Looking4ever
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Jan 15 @ 9:29PM
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Lack of brains and passion are deal breakers...the rest? Meh.
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theSkwirl
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Jan 15 @ 9:39PM
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I love Oral Sex.. and I'm good at it.. not the best by any means though my g/f might argue that point when you peel her off the roof.
Lack of it is not gonna be the deal breaker though.. unless I am expected to give but not receive.. that pisses me off.. I mean it, seriously.. you want me to blow/eat you but I get squat? NO. forget it.. and I expect as much time and effort put into what you give me as what I give you.. why? because .. I do my very best for you. If you don't value me enough to do your very best for me? see ya.
Did that answer your questions?
oh.. no.. yeah I could go without it if there was a good reason.. like say a disease carried by body fluids..
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 15 @ 9:43PM
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I love being sucked dry by her.  And the fact that I would really REALLY love to go down on her sucking on her clit while reaching all the way to the back of her wall to get that really sweet spot, and then side to side on her walls with my tongue as I begin to curl the tip of my tongue upwards pressing on her g-spot to make her cum very hard.  I love giving her oral that way, along with her facesitting on my face while I can do it that way too as she humps and grinds really hard on my tongue till she explodes in my mouth and all over my face.
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gardasian
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Jan 15 @ 9:51PM
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These are pretty good questions. First off, I wouldn't try to coerce anyone into anything they're uncomfortable with. Don't get me wrong...I love oral sex. Both giving and receiving. But if you really love someone, boundaries must be respected. I could live without it if I had to. A good reason for lack of it could range from a bad experience to a person just being turned off by the very thought (and yes, there are those out there who are turned off by the thought). There are a multitude of ways a committed couple could please each other in bed (or on the floor, in the bathroom, on the kitchen counter..ahem!) These things need to be discussed beforehand so that boundaries can be established. I, for one, certainly wouldn't throw away a potentially happy and productive relationship just because "Uncle Woody" wasn't allowed to tickle her tonsils.
There's my two cents plus change.
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somnium
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Jan 15 @ 11:02PM
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1. Is the lack of oral sex a deal breaker?
No- there are many other ways to satisfy and be satisfied! It's hard enough finding a caring partner as it is, without compounding the problem!
2. Would you be able to be a part of a committed relationship if you were not receiving oral sex and there was a good reason for the lack of "it"?
I would want to know what has changed in a relationship before I made a radical decision to break it off! There could be several reasons for not getting oral sex if you were and if you weren't and the rest of the sex and the relationship in general is satisfactory, then it's a moot point anyway IMO!
3. Is oral sex important to you, or could you live without "it"?
Of course I enjoy it but, if everything else in a relationship sexual wise and other wise is working well, why screw up a good thing?
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DesertSmile
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Jan 15 @ 11:47PM
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Not receiving I could get by with...but not giving...now that would be really difficult for me to do without.
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yourfacefits
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Jan 16 @ 1:15AM
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I rate how attracted I am to a guy by imagining (or really hearing) him say "Suck it!" And I could NOT fall in love with a guy who wasn't good at giving face. THAT's how important it is to me!  If that goes, it's done...
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1bunny629
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Jan 16 @ 3:20AM
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deal breaker??? yep!...but if I am on that deserted island without any, I bet it isn't the first thing that I miss.... 
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harddaddy
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Jan 16 @ 6:28AM
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IF A MAN OR WOMAN LOVES ORAL SEX YES ITS A DEAL BREAKER.MEN SOMETIMES TRY TO MAKE ALLOWANCES BUT MOST MEN LOVE TO HAVE THERE DICK SUCKED AND I WOULD BET A LOT GET IT SUCKED ELSEWHERE WHILE STAYING IN THE RELATIONSHIP.I'D BET SOME WOMAN JUST FIND IT ELSEWHERE ALSO..
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aftershox
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Jan 16 @ 8:12AM
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1. Is the lack of oral sex a deal breaker? Yes
2. Would you be able to be a part of a committed relationship if you were not receiving oral sex and there was a good reason for the lack of "it"? No
3. Is oral sex important to you, or could you live without "it"? Oral sex is not particularly important to me.
The real deal breaker would be in the attitude of the other person. I have no use for narrow-minded, stuck-in-the-mud thinking,. Sex should be wild and creative. Life should be wild and creative.
