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posted 1/7/2010 9:41:08 PM |
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  onehornytoad69

Be.... Open and Honest here......or should we hold back? Meaning .......should we Share Personal things here?
I have to be honest here...I do share...more than I need too...My Bad!!!?
To me... this is a Place where I can share my life with others....and I Share theirs.. also....!
Support from others is awesome when we are down, Gosh ...Yall have been there for me!! A big Ole TY to everyone..that has been there for me!!!
Should we limit our Blogging...to useless BS or should we Share our Lives with each other?
IDK!!!!

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PinkToeNails

Jan 7 @ 9:52PM  
Well... if we're going to share our intimate lives, someone somewhere along the way is going to disagree..... and comment negatively to it if that's how they truly feel..... but I'm sure there are more who will be supportive to us as friends.
theSkwirl

Jan 7 @ 9:53PM  
I doubt anyone will feel comfortable sharing anything too personal at this point. I know I won't share what's going on in my world this week with the general populace.. lest someone decide to make MY personal information their business.
Wordsofwit

Jan 7 @ 9:53PM  
I feel it is a personal choice. But I will say that you can expect for people to go over the top and you had better be able to take it. As Harry Truman said, "If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen." Also allow that whatever you reveal is going to trip an adverse trigger with somebody. Additionally, some people take things very personally and can become very hateful if they don't agree with your point of view, or you theirs.
soft_touch938

Jan 7 @ 9:55PM  
Well few have been more open than this old Softie. Yeah it's gotten me some shit sometimes but it doesn't stop me. I think that is the foundation of blogging. Of course we blog about everything under the sun but good blogging includes glimpses into our lives...sharing our ups and downs, getting to know one another. Or at least for those who want to share those things....and they should not be judged or reprimanded by those who don't.

What a very few people doesn't understand is.....just because we bare our hearts and souls doesn't give anyone the license to stomp all over us by taking on the role of "big me/ little you and I have all your answers if you'll only listen to ME."

It's a case of if ya can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all. Step back and let those who want to be understanding and supportive respond in the comments. If ya really think you can be of help then do it privately. Most bloggers who post their woes and heartaches are just getting something off their chest and aren't really soliciting input. They'll thank you for it and appreciate genuine suggestions but mostly they just need someone to dump on and their friends in Pervia should be a safe place to do that.

JMHO
RevDocLove

Jan 7 @ 9:59PM  
I gotta' go with Bruce on this one
Wordsofwit

Jan 7 @ 10:00PM  
mostly they just need someone to dump on and their friends in Pervia should be a safe place to do that

This is very true. There is much to be said for getting feedback from people not personally involved in a situation, especially if you don't have too many people in the real world to fill that role.
aspiringwriter

Jan 7 @ 10:05PM  
I'll have to come back to this later. Right now I just wanted to say kudos for this.
RJ53

Jan 7 @ 10:17PM  
I do set limits as to what I will blog about on here or any other website. Maybe I am not feeling well that day as I do have some serious health problems from time to time or things are not going well with things at home. I might tell someone here in e-mail what is going on but I see no need to tell it to everyone and bring down their day. But that is just me.
sugarnspice005

Jan 7 @ 10:17PM  
I've always shared in the blogs what I'm comfortable sharing. Anything more personal, I will share in emails.

Different people have different reactions, and, we can't always predict how someone will react. I'm just going to keep on blogging as I've always done.

Leaving a kudo for this one.
ksk72

Jan 7 @ 10:22PM  
I personally pick an choose what I will share. But I don't care what others choose and do sometimes enjoy what people say. I also always take everything in stride and remember its just stories on a screen. They have no real effeect on my day unless I let it.
Leonidas100

Jan 7 @ 10:26PM  
I think it's naive to expect politeness and decorum from a site that is littered with pictures of cocks, and people making posts in forums about 3somes, blowjobs, cheating, etc. You can't expect to post something personal and have everyone pat you on the back and say good job. People will disagree and will have varying opinions, especially on a FREE adult singles sex site where blogging is considered a secondary.

Do I still believe every word of what I posted to Taisen's blog?
Yes...but I certainly regret not using more tact, especially giving my background.
I should have emailed her instead.

ynot7769

Jan 7 @ 10:44PM  
well....lets see,..hang on ..guess for ME i post what i want..and go from there....but ..there should be some common curtisy ....and since i been blocked from tryin to emplor said fucktard from just deleting the blog.....guess we'll air out MORE private stuff..how bout his??

rule one...never ever fuck with my friends.....
Dione

Jan 7 @ 10:50PM  
What a very few people doesn't understand is.....just because we bare our hearts and souls doesn't give anyone the license to stomp all over us by taking on the role of "big me/ little you and I have all your answers if you'll only listen to ME."
I agree.
KitKat25

Jan 7 @ 11:22PM  
First of all, kudos for the blog OHT...this is an excellent question.

