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posted 12/26/2006 4:30:17 PM |
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I am still fairly new to this site and eventhough I talked with some great women online I haven't tried setting up a meeting. The next two questions are for the women (not the men pretending to be a woman).

If you did meet up with someone (male or female), how was it arranged?
What did it take before you were comfortable enough with a person to meet them?

Just curious and I would appreciate your input.

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Dec 26 @ 5:18PM  
There is a forum thread on this Meeting someone you've met online. Lots of good info there.

To meet me:

Need first and last name
Car make/model
Public meeting place
All this info plus email address and screen name left with a friend/family member
Pre-arranged check in with my "safety person" - in all seriousness, if I don't make that call, that person is to notify the authorities immediately. No excuses, no exceptions.
Last minute changes in plans are not allowed

If he doesn't agree, we don't meet. PERIOD.

Does anyone agree to all this - yup! If a man has only good intentions and is for real, he'll have no problem agreeing to these.

Dec 26 @ 7:36PM  
That pretty much sums it up, Sxze!

I think each personal encounter kind of works itself out, as far as the timeframe of when you meet. I've met someone as soon as 6 hrs after meeting them online, not for sex, but for a coffee or a drink. Sometimes it takes months. I met a guy 10 yrs ago online that I have yet to meet in person, but I know someday it WILL happen. (The one I wrote my first blog about )

Dec 27 @ 11:20AM  
I met my current boyfriend online. My best friend and my mom had his phone number, picture, address, work info, and where and when we were meeting. Then I had 4 calls that night and the next morning. which I made sure I answered everyone. He was ok with it, He understood and I made it worth his while.....

safety first!

Dec 31 @ 1:34AM  
the only addition to sxze's post I would add that I would insist on us being with another couple when we meet

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