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  Ewe_Wish

Per Whisper's request, I went through some of my old blogs, As I have deleted them over the years I am grateful I kept most of them, and enjoy going through and reading them to see how things have changed since I wrote them. Its hard when I have had so many blogs to pick just one............but this is one of my favorites.........I thought I would share it with you ....again LOL This was written in November 2007.

I was born emotionally........without any understanding of why!

I have been told I am emotional because i am a woman..............that due to the estrogen levels in my body.........which can cause a rollar coaster of emotions to come around and influence my thinking..............Yet I have met a lot of
women in my time who are not emotional creatures or at least not as much apparenly as I can be and yet I wouldn't want to be the one to suggest I have a higher estrogen level than they do. Nor would I want to be the one to say they don't have the deepest of feelings that i do.

I have been told I am emotional because I have an analytical mind...........I don't see things in black and white...........I look for the grey areas to explain or validate my beliefs.......Yet i have met men who were just as analytical and maybe
more so............that were not emotional...........and I have seen men who were emotional that only saw the black and white in any situation.

It has been suggested that I am emotional because I am a mother...............Yet I have seen mothers that were cold and unemotional...........so the fact that I was able to develop and carry a baby inside of me...........really has no
reasoning behind being emotional...........And although men can father children..........they cannot experience the feeling of carrying that child deep inside them......forming them to be born as a son or daughter.............and yet I have seen men who cried as they put their son or daughter on the bus for their first day of school........

I was told that I am emotional because I am immature..........well I would never disagree that I don't have immature qualities about me..............but I am not sure being immature will explain why when I think of a time that a young man
picked me wild flowers and brought them to be when i was 12 and sick with the flu, it still brings tears to my eyes.

I do know that for a long time when someone would tell me I was emotional, I took it as an insult.....Somehow they were saying I was weak and couldn't handle life.........today I realize that being emotional for me opens the doors to
feelings that I may not feel if I was a person who didn't have strong emotions, that didn't allow their heart to rule them............today being emotional is a part of who I am and for whatever reason there is that I am emotional i am not
upset about it............

Being emotional opens up a lot of things that I might have missed if I had went thru life not putting much effort into what my heart felt.............

I would never have known the joy of watching my children learn to walk...............and the knowledge that it can still bring tears to my eyes today.

I would never have known the feeling of that first great love...........and would give up the hope that it could be there once again for me.

I would never have cared when I lost a friend..........nor would It please me to find that someone who walked out of my life still worries about me today as i do them.

I would never cry thru a sad movie.................and be grateful for the happy ending............which offers us hope..............

I would never be able to look at a newborn......tears in my eyes as I prayed for a wonderful safe future........being emotional allows me to do that with all living things.

I would never be able to remember sending my young son off to war and the tears I cried over that...........the tears I still cry over that........not just for my son but for all of our military personnel.............

I would only be able to remember the pain i felt when I lost my mother........instead of being grateful for the time I had with her......to this day, there are times, I can still hear her voice say good job, Dayna...........and my eyes fill with tears.........thank God for being emotional, it keeps my mother alive for me..............

Yes being emotional is a good thing for me, most of the time. tho of course thru life I probably should have used my common sense more than what my heart felt to save from getting hurt..........yet in each time I got hurt I learned a
valuable lesson.........so was it wrong to go with those emotions?

Yesterday I was very emotional:
It brought tears to my eyes that a friend I hadn't gotten to talk to in a week told me I love you beautiful and then we spent over an hour on the phone just talking about what was going on with each other...........Thank you Sam.

It brought tears to my eyes.............when my son who is 23 yrs old called......and we caught up with what has been going on the last few days and finally i said so whats up son? and he said nothing just wanted you to know I love you..........

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Ewe_Wish

Jan 24 @ 2:03PM  
I got emotional and cried when I heard that there was a rumor going around about me here amongst people I called friends...............and later realized that it was a unfounded rumor by people who dont even know what is going on in my life right now............and hey when they are talking behind my back it just shows i am already a couple steps a head of them........that's probably the basis for the rumor anyways........jealousy usually is...........

I got emotional when my 2 yr old granddaughter called me last night to tell me I come to see you Nana..............and to
have the knowledge that in less than 3 weeks i will hold her in my arms............

I like being emotional..............it means I have feelings and a heart.............it means that sometimes I will cry when others would see no reason for it but i do, it means that somedays i take to heart what people say to me........when i should probably ignore them........but it also shows i have a heart enough to care............being emotional can mean a person can react out in many forms........perhaps in tears, perhaps in anger, perhaps with sadness, joy, or defeat............but at least being emotional makes you want to make things better.........to be reminded of the good times............hopes of changing the bad times and believing in one self..................I am glad I am
emotional..................


Today and everyday, I am emotional and my eyes fill with tears as I think of the love and devotion our veterans......from all wars past and present..........offer our Country..........I salute all of you and Thank You................May all who are serving active duty right now and any of
you heading there in the future.............my prayer is that you come home safe and sound to a Country that loves you...............
whisperingcomet

Jan 24 @ 2:10PM  
no wonder that a favorite!...great blog
NightOfOld

Jan 24 @ 2:48PM  

Yes that was aq good one. I always liked it too Dayna. Greenie.
StraddleMyNose

Jan 24 @ 6:27PM  
Very good blog!
KitKat25

Jan 24 @ 6:36PM  
I do know that for a long time when someone would tell me I was emotional, I took it as an insult.....Somehow they were saying I was weak and couldn't handle life.........today I realize that being emotional for me opens the doors to
feelings that I may not feel if I was a person who didn't have strong emotions, that didn't allow their heart to rule them............today being emotional is a part of who I am and for whatever reason there is that I am emotional i am not
upset about it............

I REALLY loved this blog. The above paragraph really spoke to me Thanks so much for sharing this one Dayna.
soft_touch938

Jan 24 @ 8:25PM  
From one emotion person to another...Good blog...
sugarnspice005

Jan 24 @ 9:13PM  
I remember reading this blog.

I too can be emotional. And yes, I blame the estrogen. I admit it, I cried as a kid at the end of Old Yeller, and I cried at the end of Marley and Me. I'm soft when it comes to animals, especially dogs.

I remember crying when Mom had Princess Diana's funeral on and Elton John sang "Goodbye England's Rose". That song today will still get me to tear up.
theSkwirl

Jan 24 @ 10:03PM  
I was born nekkid. I'm just sayin.....
ladybootscooter

Jan 25 @ 12:33AM  
shiny green thingy.......again for this blog!

I was born nekkid. I'm just sayin.....


BTW .......thanks alot my lil squirrely girly......I just sprayed diet coke all over my keyboard!!!
casuallylooking

Jan 25 @ 3:44AM  
My daughter tells me I have gotten overly sentimental and sappy in my old age, but I think I've just bottled my emotions for so many years that they overflow at times now.
It took me a really long time to realize and accept that that's not a bad thing.

Green cookie for this one for sure.
maxximuss1967

Jan 26 @ 2:48PM  
I tear up when I see a real nice ass......

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I Was Born Emotional..... Repost