On buttons: softly touching almost any part of my body.. bare hand on bare skin.. Kisses on the nape of the neck of course touching any of my many erogenous zones will do it.
and yeah I'll give you a map. Oh yea, sometimes you gotta admit you're lost. No one knows everyone automatically.
Off buttons: Someone who goes directly for the pussy. There's more parts of my body.. spend some time on em. Love the exploration... like a body safari. The thrill of the hunt for the good spots.