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  StraddleMyNose

How many of you have actually had anal sex? If not, would you be willing to try it with your partner? If you did decide to, would you use a condom? If you decided to just go the tongue route with anal, would you prefer to be licked, or do the licking?

Now speaking of toys and/or objects. Would you want to use or have used on you some toys and/or objects (this includes fruit) this way? If this included fruit, would you want to eat it out, or have it eaten out of you?

I personally have never really tried anything like this. I'm open to possibly be the one doing the licking if my s/o wanted this done to her. She would have to be clean down there however.

As far as having anal sex, sure, I would be open to this if she wanted me to give it to her from behind, or riding my hard thick cock.

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StraddleMyNose

Jan 1 @ 7:24PM  
C'mon, I know a lot of you guys have tried this stuff. Let's hear some stories reagarding how it went.
DesertSmile

Jan 1 @ 7:25PM  
Some things Straddle are just too personal for blogs...this may be one of them.
Wordsofwit

Jan 1 @ 7:25PM  
Great squirts!!!
StraddleMyNose

Jan 1 @ 7:29PM  
Some things Straddle are just too personal for blogs...this may be one of them
Well, you know me, I love pushing the envelope.

That and inquiring minds (other than me) would love to hear about these personal things.
whisperingcomet

Jan 1 @ 7:30PM  
if i say..."im not telling" what does that say?
1bunny629

Jan 1 @ 7:33PM  
I'll just say...what goes in comes out, so don't go to the grocery store right afterwards and reach for something on the top shelf and expect no reaction from the invaded area....
RJ53

Jan 1 @ 7:34PM  
I do not recall any such event in my life.
StraddleMyNose

Jan 1 @ 7:37PM  
I do not recall any such event in my life.
But would you ever try this?

whisperingcomet

Jan 1 @ 7:38PM  
im with rj...i do not recall....
StraddleMyNose

Jan 1 @ 7:41PM  
im with rj...i do not recall....
Yeah yeah yeah.....

wimps!
RJ53

Jan 1 @ 7:44PM  
wimps!

Maybe, maybe not.
sugarnspice005

Jan 1 @ 7:45PM  
Certified "wimp" here.
RJ53

Jan 1 @ 7:47PM  
StraddleMyNose

Jan 1 @ 7:51PM  
Well, I did try the licking anal style way two years ago a couple of times. It really wasn't bad at all. She enjoyed it.
whisperingcomet

Jan 1 @ 7:52PM  
wimps.....who you calling wimps,....you let someone shove their dick up your....oh I dont recall.......
StraddleMyNose

Jan 1 @ 7:56PM  
Oh, I forgot to mention this. About 3 years ago I had a woman that used to be on this site email me and wanted to straddle my nose with her ass and spin all around on it. Of course I declinded. She was a little miffed as to why I wouldn't since my screen name is what it is. i told her my nose was made for another area.
StraddleMyNose

Jan 1 @ 7:57PM  
you let someone shove their dick up your
Hey, it's not all about cocks going up there. People have used their tongues too ya know.
ynot7769

Jan 1 @ 7:57PM  
sounds like a shitty deal to me .............
StraddleMyNose

Jan 1 @ 8:01PM  
sounds like a shitty deal to me .............
Well, not if they're clean up there...
flavorbuster

Jan 1 @ 8:25PM  
Are you leaning towards the dark side of corn holing ? If she wants it I'll do it ..... Why because I'm aiming to please if my aim is right.
somnium

Jan 1 @ 8:34PM  
I was introduced to anal sex in my late 20s by a younger lady that apparently had experience in it! I didn't use condoms then and used a liberal amount of lubrication each time we did it! She knew how to relax and taught me the right way to enter her, which is to go slowly, going back and forth! Every time we did it, it was only a minute or two max, before I cum in her, 'cause it felt so good! After that, you never go from anal to vagina or oral for obvious reasons! It isn't like most people think it is and if it sounds icky, then an enema can take care of that! Now, I would use a condom but it's a most pleasant experience- 'fur' sure!

