How many of you have actually had anal sex? If not, would you be willing to try it with your partner? If you did decide to, would you use a condom? If you decided to just go the tongue route with anal, would you prefer to be licked, or do the licking?
Now speaking of toys and/or objects. Would you want to use or have used on you some toys and/or objects (this includes fruit) this way? If this included fruit, would you want to eat it out, or have it eaten out of you?
I personally have never really tried anything like this. I'm open to possibly be the one doing the licking if my s/o wanted this done to her. She would have to be clean down there however.
As far as having anal sex, sure, I would be open to this if she wanted me to give it to her from behind, or riding my hard thick cock. 
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 1 @ 7:24PM
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C'mon, I know a lot of you guys have tried this stuff. Let's hear some stories reagarding how it went.
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DesertSmile
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Jan 1 @ 7:25PM
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Some things Straddle are just too personal for blogs...this may be one of them.
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Wordsofwit
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Jan 1 @ 7:25PM
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Great squirts!!!
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 1 @ 7:29PM
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Some things Straddle are just too personal for blogs...this may be one of them Well, you know me, I love pushing the envelope. 
That and inquiring minds (other than me) would love to hear about these personal things.
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whisperingcomet
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Jan 1 @ 7:30PM
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if i say..."im not telling" what does that say? 
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1bunny629
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Jan 1 @ 7:33PM
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I'll just say...what goes in comes out, so don't go to the grocery store right afterwards and reach for something on the top shelf and expect no reaction from the invaded area....
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RJ53
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Jan 1 @ 7:34PM
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I do not recall any such event in my life. 
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 1 @ 7:37PM
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I do not recall any such event in my life. But would you ever try this? 
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whisperingcomet
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Jan 1 @ 7:38PM
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im with rj...i do not recall....
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 1 @ 7:41PM
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im with rj...i do not recall....
wimps! 
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RJ53
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Jan 1 @ 7:44PM
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wimps!
Maybe, maybe not.
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sugarnspice005
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Jan 1 @ 7:45PM
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Certified "wimp" here.  
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RJ53
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Jan 1 @ 7:47PM
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 1 @ 7:51PM
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Well, I did try the licking anal style way two years ago a couple of times. It really wasn't bad at all. She enjoyed it.
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whisperingcomet
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Jan 1 @ 7:52PM
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wimps.....who you calling wimps,....you let someone shove their dick up your....oh I dont recall.......
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 1 @ 7:56PM
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Oh, I forgot to mention this. About 3 years ago I had a woman that used to be on this site email me and wanted to straddle my nose with her ass and spin all around on it. Of course I declinded. She was a little miffed as to why I wouldn't since my screen name is what it is. i told her my nose was made for another area. 
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 1 @ 7:57PM
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you let someone shove their dick up your Hey, it's not all about cocks going up there. People have used their tongues too ya know.
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ynot7769
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Jan 1 @ 7:57PM
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sounds like a shitty deal to me .............
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 1 @ 8:01PM
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Well, not if they're clean up there...
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flavorbuster
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Jan 1 @ 8:25PM
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 Are you leaning towards the dark side of corn holing ? If she wants it I'll do it ..... Why because I'm aiming to please if my aim is right.
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somnium
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Jan 1 @ 8:34PM
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I was introduced to anal sex in my late 20s by a younger lady that apparently had experience in it! I didn't use condoms then and used a liberal amount of lubrication each time we did it! She knew how to relax and taught me the right way to enter her, which is to go slowly, going back and forth! Every time we did it, it was only a minute or two max, before I cum in her, 'cause it felt so good! After that, you never go from anal to vagina or oral for obvious reasons! It isn't like most people think it is and if it sounds icky, then an enema can take care of that! Now, I would use a condom but it's a most pleasant experience- 'fur' sure!
As far as oral/anal, I haven't had the chance yet! Butt () it's all in taking a good shower together first! First, it breaks down barriers because you both know the other partner is clean- most important- plus each gets to clean each other in the areas of interest!! That takes care of the eeewwww factor, the rest is in your mind! Besides, a shower is nice and relaxing for both! After that, if I had a willing partner, I would want to try oral/anal with her, if she wanted to!
