away?
It shouldn't & you make key points Bruce but I'm curious to know what brought this on ?
Ewe_Wish

Mar 4 @ 11:23AM  
I don't know that there is one person here who can say they never overreacted..........if something hits a person personally its human nature to react....................I have overreacted many times..........whether someone wants to believe it or not, and whether the person lives 1 mile a way or 10000 miles away............words can hurt..........no matter who they are from..................

That being said.........I have no clue what inspired this blog.......frankly I don't care.......I didn't even bother to log in last night after I saw that ever other blog Whapper had taken space up on and I didn't feel like trying to find a good blog (good in my opinion) but just one question...........by writing a blog about someone who overreacted to something you said............is that not also an over reaction?

I do agree with alot of what you said..........tho as I said I do believe that people will react to what someone says no matter if they know them or not........strangers online are really no different than strangers in person............If someone came up to me that I didn't know and said something like did you know that its been found that all red heads are of low intelligence............do you think that I wouldn't react?

Human nature.......my friend............its to what degree that I overreact is what worries me..........but inspires me to look deep into myself and come to the conclusion..........who gives a fuck?

Kudos
StraddleMyNose

Mar 4 @ 11:28AM  
I have always thought that people should treat others as they would treat them face to face and in person. Just because someone is exchanging emails behind the keyboard with someone else doesn't mean one has to be rude and disrespectful to that person. I know there are a lot of sensitive people out, and some do take it to extremes and a bit too personal, but I also know there's a lot of people that come off as jerks and assholes behind the keyboard as well. I think those people also need to learn to tone it down and be a little more respectful to others.

Typo in my last previous comment. Please delete the other one.

Btw, I don't think I triggered this blog either. It's been a while since Bruce and I have butted heads on here.
flavorbuster

Mar 4 @ 11:41AM  
Btw, I don't think I triggered this blog either.
Maybe not but you do have a hair trigger on them blogs. You & Whapper are almost neck & neck on the page. Yep popping them out like Orville Redenbacher ....
somnium

Mar 4 @ 12:09PM  
Let me put this into simpler terms; is there any realistic reason any of us need to give a damn what a stranger thinks that resides a thousand miles away?

By itself? No!! Problem is, that if a rude comment (whether by someone down the street or 2,000 miles away) is made in a blog by someone who vehemently disagrees with the blog subject, or a comment in the author's blog, it gets broadcasted for the entire world to see- making the attackee, feel belittled for everyone to see- in their mind anyway- even if they're right to begin with!

This is the reason, IMO, that some people may react in a knee-jerk reaction! Blogs are meant to present someone's thoughts on a particular subject (pick a subject) with other people's opinions, being brought into the discussion regarding the author's subject or someone else's comment! That is what acting like an adult in any discussion is about!

This is the reason behind using emails to settle differences or, at least try to! Even there, some people (myself included... once) may lambaste someone but, at least it's private!

JMO


Wordsofwit

Mar 4 @ 12:27PM  
My sentiments have been brewing for quite some time. I don't feel that it is appropriate to make an inference as to who specifically motivated me to post this. But in reality it is you, me, everyone.

I will say that my decision to post this was not driven by anybody that has made a comment. It is not something I want to escalate but rather something I want to stop.

Don't we all have enough important significant factors in our lives that may create challenges, sadness, frustration, and a thousand other adjectives?

Anger management Issues with misplaced priorities and over reaction gets me to wondering about some people.

Even now, I ponder the remote possibility that the person that prompted me to write this, will read it and get agitated. Then, seething with anger, takes off in their car, gets cut off by somebody not paying attention, and the anger boils over into road rage leading to 15 seconds of fame on the local evening news.
soft_touch938

Mar 4 @ 12:31PM  


WASN'T ME THIS TIME.....

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was it???

I have been a little gnarly lately and I think my mind's going so maybe I just don't remember...
selectusername

Mar 4 @ 12:42PM  
From the title, I thought this was a BDSM blog!
Wordsofwit

Mar 4 @ 12:45PM  
I am not going to reply to everybody in email as I have gotten a lot of emails. I do thank you for your sentiments and a lot of the comments make some very valid points.

We cannot control what another person does, but we can control our response to it.
RJ53

Mar 4 @ 3:07PM  
I just have the block button and I know how to use it. Saves me from prolonged irritation over things. Does not matter who they are. I always figure I have enough real life drama without getting more online. There was a day when I would have declared all out war on someone who pissed me off, in real life or online ( Hey I am Lakota and Irish what do you expect?) but these days I usually just remove myself from the situation and take whatever steps I think are necessary to remove myself from the situation on a permanant basis. I don't answer them back, I fnd that silence says enough sometimes. I see my life online as a pleasant escape from my day to day problems which are very real. Just do not think I need more problems or have to watch everything I say because someone's feelers are going to get stepped on. At that point it becomes just not worth all the hassle. If someone wants to have a bitch fest as far as I am concerned it is going to be a party for one.

Good blog. And a greenie for you.
sugarnspice005

Mar 4 @ 10:41PM  
Well, this is an interesting blog. Hey, I know I've reacted/overreacted on occasion, it's like Ewe says, human nature. Do I care about what some person 1 thousand miles away thinks/says? Depends....if it's some faceless person on here I haven't seen on here before, no. Someone I consider a good friend on here...then yes, I do care. With that said, no, my world will not come to an end if a friend on here has a different point of view than I have. Face it, if we all agreed all of the time, it would get really boring really fast. Differences of opinion is wonderful, I like seeing different views on things.

KitKat25

Mar 21 @ 11:49PM  
I see my life online as a pleasant escape from my day to day problems which are very real. Just do not think I need more problems or have to watch everything I say because someone's feelers are going to get stepped on. At that point it becomes just not worth all the hassle. If someone wants to have a bitch fest as far as I am concerned it is going to be a party for one.

I agree with RJ to a large extent. I also feel we should not go out of our way to hurt those people we know to be overly sensitive. Careful wording is sometimes in order. Yes...at times...it can be a bit of a balancing act...and a huge pain in the arse. At this moment...I'm reminded of something my mom used to say to me a lot while growing up..."You can't please everyone so do the best you can".

Kudos on a good Blog WoW. I'm sorry I'm so late with my comment.

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