As far as oral/anal, I haven't had the chance yet! Butt () it's all in taking a good shower together first! First, it breaks down barriers because you both know the other partner is clean- most important- plus each gets to clean each other in the areas of interest!! That takes care of the eeewwww factor, the rest is in your mind! Besides, a shower is nice and relaxing for both! After that, if I had a willing partner, I would want to try oral/anal with her, if she wanted to!

Don't forget, when a guy is eating out a chick (a lot of women indicate oral sex in their essays) he's only a fraction of an inch away from her anus and could easily accidentally lick her there anyway! Same thing if she is licking her partners balls- she could easily accidentally lick his anus!

It;s not the 'big bad wolf' people make it out to be, if they just try it once- then not, if they don't like it! I personally would never insist on either- just if she wanted to!

JMO


flavorbuster

Jan 1 @ 8:40PM  
sounds like a shitty deal to me
.....
KitKat25

Jan 1 @ 8:54PM  
It;s not the 'big bad wolf' people make it out to be, if they just try it once- then not, if they don't like it!

Som makes an excellent point.

Me personally? Been there...done that...didn't hate it...didn't really prefer it. But who knows...If it's the right guy...I might just try it again. Who knows...

I can't believe how many comments were left without really commenting on this blog topic. Seemed kind of strange to me. Are we a bit reserved and shy today Pervia?
Sunshine79

Jan 1 @ 9:06PM  
Ewww.....girls don't do that!
RJ53

Jan 1 @ 9:15PM  
[QUOTE]Me personally? Been there...done that...didn't hate it...didn't really prefer it. But who knows...If it's the right guy...I might just try it again. Who knows...[/QUOTE


Some things are just more comfortable if you are slightly high, or so I have heard
soft_touch938

Jan 1 @ 9:25PM  
Just so you know.

I came. I read. But if you're waitin' for tell-all Softie to spill her guts.........



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aftershox

Jan 1 @ 9:50PM  
How many of you have actually had anal sex?
Yes , many times in the last 3 years, Before then, I had tried it once and it was very uncomfortable.

If you did decide to, would you use a condom?

Condoms are the best way to go for a variety of reasons, but in the heat of passion and a very safe friend I have done it without protection and without extra lube, (I think I may have a juicy ass..didn;t know there was such a thing,,, I thought lube was always needed)

If you decided to just go the tongue route with anal, would you prefer to be licked, or do the licking? Yes and yes. But it needs to be very clean both ways. Enemas are a necessary evil.

Now speaking of toys and/or objects. Would you want to use or have used on you some toys and/or objects (this includes fruit) this way? If this included fruit, would you want to eat it out, or have it eaten out of you?

Yes and yes. Small summer sausages, summer squash, malted milk balls, red vine licorise..oh .. I guess those are not fruit.

Have also had a wine enema.. fun but not used as a beverage. Just a final "rinse" to enhance the taste of our repective asses. It is an amazing feeling to feel lightly intoxicated without drinking a single drop!

For a first time, patience patience and lots of lube. And more patience Back out and start over. Never just ram it in home.

And if thing get sore down there, a bit of ice makes things get back in order pretty fast.
Taisen

Jan 1 @ 10:06PM  
Tried it a few times, hated it and it hurt like hell. Been licked there before, wasn't for me either. I just don't like anal stuff. Would I try again? NOPE.
easymark4u

Jan 1 @ 10:24PM  
I am a Guy and I love receiving Anal Sex by women using a strap on, it is very Hot. I even concider letting a man do it.
StraddleMyNose

Jan 2 @ 12:27AM  
Ewww.....girls don't do that!
Uh huh, suurreee....
selectusername

Jan 2 @ 1:42AM  
This was the year that everyone in our nation

got fucked in the ass by Wall Street!

and they didn't even use lubricant....
girlcountry

Jan 2 @ 9:05AM  
Done it, didn't like it and won't do it again!!
dmbchick420

Jan 4 @ 10:38AM  
I don't like it. I'm actually grossed out by the thought of it. I know people do enemas and that sort of thing beforehand, but that's okay.....PASS.
bedtiger