Don't forget, when a guy is eating out a chick (a lot of women indicate oral sex in their essays) he's only a fraction of an inch away from her anus and could easily accidentally lick her there anyway! Same thing if she is licking her partners balls- she could easily accidentally lick his anus!
It;s not the 'big bad wolf' people make it out to be, if they just try it once- then not, if they don't like it! I personally would never insist on either- just if she wanted to!
JMO
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flavorbuster
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Jan 1 @ 8:40PM
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sounds like a shitty deal to me  .....
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KitKat25
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Jan 1 @ 8:54PM
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It;s not the 'big bad wolf' people make it out to be, if they just try it once- then not, if they don't like it!
Som makes an excellent point. 
Me personally? Been there...done that...didn't hate it...didn't really prefer it. But who knows...If it's the right guy...I might just try it again. Who knows...
I can't believe how many comments were left without really commenting on this blog topic.  Seemed kind of strange to me. Are we a bit reserved and shy today Pervia?
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Sunshine79
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Jan 1 @ 9:06PM
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Ewww.....girls don't do that!
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RJ53
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Jan 1 @ 9:15PM
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[QUOTE]Me personally? Been there...done that...didn't hate it...didn't really prefer it. But who knows...If it's the right guy...I might just try it again. Who knows...[/QUOTE
Some things are just more comfortable if you are slightly high, or so I have heard
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soft_touch938
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Jan 1 @ 9:25PM
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Just so you know.
I came. I read. But if you're waitin' for tell-all Softie to spill her guts.........
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aftershox
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Jan 1 @ 9:50PM
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How many of you have actually had anal sex?
Yes , many times in the last 3 years, Before then, I had tried it once and it was very uncomfortable.
If you did decide to, would you use a condom?
Condoms are the best way to go for a variety of reasons, but in the heat of passion and a very safe friend I have done it without protection and without extra lube, (I think I may have a juicy ass..didn;t know there was such a thing,,, I thought lube was always needed)
If you decided to just go the tongue route with anal, would you prefer to be licked, or do the licking? Yes and yes. But it needs to be very clean both ways. Enemas are a necessary evil.
Now speaking of toys and/or objects. Would you want to use or have used on you some toys and/or objects (this includes fruit) this way? If this included fruit, would you want to eat it out, or have it eaten out of you?
Yes and yes. Small summer sausages, summer squash, malted milk balls, red vine licorise..oh .. I guess those are not fruit.
Have also had a wine enema.. fun but not used as a beverage. Just a final "rinse" to enhance the taste of our repective asses. It is an amazing feeling to feel lightly intoxicated without drinking a single drop!
For a first time, patience patience and lots of lube. And more patience Back out and start over. Never just ram it in home.
And if thing get sore down there, a bit of ice makes things get back in order pretty fast.
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Taisen
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Jan 1 @ 10:06PM
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Tried it a few times, hated it and it hurt like hell. Been licked there before, wasn't for me either. I just don't like anal stuff. Would I try again? NOPE.
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easymark4u
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Jan 1 @ 10:24PM
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I am a Guy and I love receiving Anal Sex by women using a strap on, it is very Hot. I even concider letting a man do it. 
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 2 @ 12:27AM
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Ewww.....girls don't do that! |
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selectusername
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Jan 2 @ 1:42AM
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This was the year that everyone in our nation
got fucked in the ass by Wall Street!
and they didn't even use lubricant....  
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girlcountry
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Jan 2 @ 9:05AM
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Done it, didn't like it and won't do it again!!
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dmbchick420
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Jan 4 @ 10:38AM
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I don't like it. I'm actually grossed out by the thought of it. I know people do enemas and that sort of thing beforehand, but that's okay.....PASS.
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bedtiger
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Jan 6 @ 1:49AM
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ok been thinking about posting this anyway, but now i can't resist. so to all guys an gals- check this out!!! but be warned if you have a weak heart you may die laughing!!! anyway here goes-- go on youtube.com and type in X-RATED PILLOW TALK AFTER SEX enjoy all..!!! and please comment about what you thought of the clip, very funny i think!! anyway yes i have done it to a woman.. butt out of respect to her!!! sorry not going into details or revealing who she was!! but it was a long term relationship!!! we only did that way couple times and yes we both liked it.. but we both still liked better other two ways..if you do it the key is lots an lots of lube and go slow and easy!!! let me repeat that!!!! slow and easy!!! and no matter what kind of sex you do.. showing a woman you care just as much about her needs and her feelings and enjoyment as you do your own.. helps her to relax and truely enjoy sex!!! which will allow more trust and exploring to be possible making a better sex life for you both!! at least that's my thinking anyway!!!