Should we limit our Blogging...to useless BS or should we Share our Lives with each other?

I feel this is a personal choice and the answer would not be the same for each person in Pervia. I can tell you that I blogged in October about some highly personal stuff that had been going on in my life and I decided to "put it out there" because I wanted some different perspectives. It helped because I was not the only one who bared their soul that weekend. LOTS of people did this within my blog...and in personal emails. I truly appreciated everyone's time and effort and in the end, it did help to clarify some things for me. So for me, in this case, my blogging of very personal stuff was a positive experience.

Long story short, it's a personal choice and there is no one right answer.
somnium

Jan 7 @ 11:27PM  
All right, look people... I agree that she was more personal than I would have been but her last blog, was about what she had accomplished for the day! She didn't make any derogatory comments towards anyone nor did she attack anyone! If she was looking for a pat on the back, well isn't that just too fucking bad that some would think that's a major sin or if she can't take the feedback, that that also is a major fault!

Two people commented in her last blog that in my mind, would have been better served via private email! One of the two thought so too, in his own words! Now, we get 'after-the-fact', woulda, shoulda, couldas! Just gotta love all these 'Pros' on how someone should have handled it- easiest enough to say, when it's not your back that's getting lashed!


Bryntone517

Jan 7 @ 11:39PM  
I think you should be able to blog on what you feel you want other people to know. If you don't want to air out things, don't. If you do, fine but know that not everyone will side with you. Everyone has thier own opinion. Not sure what is going on here and I really don't need to know, just giving a small one cent opinion.
Looking4ever

Jan 7 @ 11:59PM  
I only POST what I feel comfortable in strangers knowing. Back in October, someone posted information about me (and others) that had been shared in private emails or via telephone. I was furious. It is MY information to share...no one else had the right to share it on a public forum. So, my answer is this: your personal information/life is YOURS...YOU decide how much you are comfortable sharing.
Leonidas100

Jan 8 @ 12:13AM  
That's a fair criticism of me Somnium...but the fact is when someone blogs in a public forum on a FREE ADULT SEX WEBSITE about the intimate details of their personal life, they willingly put their back out to get lashed.

Yes, I feel bad how I handled it, but what i said was truthful, and I believe many of you would concur with my earlier thoughts on the subject.

Hopefully in the long run, this ends up being a positive...and I sincerely hope Taisen comes back and rejoins the amd community.

I will refrain from brutal honesty in the future cuz this certainly has been a strange night indeed.
StraddleMyNose

Jan 8 @ 12:17AM  
Back in October, someone posted information about me (and others) that had been shared in private emails or via telephone. I was furious. It is MY information to share...no one else had the right to share it on a public forum.
The info I believe you're referring to was your first name to which it had already been batted around in the blogs and comments long before that even happened. Looks like you are someone who is a very hateful hateful HATEFUL type of woman who holds grudges way too much and far too long. To continue to take snide ass little cheap shots here and there at me in recent months, along with a few others you have over the years on here. You used to be what I thought was a sweet person 3 years ago, but soon realized soon thereafter that you're so full of spite and ugliness inside as a person in my opinion. I regret ever getting to know you on here!
Looking4ever

Jan 8 @ 12:29AM  
You know, Straddle, not everything is about YOU. No one brought up your name. No one brought up the particular blog or subject. What I have posted it RELEVANT. Get over yourself already. You have no idea what sort of person I am. Think what you will.
StraddleMyNose

Jan 8 @ 12:36AM  
You know, Straddle, not everything is about YOU. No one brought up your name. No one brought up the particular blog or subject. What I have posted it RELEVANT. Get over yourself already. You have no idea what sort of person I am. Think what you will.
BULLSHIT! Now you're a fucking liar too. Anyone with half a brain knows damn well who you refer to when you take the snide ass cheap shots at me on different blogs. I even had people email me telling me about these comments you post in regards to me.

Why don't you get the fuck over it already and move on!
Looking4ever

Jan 8 @ 12:38AM  
My mistake. Many of us have lives outside of AMD and don't keep track of everything that is said or posted around here. Carry on.
StraddleMyNose

Jan 8 @ 12:44AM  
My mistake. Many of us have lives outside of AMD and don't keep track of everything that is said or posted around here. Carry on.
*snort* OMG! You made me spit out my drink out of my mouth from laughing so hard with that one.

somnium

Jan 8 @ 1:00AM  
Yes Leonidas, it is unfortunate that she posted some inner personal facts about her and her family! If anything, comments in her blog where she initially gave her personal facts, would have been more appropriate, not in her last blog she posted, that was all about her accomplishments for the day! Also as I mentioned, even that wouldn't have been proper, as those particular comments were better suited for private email, no matter what the intentions were!

Consideration and common sense, is what I'm talking about!

selectusername

Jan 8 @ 1:12AM  
Nah, I'll just stick to lies and fantasy.

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