Jan 6 @ 1:49AM  
ok been thinking about posting this anyway, but now i can't resist. so to all guys an gals- check this out!!! but be warned if you have a weak heart you may die laughing!!! anyway here goes-- go on youtube.com and type in X-RATED PILLOW TALK AFTER SEX enjoy all..!!! and please comment about what you thought of the clip, very funny i think!! anyway yes i have done it to a woman.. butt out of respect to her!!! sorry not going into details or revealing who she was!! but it was a long term relationship!!! we only did that way couple times and yes we both liked it.. but we both still liked better other two ways..if you do it the key is lots an lots of lube and go slow and easy!!! let me repeat that!!!! slow and easy!!! and no matter what kind of sex you do.. showing a woman you care just as much about her needs and her feelings and enjoyment as you do your own.. helps her to relax and truely enjoy sex!!! which will allow more trust and exploring to be possible making a better sex life for you both!! at least that's my thinking anyway!!!
storm11208

Jan 7 @ 8:21PM  
Yes i have done it with some of my ex's, the last girl didn't even wanna try it saying that's not supposed to go there, ok. The one before her though was a freak in the sack and loved it, i was the first one she had done it with (so i was told). First 2/3 times used baby oil, after that didn't need it. Did it without a condom.

And yes i have had my salad tossed.
collegeboy44ish

Jan 7 @ 10:32PM  
Hi. I currently have a girlfrfiend that loves anal. She does the enema and a little baby oil does it for me. She knows how to relax and entry is easy. I've even pounded away and she's good with it. She is an amazing partner and good friend. I, too, like to get in the shower, wash her erotically then give her the tongue treatment first. I have always been one to say that I would never ask a woman to accept Mr Happy anywhere I wasn't willing to put my mouth.
chuck111

Jan 14 @ 2:58PM  
only if the lady likes it.i would never forse it on her

chuck
honorbyblood

Feb 3 @ 7:07AM  
I've only done anal with one woman and patience was the key, although once I was all the way in she wanted me to go fast as I could I've done the oral anal thing on her and I liked it, but no tongue around my ass.
77inchestall

Feb 12 @ 10:06AM  
EVERY woman who I've done this too has claimed the best mind blowing orgasim ever. My current submissive loves it now!
sundance64

Feb 12 @ 3:20PM  
I really don't understand the "thing" alot of guys have about letting a woman lick or play with their ass. This is a huge erogenous zone...and if it's a woman doing it how can it be considered in any way 'unmanly"? I've met some men who did enjoy this type of play...and in alot of ways it's more pleasurable for men than it is for women. After all...women don't have a prostate

As for your question...anal "play" is fun...penetration is too as long as it's taken slow. It's something that has to be planned for, or saved for the weekend.
yonder

Feb 17 @ 9:19AM  
Interesting that people seem reluctant to talk about this. I know that some women have had bad experiences with this, mainly, I think, because it wasn't done right and they weren't comfortable with it. It has to be handled carefully, with proper preparation, but I've basically had the same experience of anal sex with two different women, neither of whom had done it before me, but they both really got into it. Both times it was in the context of longterm relationships. But within that context it was a regular thing, not just occasional or special. Sure she had to be clean--and I had to be clean for when she licked me down there. But we didn't get into enemas or anything like that, not necessary. Here's a free hint, though: not a good idea to do it right after she's had a cup of coffee!

To answer your questions: It was a "safe"situation both times, so we didn't use condoms. Sometimes there'd be a little "stuff" on there afterwards--so I'd go to the bathroom and wash. Not a big deal. People get so squeamish! Did use lube, definitely necessary. Although a few times if we'd been fucking for a while there'd be enough overflow moisture that she'd say never mind and it would be fine.

Actually, that's the most important thing I would say: only have anal after she's already cum at least once, preferably several times. Orgasms, more than anything else, loosen it up and get her ready.

