Can someone offer me some advice here? I've done all I know to do to on this site, but building the friend base and actually talking to people is BEYOND slow. I have posted blogs, participated in forums, send dozens of e-mails, and gladly sent face pics to anyone that has asked. I honestly don't know what else to do.
I'm on the edge of giving up on this site, unless someone can offer some helpful advice. Ladies, there have GOT to be more of you on here than this.
J
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read more blogs!
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 19 @ 2:15AM
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I have posted blogs It may take a little longer than you posting only 3 blogs on here. You need to post a little more and let people get to know you in them. Over time, you may actually start seeing results. JMHO
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selectusername
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Jan 19 @ 2:16AM
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Join a paysite like AFF. This one is just a small group of
regulars blogging and talking to each other. 
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drcocktail87
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Jan 19 @ 3:01AM
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Quite possibly one of the reasons you're not getting any responses is your settings.
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tassie1
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Jan 19 @ 4:55AM
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just annoy the hell out of everyone, at least they remember who you are ...
works for me,  
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lunanegra
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Jan 19 @ 7:17AM
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"Have no expectations", thats my honest 2ยข. Its really the luck of the draw for most of us, and some of us keep trudging along.
Also, not too many women will pick up on the married-thing. Maybe try your luck at a married-people only website? No offense.
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Sunshine79
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Jan 19 @ 7:23AM
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Sorry babe.....just a handful of us real ones are left here. I hope you do stay join in on the blogs & forums. Eventually, you'll get sucked in (or sucked on,lol)
And if I were closer.....I'm sure you know I'd help ya out!! 
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soft_touch938
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Jan 19 @ 9:03AM
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It isn't easy but don't get discouraged. This is kind of an odd time in the blogs so you aren't deliberately being overlooked. Maybe a little more participation in the blogs so people can get to know you...read and comment....that usually helps.
Stick around awhile longer, I think you'll be glad you did. And welcome to Pervia... 
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soft_touch938
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Jan 19 @ 9:04AM
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Me again. You'll get more responses if you'll change your settings to auto approval of comments. People don't like to wait to see their comments come up.
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Dione
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Jan 19 @ 10:16AM
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I'm sure you've heard this before, but one reason for less action is because you are married. Whether it makes any sense or not that is a deal breaker for many women. And surprisingly enough it is the younger women, more than older ones, whom are turned off by that since they have their choice of men who do not come with potential complications.
If you haven't checked out other sex sites I suggest that you do so. You may find a more active platform and audience elsewhere. Otherwise, at AMD the real people can take a bit of time to warm up to new members... blame the scammers/spammers for a lot of the reticence. Of course, there is always the option of engaging with a professional which will result in instant gratification.
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playjay16
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Jan 19 @ 1:51PM
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Thanks to everyone. This was very helpful!
I'll try to post a little more and give people more time to get to know me.
I'll take a look at my settings and see what I can do about things.
I can't really do anything about being married, but thanks for the feedback!
*And Sunshine, if we were closer, you know I'd let you. ;)
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