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When were you at your sexiest?

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I suppose it's inevitable that as we age we look back at ourselves, at our past lives we do that "remember when" thing.

For me, today as I looked back at old photos, it was between 46-56. I was no longer that svelte 25 year old but was comfortable with my body and my refined sense of my own sensuality and it showed in my words, my actions and my confidence.

Don't get me wrong I still feel sexy for an almost 62 year old but the way I am now perceived is of course different and to be expected. Perhaps I don't "flaunt" as much as I once did and perhaps I can no longer pull an "all nighter" without napping but I can still wear out a partner if I choose to.

So I wonder, for you ladies, let's say over 40, at what age did you feel the sexiest and most appealing? For you ladies over 40 "the best is yet to come".

Oh...sorry, men you are free to comment as well. It might be interesting to see how men perceive themselves.

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Wordsofwit

Jan 17 @ 1:28PM  
I would say 40 to 45. My pictures chronicle my adult years, people can judge for themselves. Good post, greenie.
RJ53

Jan 17 @ 1:30PM  
For me it was 35 to 49. I did not look like a kid by then and knew what I wanted out of life. I think part of being sexy is attitude and liking who you see in the mirror and I don't mean just physical looks.
PinkToeNails

Jan 17 @ 1:38PM  
I haven't gotten there yet but it's coming soon!

1bunny629

Jan 17 @ 1:59PM  
I think it was 38, but I still hear that I am every now and then. I don't worry about it, I just go with the flow of my life and if someone happens to find me sexy, then good for us.
RevDocLove

Jan 17 @ 2:08PM  
I've never considered myself "sexy" in any way..
I did however, never want for sex in my 30's to mid 50's..
Of course as a teen with a popular band in LA in the 50's,
I never went went without for more than about 18 hours, by choice
somnium

Jan 17 @ 2:20PM  
When were you at your sexiest?

Right off I'd say, when I was born- I was completely nekkid then!


Actually, I'd say from my early 30s to my mid 50s- that's when I had the most sexual encounters- not counting my 2nd marriage then- I do try not to remember!

Yup... I would like to re-live those years though- any lady takers???


theSkwirl

Jan 17 @ 2:24PM  
When I feel sexy. Yeah, I don't have a time span cuz some days you do .. and some days you just really don't.
Dione

Jan 17 @ 3:17PM  
Before 50, I think 47 was my best, sexiest year. After 50, I'd have to say I'm happier with myself and feel more self-confident, therefore, sexier today than ever. Life is very good!
selectusername

Jan 17 @ 3:29PM  
No need to think back, I was never sexy.
lunanegra

Jan 17 @ 3:51PM  
Oh, I'm too young.

I'll brb in 20 years
aftershox

Jan 17 @ 4:18PM  
Now!

...still reminiscing over this last weekend,,, mmm...Glad wrap and hairpulling and hot sex... oh my!
frank747

Jan 17 @ 5:26PM  
liked your blog, but some of the comments make me start wondering about installin a lie detector on my computer.
of course pappa used to say that if it smelled that way it probly was. any way cant really tell if i have ever really had a sexy portion of life. have been ready to go at the drop of a hat. now momma used to say that all men had a little dog inthem, but when i turned 14, she revised that a little by sayin that i had a mighty big dog in me. befor cell phones i got more calls on the house phone than i could handle sometimes, even when mom would tell them i was out with someone else.
oh well, glad for cell phones today.
yourfacefits

Jan 17 @ 5:40PM  
Seventeen & again when I was thirty.
girlcountry

Jan 17 @ 5:59PM  
In my 20's and 30's...I looked sexy because I had a flat belly, good figure...but was I sexy? I would have to say no. Now? Well, I'm with Skwirl on this one...some days ya feel it and some ya don't!!
Dione

Jan 17 @ 6:14PM  
some of the comments make me start wondering about installin a lie detector on my computer.
If I happen to be one in question, here's my reasoning... When I was younger I was one of the nerdy/geeky girls and knew I had zero sex appeal or at least that's the way I felt about myself. There were a few men in my 20s-30s I worked with who said I was 'sexy', but they just wanted to fool around and I wasn't interested because I was married. For me, sex appeal is determined by how I feel about myself and I feel better about myself than I ever have before. However, that doesn't mean that anyone else considers me sexy in any way!
chocolatemilf

Jan 17 @ 7:02PM  
I think right now....I am a curvy girl...and I do not mind it one bit....everything is to MY liking, so others see that.........I make people smile because I am sexy and love knowing it!! I used to think that sexy was a size, but it's more in how you perceive yourself..........
KitKat25

Jan 17 @ 10:26PM  
I think for me, my sexiness has come in cycles. I can remember feeling quite sexy when I was around the age of 18...then again between the ages of 30 and 36. I think I'm currently embarking on a new "sexy chapter" in my life, so I'll have to let you know.
StraddleMyNose

Jan 18 @ 6:27PM  
I feel that I'm always at my sexiest

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