Several people here talked about taking it slow, and of course you have to do that at first, and especially the first few times. But once she gets used to it she's going to be calling for it harder and deeper and faster and you're not going to hold back at all.

As far as analingus goes: I love to have my asshole licked. Sometimes just in the natural course of sucking my cock and licking my balls, but my favorite position and one which really turned her on as well was when I'd slowly lower myself down onto her face so she could really get access.

Anyway I'm not embarrassed to say I've done it or that I like it a lot. Not in every relationship, certainly, it's not for everybody. And not the first thing you'd do, or even the second or the third with a new person. But it can take an existing relationship to a whole new level.
mrrick77

Feb 18 @ 9:19AM  
Just hope ya don't pull out a peanut.
wildthing66

Mar 12 @ 4:17PM  
I have had anal sex there is nothing wrong with it it can be pleasurable for both partners if done right and take your time entering your partner also I also have lick a women ass nothing wrong there either if she keeps herself clean
m4272000

Mar 19 @ 12:07PM  
I have bang more what woman ass for years than I can imagine. And they have all loved it very much. Some I knew right from the start craved, wanted and desired it. And they took the hardest fucking. Other were open and once they tried and got to enjoy it usually would let me have it anytime I wanted. And a few did not want to, But I love to fuck every hole in a woman body. But the ass is a special gift to me.
bigryno23

Mar 23 @ 11:36PM  
there is no bigger turn-on than convincing a girl to let me fuck her ass!
CuteBea

Mar 26 @ 6:31AM  
I've had anal sex. And I loved it. First time kinda weird felling tought.
Anyone who's thinking of getting anal sex should defenetly recive a lick first cuz it helps to relax alot... trust me i've tried with licking and without liking...
nicole717

Aug 9 @ 7:29AM  
anal sex is great when im in between 2 men nothing better than that
DrCumalot

Aug 11 @ 2:37PM  
I am a male who has given anal sex to 9 different women over the years. When done properly....the ladies really enjoy it and are prepared for it. The first timers are usually scared and for good reason. Relaxation and readiness are key....plus wanting to even try it.
My wife will in no way let me try it on her...tried just once and my head was not even in and she said to stop so I did. Some wnated it on a regular basis others just once was enough! Fortunately for the women...the guy doesn't last long...except there was once I did last for about 15 minutes....she had cum and was in tears but loved it....(just going by what she said.)
Luvrgrl

Aug 15 @ 9:54PM  
This was helpful considering my situation....Thanks to all who shared....I am an Anal Virgin!
flavorbuster

Aug 16 @ 8:08AM  
.I am an Anal Virgin!
By looking at your profile you have a dog that's trying to give you some pointers.
KnightsSearch

Aug 17 @ 10:16PM  
To do anal sex is slow and easy and you listen to her you play you kiss it lick it and plenty of lub and you dont get in no hurry but you have to set the stage for it and I dont look for each and every time but kissing her nipple a toy buried between her legs and touching her rosebud can send her over the edge big time, but its a big turn on to say that you have had all her tight hot places WOW
hotlips12095

Aug 18 @ 1:15PM  
Oh yes slow and easy and plenty of lube. and yes having a stiff cock there a vibe between ur legs and a little clit action - it promises to be an over the top O!!!
brett4202

Aug 21 @ 7:52PM  
Its fun when the lady asks for this type of play.
tarheelfan

Sep 13 @ 2:48PM  
I love licking a woman's ass hole just as much as licking her pussy. If she's clean it's all good.
JimXXV

Sep 14 @ 1:01PM  
Dated a woman who lived her life attempting to recreate scenes from movies.
After watching 'Last Tango In Paris' in London she decided we should try anal intercourse - using butter - as they did in the movie - as a lubricant. The act was mind blowing - we both had incredible orgasms. Unfortunately we had a return flight to New York next morning - we flew the Atlantic wreathed in the aroma of BUTTER!
rholst26

Sep 22 @ 1:09PM  
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decret4you69