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ynot7769
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Jan 16 @ 8:47AM
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ummm YES...what can i say
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soft_touch938
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Jan 16 @ 9:24AM
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I'm with Looking4E on this one.
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dmbchick420
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Jan 16 @ 9:34AM
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1. Yes
2. No
3. I can't live without it. My motto is “You get what you give!”
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whisperingcomet
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Jan 16 @ 10:21AM
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yep, its a deal breaker for me 
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Dione
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Jan 16 @ 10:24AM
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Let's face it (pun intended), most of us enjoy oral sex. The lack of it is not the only issue for me. The quality of oral sex is what can be a deal breaker for me... some men and women just don't know how to do it well, aren't interested in learning how to please their partner or just don't care as long as they are satisfied. So:
1. If oral sex is non-existent, but everything else is agreeable it wouldn't be a deal breaker.
2. I was in this situation... sex life was fantastic, then changed with a diagnosis which prevented oral sex. It didn't have any negative affect upon our relationship, but I missed it.
3. Oral sex is important, but it is not the only sexual component that brings satisfaction. I could live without it... I mean I live without it now, so what's the dif—LOL!
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ksk72
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Jan 16 @ 2:32PM
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 Life should be wild and creative.
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KitKat25
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Jan 17 @ 9:31PM
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Thanks so much Pervia for the very interesting and diverse comments. Many of you made some excellent points...and caused me to look at this topic from a different point of view. Thanks again for your participation. 
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YohanLondon
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Jan 18 @ 8:03PM
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I take the opinion that it is more blessed to give than to receive. Oral sex is top priority for. I get more pleasure in seeing my partner enjoying..especially the moans and groan just before the squirt.....hmmm.
I will feel denied if I was not allowed this privilege.
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likearock69
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Jan 19 @ 12:42AM
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I love giving oral sex. I think I like giving it more than receiving it, but I do like getting it. A woman that isn't willing to go down on me after I do so for her...yea, I'd have to re-evaluate the relationship too.
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chuck111
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Feb 3 @ 9:24PM
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sure it is she gets it or he and you dont not cool
but it is funny
chuck
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tassie1
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Feb 28 @ 2:30PM
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hmmm, musta missed this topic...
I'm more of a giver than a reciever.
but being on the recieving end is awesome too sometimes. 
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1bunny629
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Feb 28 @ 2:45PM
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I've never experienced anyone that doesn't go down. If I did, I would wonder...and probably not have sex with that person again.... 
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Wordsofwit
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Feb 28 @ 2:58PM
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It is a case by case thing, but, yeah, points are deducted. If a woman doesn't gobble the goop, it ain't worth a poop.
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flavorbuster
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Feb 28 @ 6:22PM
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1. Is the lack of oral sex a deal breaker?
2. Would you be able to be a part of a committed relationship if you were not receiving oral sex and there was a good reason for the lack of "it"?
3. Is oral sex important to you, or could you live without "it"? To answer all three lots of couples have resorted to plain old grudge fucking because one, the other, or both are pissed off about something & literally settle for mad fucking because they are committed & will not cheat. On the other hand some men go outside the box to get their jollies inside another box. Some women cheat as well. To avoid heartache & frustration a good majority get into swinging & don't worry about the lack of oral because somebody in the crowd is up for it if not your significant other.
Gearing back to question #1 Not really if you are committed you just miss out.
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StraddleMyNose
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Feb 28 @ 8:45PM
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Yep, it's still important to me! 
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PetePuma
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Mar 12 @ 11:20AM
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1. Is the lack of oral sex a deal breaker?
Yes. If she won't let me go down on her then I'd have to find someone else that will.
2. Would you be able to be a part of a committed relationship if you were not receiving oral sex and there was a good reason for the lack of "it"?
Unfortunately I am. But what's a good reason?
3. Is oral sex important to you, or could you live without "it"?
Oral sex is extremely important to me. I can't feel totally satisfied until I've eaten her out. I can't live without dining on pussy at least several times a week, it's as important as breathing. I love receiving too, but I don't need to receive as much as I need to give.
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