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wargaming and sex.....or lack thereof

posted 12/2/2009 1:35:07 PM |
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  Nathanial

I'm a wargamer.......I know...that would explain the lack of either a sex life or actual relationships outside of the net. But make my own pieces and laminate them...sometimes into the thousands. One time, back in 2001, my ex fiancee put her cat on a table i had set up with over 17 000 pieces.....i had the battle of the bulge set up and was doing a what if scenario....and she thought i wanted to pet her dang cat....it freaked out,and ran(smart cat,knew i didnt like it) anyway....the battle never got finished and i ended up only finding about 14 000 pieces...she didn't get any for 2 weeks after that...at least not from me. Her ex, on the other hand was more than willing to offer himself up for a small stud fee. Another time I was re doing the crusades, and I got so wrapped up in it that I didnt hang out with or even call my girlfriend for the whole week....that took some major kissing up for some odd reason....apparently women dont like to take second place to a hobby....but at the same time, most of the women Ive met dont really show much appreciation even when you do pay all the attention in the world to them...even at thhe expense of what you enjoy....so I really dont know...Im clueless..where is the perfect balance? Is there even such a thing?

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1bunny629

Dec 2 @ 1:42PM  
Is that the reason you were so enthralled with commenting back and fourth with the third Troll Patrol last night....?
max49

Dec 2 @ 1:47PM  
Now Murph. Come on over here. I got something I need measured.
1bunny629

Dec 2 @ 1:48PM  
max49

Dec 2 @ 1:50PM  
sugarnspice005

Dec 2 @ 1:54PM  
Well, most people don't like being ignored by their significant other for a day, much less a whole week.

most of the women Ive met dont really show much appreciation even when you do pay all the attention in the world to them...even at thhe expense of what you enjoy.

Some people out there are just hard to please no matter what you do. That's a fact of life. Some appreciate what is done for them, some don't. Then there are others you can give the world to, and they will still want more. But, on the other side, there are those who appreciate the company they are with, and respect their s/o's hobbies.
RevDocLove

Dec 2 @ 1:57PM  
And then there are those that would bitch if they were being
hung with a diamond studded platinum chain
Tough world out there
Nathanial

Dec 2 @ 2:05PM  
actually the main reason i talked to him last night is because ill talk to anybody who will talk to me. he made some pretty serious accusations against a member,and since i dont persoallty know anybody here, i wont take sides...yeah..he is pretty rude, and even insulted me once when he was under his other name...but i actually took the time to talk to him a bit and find out a bit of why he acts the way he does.....there may not be reason for some of it,and im in no way supporting anybodys beliefs here, but he did apologize to me for his personal attacks on me, so i have nothing against him persoally. besides....you cant walk a fine line without tickin somebody off..but it doesnt mean i cant try to be nice. and maybe find out the reasoning sometimes
shewolf53

Dec 2 @ 2:09PM  
Have you ever tried to involve the other person to some extent in your hobby? My ex used to be hung up playing Lords of Conquest back in the early 90s on the computer.....until I beat him at the game for a solid week. After that he did not play it very much. But if you are hung up on a hobby so much that you ignore someone you are supposed to care about for a week, isn't that kind of rude? And maybe you are a little too involved in your hobby? JMO
1bunny629

Dec 2 @ 2:14PM  
...[/QUOTE]actually the main reason i talked to him last night is because ill talk to anybody who will talk to me. he made some pretty serious accusations against a member,and since i dont persoallty know anybody here, i wont take sides...yeah..he is pretty rude, and even insulted me once when he was under his other name...but i actually took the time to talk to him a bit and find out a bit of why he acts the way he does.....there may not be reason for some of it,and im in no way supporting anybodys beliefs here, but he did apologize to me for his personal attacks on me, so i have nothing against him persoally. besides....you cant walk a fine line without tickin somebody off..but it doesnt mean i cant try to be nice. and maybe find out the reasoning sometimes [QUOTE]...i can understand that. Kudos to you for trying.
Nathanial

Dec 2 @ 2:16PM  
yeah....i always end up with the women that think they can change me anyway...i start out with all the high end ideals and feelings in the world....or at least a good portion....but within a week of getting engaged, they always withouf fail, end up cheating.....im still trying to analyze that one...maybe its the thought of not getting to ever have sex with other guys that gets em.....but after they cheat i always get embroiled back in my war games where its safe and i know what im doing with some degree of confidence. Ive
Sunshine79

Dec 2 @ 2:18PM  
Find a chick that's hooked too!
Nathanial

Dec 2 @ 2:31PM  
yeah...oh believe me ive tried to involve my fiancees in my hobby....they get lost with all the facts and figures and start thinkin they can blow up aircraft carriers with pistols ...and then they get bored and we go do somethin they like....yes i have looked for women that share my hobby...even found a bunch....unfortunately they are called lesbians....so far......may change in the future.
shewolf53

Dec 2 @ 2:38PM  
Maybe you just need to find a female who grew up in a family of mostly guys. They usually are more into things like that without being lesbians. I grew up playing with race cars, trains and battleship with my cousins. Look for that kind of girl and maybe not get so involved in playing that you forget she is there. Just remember all things in moderation.
sugarnspice005

Dec 2 @ 2:43PM  
actually the main reason i talked to him last night is because ill talk to anybody who will talk to me. he made some pretty serious accusations against a member,and since i dont persoallty know anybody here, i wont take sides...yeah..he is pretty rude, and even insulted me once when he was under his other name...but i actually took the time to talk to him a bit and find out a bit of why he acts the way he does

You have got a lot more patience than I do. When he first came here, I tried for weeks to ignore him, let him have his say...but he crossed the line emailing me here with insults. I did nothing to warrant an attack from him, yet, I got pulled in.

Kudos to you for having the patience I don't have.
ynot7769

Dec 2 @ 2:59PM  
I did nothing to warrant an attack from him, yet, I got pulled in.

NOR did ANY of the others.......only a FEW he's been 'civilized' to.....hmmmm odd huh?? add that into the mix as we ponder who it RELAY IS.........deff an old time member..not some newbie


umm sounds like you DO need to find some balance tween gaming and outside world
Nathanial

Dec 2 @ 4:56PM  
well its not as if relationships and my hobbies are mutually exclusive....id gladly give up that hobby for a woman that made me feel ...well ...good...the kind of woman that is into foreplay and touching and being touched and being nice at least a majority of the time.....but findin one of the those is like findin a guy that wears a cowboy hat in new york city...ive seen 3 of those ..so maybe its harder than that
DesertSmile

Dec 2 @ 8:59PM  
Have you ever tried to involve the other person to some extent in your hobby?

Oh boy that is how I started riding MC's..."if I can't lick em...join em" Hubby loved it because now I was off riding with my gal friends and he could still be out playing with the boys and their toys.

Hmmmm....

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