Sep 23 @ 7:51AM  

I prefer to start this? By licking and sucking her hot wet spot as she suck me good, then lick and tongue her sweet clean anal ass..Then turn her over and gently slide my hard cock inside that sweet anal ass gently,fingering her pussy as I ride that ass easy and gently.feeling her cum as we both enjoy doing this together..Try it, most woman say the climax harder when this is done..
noodles69

Sep 23 @ 7:43PM  
of course being a man my husband thoroughly enjoys it. myself being the receiver( a woman) i am always hesitant for obvious reasons . however, if you are relaxed enough and you trust your partner to be sensitive in this area it is a very enjoyable experience for both parties. by the way we go all natural not using a condom.
allforyou999

Sep 27 @ 5:12AM  
I spent some time with this married lady. After some heavy petting we got naked and in bed. She would not let me insert into her pussy but said it was ok to do Anal to her. She said she didn't want to cheat on her husband?

fishman

Sep 30 @ 8:42AM  
I am no spring chicken any more but have had Anal Sex more times then I can remember. It is great if both partys are clean and want to have it. Like everyone has said a lot of lube. The best is with out a condom and if the guy is good sized like I am take your time and do some licking!!! Once in take short strokes and when all the way in move slowely until she want it faster. The best part of all is when she Cumes it is like a river for her and then You shoot deep in her not all the way out as this makes her Cum again. That has been my findings. Anal Sex is so Hot. It is like haveing sex with a Virgin of a Guy because her anis is so tight!!! Good luck to all and Ladys Give it a try it can be Fun if done Right!!!!
mlp133

Oct 7 @ 11:41AM  
i have had a lot of womens ass only one did not like it if you make her get off with your tung frist she will beg for your dick and we all know there is nothing better then a hot women beging unless your a women then its a man beging lol
Odyssey

Oct 13 @ 7:53AM  
I personally LOVE anal sex...but only with a considerate partner...its not one of those rushed or unplanned things..lol...cleanliness is VERY important and its not a "poke and stroke" you definitely have to work into it...and when Im with someone new..a rubber is really necessary...but with hubby I dont use one.
kyoralguy4u

Oct 13 @ 9:39AM  
I have had cock in me quite alot over the yrs I am a male who enjoy giving my ass to guys and like them to use me for real longer times its my male pussy and I love being screwed anytime
JOHN7AZ

Oct 18 @ 2:44AM  
I'm more of the pitcher...I've been known to go farther than just ass kissing..and as far as toys? That's what my cock is because I play with it all the time
Richard007

Oct 19 @ 9:47AM  
As a man I have enjoyed anal sex with the women in my life that also enjoyed it. I've never coerced any females into it. I enjoy using my tongue and lips on every part of a women's body. Toys are fine with me, great experience for both.
straightawaykid

Oct 20 @ 4:56PM  
omg. I was introduced to it by a lady who wanted it, and we used lube. It felt so fantastic and tight I really loved it. I would never want to be on the receiving end, but she really liked it, as you say, slowly at first. I would eat her pussy and stick fingers in her ass, but never tried licking it. But I would lick anywhere if I could ass fuck a lady again!
cliff081387

Nov 4 @ 4:35AM  
Anal is over rated. of course ur gotta try it once but wasnt for me. as for eatin watever came out of there.....FUCK THAT..... and as the sayin goes, "u ever eat ass hole,no, well have u ate pussy drunk,yes, then u ate ass hole." and i have to say thats true from my own experiance....lol
procarb

Nov 5 @ 12:45AM  
Had a girl that loved to have me use my tongue on her till she would get so hot she would beg to have her ass fucked. wors great right after a shower together and done properly it feels good for both remember slow, gentily and lube are key to having fun
nerdyguy609

Nov 5 @ 8:25AM  
Hi Everyone...I have found that for some women, once you give them anal sex, they will never leave your. One women I met years ago licked my a**hole every sunday morning when I got up. She loved the smell of a man's bottom. Since then I have licked many female a**holes and the response has been wonderful. They give me lots of sex plus hugs and kisses and cook great food for me so that I won't leave them. I have gotten used to the smell of a female bottom. It's provides lots of pleasure. Have fun. nerdyguy609
vgnn