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storm11208
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Jan 7 @ 8:21PM
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Yes i have done it with some of my ex's, the last girl didn't even wanna try it saying that's not supposed to go there, ok. The one before her though was a freak in the sack and loved it, i was the first one she had done it with (so i was told). First 2/3 times used baby oil, after that didn't need it. Did it without a condom.
And yes i have had my salad tossed.
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collegeboy44ish
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Jan 7 @ 10:32PM
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Hi. I currently have a girlfrfiend that loves anal. She does the enema and a little baby oil does it for me. She knows how to relax and entry is easy. I've even pounded away and she's good with it. She is an amazing partner and good friend. I, too, like to get in the shower, wash her erotically then give her the tongue treatment first. I have always been one to say that I would never ask a woman to accept Mr Happy anywhere I wasn't willing to put my mouth.
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chuck111
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Jan 14 @ 2:58PM
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only if the lady likes it.i would never forse it on her
chuck
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honorbyblood
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Feb 3 @ 7:07AM
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I've only done anal with one woman and patience was the key, although once I was all the way in she wanted me to go fast as I could I've done the oral anal thing on her and I liked it, but no tongue around my ass.
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77inchestall
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Feb 12 @ 10:06AM
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EVERY woman who I've done this too has claimed the best mind blowing orgasim ever. My current submissive loves it now!
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sundance64
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Feb 12 @ 3:20PM
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I really don't understand the "thing" alot of guys have about letting a woman lick or play with their ass. This is a huge erogenous zone...and if it's a woman doing it how can it be considered in any way 'unmanly"? I've met some men who did enjoy this type of play...and in alot of ways it's more pleasurable for men than it is for women. After all...women don't have a prostate 
As for your question...anal "play" is fun...penetration is too as long as it's taken slow. It's something that has to be planned for, or saved for the weekend.
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yonder
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Feb 17 @ 9:19AM
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Interesting that people seem reluctant to talk about this. I know that some women have had bad experiences with this, mainly, I think, because it wasn't done right and they weren't comfortable with it. It has to be handled carefully, with proper preparation, but I've basically had the same experience of anal sex with two different women, neither of whom had done it before me, but they both really got into it. Both times it was in the context of longterm relationships. But within that context it was a regular thing, not just occasional or special. Sure she had to be clean--and I had to be clean for when she licked me down there. But we didn't get into enemas or anything like that, not necessary. Here's a free hint, though: not a good idea to do it right after she's had a cup of coffee!
To answer your questions: It was a "safe"situation both times, so we didn't use condoms. Sometimes there'd be a little "stuff" on there afterwards--so I'd go to the bathroom and wash. Not a big deal. People get so squeamish! Did use lube, definitely necessary. Although a few times if we'd been fucking for a while there'd be enough overflow moisture that she'd say never mind and it would be fine.
Actually, that's the most important thing I would say: only have anal after she's already cum at least once, preferably several times. Orgasms, more than anything else, loosen it up and get her ready.
Several people here talked about taking it slow, and of course you have to do that at first, and especially the first few times. But once she gets used to it she's going to be calling for it harder and deeper and faster and you're not going to hold back at all.
As far as analingus goes: I love to have my asshole licked. Sometimes just in the natural course of sucking my cock and licking my balls, but my favorite position and one which really turned her on as well was when I'd slowly lower myself down onto her face so she could really get access.
Anyway I'm not embarrassed to say I've done it or that I like it a lot. Not in every relationship, certainly, it's not for everybody. And not the first thing you'd do, or even the second or the third with a new person. But it can take an existing relationship to a whole new level.
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mrrick77
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Feb 18 @ 9:19AM
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Just hope ya don't pull out a peanut.
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wildthing66
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Mar 12 @ 4:17PM
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I have had anal sex there is nothing wrong with it it can be pleasurable for both partners if done right and take your time entering your partner also I also have lick a women ass nothing wrong there either if she keeps herself clean
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