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Should I or shouldn't I ?

posted 1/8/2010 1:19:43 AM |
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Post a picture. I want to, but at the same time I need to worry about my job. I work for the government and have a security clearance. Don't want to mess that up, but at the same time I want women to know I am real and not here just for a quick meet and screw. Thoughts? Opinions? Does it hurt to not have a picture posted or would it be ok if I explain why and send it in private?

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Jan 8 @ 1:24AM  
It's always a good idea to have a pic up.

I work for the government and have a security clearance. Don't want to mess that up
But in this case, it may not be wise to post one because of your job.

Jan 8 @ 1:26AM  
Well if you have appropriate pictures posted and your profie isn't raunchy like most here.... then I wouldn't see a problem with it.... there are plenty of people here that work for the government that have pics posted and do have raunchy profiles. Keep it clean and decent and there shouldn't a thing wrong with it! JMO

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Jan 8 @ 1:27AM  
I think you need to post something that says what you want people to know about you. A former member post a picture of his hands playing the guitar. One of the sexiest pictures ever posted here. Seriously. Well, at least I think so. To me, the sort of picture you post says something about you, just as your profile does. I think, if you are serious about what you want/are looking for, you need to put the effort onto your profile AND picture. When I first joined here, I only had the picture of my eyes up. Now I have other pictures as well. I change them from time to time.

Jan 8 @ 1:34AM  
its ok mr Clinton, we won't tell


Jan 8 @ 2:59AM  
As long as you just do not post a nude photo and do not log on at work I do not see what the problem would be. Not everyone here shows everything. On the profile and essay just keep it G -rated and you should not have a problem.

Jan 8 @ 9:06AM  
There are two very simple thoughts on the subject....

Firstly, if you are only here to talk and chat then hold off on the photo.

But, if you expect to get a date, most women will not respond if you do not have a recent face photo.

That's the way I see it. By no means the only way to see it.

Jan 8 @ 9:55AM  
There are a lot of good valid points made by the previous commentators, even though the perspectives vary. A pic of something is better than no pic at all though. As has been pointed out, if you email a woman even politely, often the first thing they do is click on your profile; no pic, no reply.

An alternate idea may be to register with the vanilla site, matchdoctor. Post the pics of yourself there and direct people you want to them once you feel comfortable it is not a coworker.

Jan 8 @ 11:04AM  
Just photoshop a porn star photo like everyone else!

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