Nov 10 @ 8:15PM  
I love anal. I used to hate it, though.
brandocomando

Nov 13 @ 12:34AM  
i have to be honest it really feels good weather its female with a strap on or another male goin in i love it and most men will try but believe me love it to.
beowulfthedane

Nov 15 @ 12:39AM  
never tried it, but if I had a partner that liked it I would try it. with a condom
NoObscenities975

Nov 22 @ 9:36PM  
Definitely!
Count269

Nov 26 @ 6:26PM  
Been the "cherry" popper on this five times, & analeze is a real plus, always use a condom, wash up after wards. etc. Very tight, and the newbies may not be able to go the distance to begin with, but it gets easier with practice, just have to take your time with them.
poetsx9

Dec 2 @ 2:25AM  
oh hell yeah! I would take it up the ass in a heartbeat! give me a vibrating dildo or the real deal. my ass would eat that shit up!
hornytrev

Dec 6 @ 4:30PM  
i liked u r blog
rapheee

Dec 9 @ 12:03AM  
A few month ago i went all out. I love to 69 and during the fun i couldnt help but use my tongue on her ass. It was fantastic and turned me! I thought it was dirty at first, which it is, maybe thats why its so fun. i wouldnt mind doing that again.
roxnrol

Dec 11 @ 9:10AM  
i am a man and i love to have dildoes in my ass.
DOM1

Dec 18 @ 8:54PM  
ALRIGHT, LET ME EXPLAIN THE RIGHT WAY TO, FUCK AN WOMANS ASS.
FIRST, YOU NEED PLENTY OF KY OR EQUATE LUBE.
SECOND, WHETHER BARE BACK OR FRENCH SAFE,
YOU MUST PUT PLENTY OF LUBE IN THE ASSHOLE,
YOU USE YOUR THUMB FIRST AND LUBE THE TOP
OF, THE ASSHOLE FIRST. THEN THE SIDES AND
BOTTOM. DEPENDING ON WHICH WAY SHE IS
LAYING DOWN.
THIRD, CHOOSE THE POSITION OF WHICH, YOU
PLAN TO ENTER. I WOULD ENTER HER ASS
REVERSE COWGIRL POSITION. IT IS MUCH
EASIER FOR BEGINNERS, AND IT WILL
HURT LESS. REVERSE COWGIRL POSITION,
IS HER LYING OR SLIGHTLY SITTING UP
WITH HER PUSSY FACING UP. IF THIS
POSITION IS COMFORTABLE, FOR HER
THEN AND ONLY THEN IF SHE WANTS TO
TRY OTHER ASS FUCKING,POSITIONS.
AN EX-GIRLFRIEND OF MINE AND I, I
FUCKED HER IN AN STORAGE PLACE IN
THE SINGLE WOMANS BATHROOM, WENT
AND DID MY LAYNDRY, CAME BACK TO
THE STORAGE PLACE AND WENT BACK
TO THE BATHROOM, AND FUCKED HER
UP THE ASS DOGGIE STYLE. THE SAME
WAY I FUCKED HER PUSSY, BEFORE I
DID LAUNDRY.
MASTER PAUL
naughtygirl199

Dec 21 @ 1:02AM  
i never tried anal sex then i did i like anal sex i prefer it with lots of lube and being fingered and lubed for awhile before never did it with anything other than a penis
mrcblake

Dec 21 @ 2:17AM  
If you like anal sex then come over here and sit that sweet booty on my face and let me lick and stick it with my tounge and my big dick. I also want to eat your pussy for hours. Ladies if you want some one to play wit that ass then hit me up.
Coupleseeks3rd

Apr 14 @ 6:13PM  
My husband licks me 'there' often and I do enjoy it. I also enjoy anal play and anal sex. Realistically it only can last a few minutes before it gets tender (for me anyway) but I definitely enjoy it!
AwfulGirlfriend

Sep 6 @ 4:52PM  
Lol I hated it at first, but now I absolutely love it. I get a little loud lol

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