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  KitKat25

I am not a cougar!

Apparently, there are a lot of guys out there who need to be educated on this matter because there seems to be a bit of confusion surrounding this term. Some guys seem to think that if a lady is in her 30's or 40's and she is dating a guy who is a year or two younger than herself...it automatically makes her a cougar. This is simply not true.

Those misguided souls can refer to the definition listed below.

Cougar: A woman over 40 who sexually pursues younger men, typically more than eight years her junior.

Listed below is a list of sexual relationship slang terms that I found on Wikipedia. I thought it might be fun to play "What Are You" in Pervia.

Cougar: A woman over 40 who sexually pursues younger men, typically more than eight years her junior.

Cradle robber or cradle snatcher: A person involved with a much younger individual.

Cub: The younger male who is supposedly going out with an older woman, often used with the term Cougar. The term is also often used in the gay community along with the term "bear". While normally used to refer to a partner under 30, this is not a prerequisite.

Gold digger: Someone (typically a female) who develops a relationship with a much older partner for primarily financial reasons, especially to inherit the partner's wealth upon death (which is expected to come soon).

Jailbait: A sexually attractive female who is below the legal age of consent. This designation connotes enticement to endanger oneself of being prosecuted for statutory rape.

Lolita: A sexually precocious girl who is the object of desire of a significantly older man.

May-December romance: A relationship in which the age differential between the two adults is wide enough to risk social disapproval.

Manther: The male version of a cougar. From the portmanteau of man and panther.

MILF (an acronym of "Mother [or 'Mom'] I'd Like to Fuck"): A sexually desirable older woman, though not necessarily one who has children. The 'M' is replaced by 'G' (for 'Grandmother') in the case of women who are in their mid-50s or older, and/or are actual grandmothers; thus, GILF (or G-MILF). The male counterpart terms are DILF (an acronym of "Dad I'd Like to Fuck")–for Dad–within the gay community and FILF–for Father–in the straight community. Other variations have also been used - 2008 Republican Vice Presidential nominee Sarah Palin was described as a VPILF or GILF (Governor I'd Like to Fuck), although technically she was also a mother and a grandmother.

Puma: A woman in her late twenties and thirties who dates a younger man (i.e., 20-somethings), often considered to be "cougars-in-training". It also means Cougars whose age disparity is less than 8 years.

Silver fox: An attractive older male. Term commonly used within gay male communities.

Arctic Fox: A post-menopausal woman who pursues younger men.

Sugar baby: The person provided for by a sugar daddy/mommy.

Sugar daddy/mama/mommy: A rich, usually older person who offers money or gifts to a less rich, usually younger person in return for companionship or sexual favors. This differs from prostitution in that the older person is usually the sole financial provider to the younger person. In Japan, there is a loosely similar practice known as enjo kosai.

Toy boy/Boy toy: A much younger boyfriend or husband of an older woman. In male-male relationships, a toy boy (sometimes toy boi) characterizes the one who is (and usually enjoys being) used for sexual gratification.

So Pervia...What are you?

If your definition is not listed...please feel free to add your own definition when commenting.

Me? I've had a May-December romance in the past...and I'm considered a MILF by some people...but I am NOT...nor have I ever been a cougar.

Your turn...

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RevDocLove

Jan 30 @ 7:14AM  
I'm a SSC
ynot7769

Jan 30 @ 7:49AM  
i'm just ME

tho i've been the boy toy b4....and i've certainly known my share of MILF's
Sunshine79

Jan 30 @ 7:59AM  
Probably the Lolita or MILF, lol

That was a cute blog!
RJ53

Jan 30 @ 8:40AM  
I have dated a guy 18 years younger, I have dated someone 20 years older just depends on what we have in common. So I guess I am just myself.
maxximuss1967

Jan 30 @ 8:46AM  
SO A WOMAN 35 CAN DATE A 19 YEAR OLD AND NOT BE A COUGAR?
KitKat25

Jan 30 @ 9:06AM  
RevDoc: I'm not sure what SSC stands for.

ynot: Of course you are you...that is truer than true...there's no one alive who is youer than you. Oh...and I can totally see the boy toy thing...cuz your just so darn cute.

Sunshine: A Lolita huh? Very interesting.

RJ: I agree...having things in common is way more important than a number.

Max:
SO A WOMAN 35 CAN DATE A 19 YEAR OLD AND NOT BE A COUGAR?

This woman would be called a Puma...or a cougar-in-training.
DesertSmile

Jan 30 @ 9:20AM  
I guess this makes me a GILF who is has passed the Cougar stage and is now considering becoming and Artic Fox but still dreams of the days when I was a Lolita.
KitKat25

Jan 30 @ 9:35AM  
RevDoc:
I'm not sure what SSC stands for.

You're absolutely right...you're definitely a Sexy Senior Citizen.

DesertSmile: Cute answer.
StraddleMyNose

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Jan 30 @ 9:50AM  
Very interesting blog, KitKat. However, I thought that a "Cougar" was a woman at least 18-20 years older than the young male, and not so much 8.
dmbchick420

Jan 30 @ 9:58AM  
MILF
dmbchick420

Jan 30 @ 9:59AM  
I was always told a Cougar was a woman 35 and up that liked younger men. Guess not! I guess I got a few more years than to upgrade to Cougar status
StraddleMyNose

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Jan 30 @ 10:01AM  
So Pervia...What are you?

If your definition is not listed...please feel free to add your own definition when commenting.

