funnywhapper
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Feb 5 @ 6:43PM
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sounds odd but here we all are, sleeping in eternity with zillions of others.
not right on top of one another but uh.....
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RJ53
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Feb 5 @ 6:44PM
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I don't lie and I don't answer that question not because of the number, but because I do not think that is anyone's business but mine. I usually just say enough to know what I am doing and let it go at that.
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whisperingcomet
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Feb 5 @ 6:47PM
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LOL Kat, it seems our minds are on the same page tonite, as we posted blogs about the number of partners moments apart!
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lunanegra
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Feb 5 @ 6:51PM
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Its a ridiculous double standard between men and women and the number of sexual partners they have had. I figure as long as people play safe and responsibly, who cares about who had more?
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Dione
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Feb 5 @ 6:55PM
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First, it isn't anyone's business. Second, I was a very late bloomer so I didn't have any additional partners until after my divorce at 42. After that there were a couple... so we are talking a single digit. Then I remarried and now a widow... I've been almost convent novitiate material since then...LOL! I don't feel right about lying... so IF the right person asks the question I answer honestly. If it's the wrong person asking I respond with my first statement.
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ksk72
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Feb 5 @ 6:59PM
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This question doesn't bother me. I dont lie and I dont really care what others think. I like my life and how I have lived it and if someone else doesnt like it tough they can move on. But I really dont know the answer either all I can say is over 100 and under 200.
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ynot7769
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Feb 5 @ 7:17PM
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why should i lie/?? i mean why let a lie come between me and a special woman...tho why even ask each other?? past is past..the FUTURE is what counts... 
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whisperingcomet
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Feb 5 @ 7:20PM
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I guess I about with ksk...more than one hundred...less than two  ....
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girlcountry
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Feb 5 @ 7:22PM
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I'd have to go with Ynot on this one....hubby has never asked me and I've never asked him...don't want to know!! 
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rdsingle
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Feb 5 @ 7:36PM
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Dont tell. But definately not enough to brag about. 
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ynot7769
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Feb 5 @ 7:49PM
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he he he he ...don't lie...key is ''enough to know what i'm doing'' 
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NightOfOld
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Feb 5 @ 7:57PM
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Why Lie.? 11 that I can think of.
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sugarnspice005
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Feb 5 @ 8:19PM
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Lies are a waste of time. And, that is my own personal business that I only share with my s/o if he asks. 
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StraddleMyNose
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Feb 5 @ 9:03PM
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Nah, I'm actually quite proud with the actual number of women I have slept with over the years. I don't just sleep around with anyone. They have to be someone very special and mean something to me. I have only slept with 6 women. 
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somnium
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Feb 5 @ 9:45PM
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To lie about that (if asked) or something else, is the beginning of a precarious relationship IMO! She just needs to know if I'm experienced enough to know that I certainly have been with others through the years and that a 'phuck' count, is irrelevant! 
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alybai42
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Feb 5 @ 10:05PM
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I can't count that high  
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theSkwirl
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Feb 5 @ 10:28PM
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I don't lie.. I just never kept score.. so I dunno the answer.. it's more than three.. less than all of em.
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casuallylooking
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Feb 5 @ 11:18PM
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I would never lie about it,but I feel it's irrelevant and no ones business. Everyone has a past and that's where it should stay.... in their past.
I just want to be the last one he ever has sex with......unless I die before him.
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DesertSmile
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Feb 5 @ 11:49PM
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I don't lie because I would never answer that question.
Back in the day when I was actually looking for a friendship if a new aquaintance asked me "so, how has the website worked for you, any hookups" that was our final conversation.
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buatbu
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Feb 6 @ 6:41AM
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I would change the question to either "How many people did you sleep with that are still close friends?" or "How many people did you sleep with that you really love?" I think what you are asking is more of a physical thing not an emotional thing.
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Lisa46
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Feb 6 @ 9:04AM
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You know in my relationships that question has never came up. But if it does I will probably say none of your business. Like Ynot said what is past is just that past, but I can smile when I remember 
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RevDocLove
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Feb 6 @ 9:22AM
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the number of people you have slept with?
As a rule I didn't sleep with very many,
just the ones who weren't one night stands..
Sex??? More than I can remember..But also remember I'm
getting old and don't recall some things very well  
I'm entitled to forget 
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Ewe_Wish
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Feb 6 @ 9:59AM
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I don't lie because I would never answer that question.
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1bunny629
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Feb 6 @ 2:19PM
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I would never ask someone that queation and feel it is a private matter. I can't lie, cause I don't remember.
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dmbchick420
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Feb 6 @ 3:40PM
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I don't lie...I just don't tell
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KitKat25
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Feb 6 @ 6:37PM
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Well...it appears like the majority of us don't like this question...and even feel it is inappropriate to ask. I couldn't agree more.
I wish I had had more confidence when I was in my 20's. Then maybe I wouldn't have caved into peer pressure one evening while having drinks with a group of girls. Oh well...live and learn right?
I'm happy to say I no longer have this problem and either change the subject very quickly when it comes up...or tell the person it's none of their beeswax. 
Thanks so much for all the great comments and opinions peeps. 
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Wordsofwit
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Feb 6 @ 7:16PM
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No need to lie or deny. To understand one's past makes them into what they are today. That is important in my opinion. It is often a cultural thing influenced by one's environment. Let's just say that my name is not Andy and I never lived in Mayberry.
Okay, estimated playmates, one night stands, girlfriends, wife, and insignificant others total to between eighty and one hundred. I grew up in LA, was not in a monogamous relationship until I got married at thirty in 1981. So previous years included the hippie and disco eras when you were expected to fuck everybody, thankfully! I got divorced at forty. In my forties, the women were fun!!! Many had their kids out of the house and were ready to make up for lost time due to being mom.
In their fifties, I have found women to be more demanding and less fun so I have sat out the dating scene by and large. Specifically, far too many seem to want a guy to do what they want to do. Going to craft fairs, garage sales, romantic comedy flicks, and watching Dancing With the Stars is not my idea of a good time.
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StraddleMyNose
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Feb 6 @ 9:50PM
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No need to lie or deny. To understand one's past makes them into what they are today.
I can agree with this statement
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DickSlippery
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Feb 7 @ 6:38AM
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Depends on who is doing the asking, I suppose...
DS 
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77inchestall
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Feb 7 @ 5:02PM
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no.. I don't lie.... Just can't remember them all.
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JingleBallRock
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Mar 7 @ 10:12PM
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I don't lie about it cuz I honestly don't know the answer to it. I've never gone for the "notch in the bedpost" mentality so I never kept count. All I say is I've been with enough to have a wide and versatile range of experience. Learned some nifty tricks along the way
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