Oh, I forgot to mention this part in my previous comment. I'm a "Humansextoy" .

j/k
Dione

Jan 30 @ 10:25AM  
Good blog. Personally I avoid 'labels' of this kind, in part, due to some of the misconceptions that are displayed here...JMO.

However, if I apply any label to myself it's FREE... I'm free to be anything I want to be anytime I choose. It's liberating, fun and makes me happy!
DickSlippery

Jan 30 @ 10:39AM  
IM A WHIG, MOTHAFUCKAS!!!


VOTE WHIG BITCH!

DS
dmbchick420

Jan 30 @ 10:41AM  
IM A WHIG, MOTHAFUCKAS!!!

Would someone please tell me what a "whig" is? I have seen that term around here and I don't know what it means..... I feel stupid asking, but someone please enlighten me
selectusername

Jan 30 @ 11:33AM  
RevDocLove

Jan 30 @ 12:24PM  
FREE... I'm free to be anything I want to be anytime

I'm not free but I AM reasonable
somnium

Jan 30 @ 12:37PM  
Well... I guess that makes me a Manther then but wouldn't mind a few Lolitas sprinkled around here and there!

lunanegra

Jan 30 @ 1:41PM  
Puma: A woman in her late twenties and thirties who dates a younger man (i.e., 20-somethings), often considered to be "cougars-in-training". It also means Cougars whose age disparity is less than 8 years.

Well, if the shoe fits...get it? Shoe? Puma is a brand of shoe, and I'm..

Aw fuck it.
ksk72

Jan 30 @ 2:02PM  
None of the above really... I m 37 an my man is 33. So I am not old enough to be a cougar yet and though my man is younger and I call him my young stud the age differance isnt that much. Must be stuck in the middle
but I have been in the past jailbait, lolita, gold digger, sugar baby, milf
aftershox

Jan 30 @ 2:02PM  
I am just a MILF although I am old enough to be a GILF. I am also A SAM* and a SUB*

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*Smart Assed Masochist
* Submissive
aspiringwriter

Jan 30 @ 7:43PM  
Would someone please tell me what a "whig" is? I have seen that term around here and I don't know what it means.....

Outside of Pervia, the Whigs are an archaic political party. In America, if I recall correctly (which I rarely do), they were associated with the Federalists and opposed the Democratic Republicans. I think they favored a strong central gov't. Either way, the last Whig president (and last Whig candidate) was John Quincy Adams and they haven't existed since the early 1800's. In the UK, they opposed the Tories (that much I know) and favored (I think, but don't know) the Parliament over the crown. The point was rendered moot some time in the 19th century and they vanished.

In Pervia, Dick Slippery has run in multiple "elections" as a whig candidate. He's used the slogan "Vote Whig, bitches!" for quite some time. I recall him running against Canu/Billy in some sort of ad hoc nonsense during the '08 election. Beyond that, anything is before my time, though I suspect the whigs ran against the the Erectivists at some point for something. Either way, whigs are just Dick Slippery and those that like his blogs.

Cougar: A woman over 40 who sexually pursues younger men, typically more than eight years her junior.

The important thing to me in the term cougar is the idea of being on the prowl. I think the term crossed over into the mainstream and as is frequently the case lost all merit in the process. When I first heard it the term was only applicable to the bar scene. It described older women who would go out and aggressively pursue guys who were significantly younger. It was inherently derogatory.

I hate the term Lolita, for a wide variety of reasons, and don't like it when people use it. Just sayin'.

As far as the question goes, I'm too eclectic in my tastes to really describe them in a word.

KitKat25

Jan 30 @ 8:44PM  
Dione:
FREE... I'm free to be anything I want to be anytime I choose.

Yep...labels can definitely be a pain in the arse. I really like your outlook on life. It certainly does beat labels like MILF or cougar.

dmbchick: OMG...you're such a cougar wannabe.

Would someone please tell me what a "whig" is?

A 19th-century American political party formed to oppose the Democratic Party and favoring high tariffs and a loose interpretation of the Constitution.

School is now dismissed.

Somnium:
I guess that makes me a Manther

Well...if the shoe fits...

luna: Yeah...yeah...yeah...someone's a funnygirl today.

ksk:
I have been in the past jailbait, lolita, gold digger, sugar baby, milf

Holy Smokes! You've been a busy gal.

aftershox:
I am also A SAM* - *Smart Assed Masochist

Hmmm...I've never heard this one.

AW: Thanks for taking the the time to post this information!
tassie1

Jan 31 @ 6:34AM  
weeeell, i do know a certain sex-assed CILF
Ewe_Wish

Jan 31 @ 10:54AM  
I too have had the May to December romance.........that in itself proposes more problems than just social out cast.........and in my opinion very rarely works out in the long term..........

but as for the rest........I guess none apply.........just a happy middle age woman who goes with an equally happy middle age man...........I don't see any changes to that role any time in the future...........

cute blog.....kudos
bustybettyboop

Feb 1 @ 5:50PM  
i've been told i'm a milf but sometimes i've been known to do the cougar thing! *wink*
lkb66

Feb 2 @ 1:43PM  
I guess I would be Manther or FILF but have known many Lolita's
chuck111

Feb 3 @ 9:02PM  
i dont want to tell you what i have been called haha

chuck

love to the ladys
chuck111

Apr 18 @ 6:49PM  
i am a kind and gentle person.and love all ladys

chuck

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