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posted 11/29/2009 8:31:58 PM |
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  texastigress

Well, it's happened to me YET again. A guy on AMD's sister site contacted me here in Austin and expressed interest in meeting me 2 weeks ago. We made plans on meeting last Sunday, but when he was supposed to call me (which he didn't), so I called him and he said that he got busy painting and had to finish the job. I told him that I wasn't interested in meeting him after that - to me you better be dead or dying if you aren't going to keep your word - and he practically begged me to give him another chance and that he was totally "worth it". He promised me that we could meet me today and I asked him to PLEASE wake me up at 2pm - I work nights and basically stay on a night schedule on the weekend. He also told me that he would keep in touch with me during the week. Well, needless to say, the jerk didn't keep in touch like he said he would AND the jerk didn't call me at 2pm like he said he would. The jerk didn't even call me AT ALL.

So, what was I supposed to do? He still didn't call by 7pm, so I sent him the following text message - "You PROMISED that you would call me at 2pm so we could meet - you're a lying sack of you-know-what just like the rest of them! Just remember that YOU were the one who contacted ME, not the other way around. It's guys like you that make women like me bitter and angry. Don't EVEN bother calling, texting or emailing me - EVER. Lose my number!" I blocked this guy from being able to write to me, but unfortunately, I cannot block him from texting or calling me. Damn mobile carrier!

To add more insult to the injury, there was another guy on this site who said he was going to be in Austin this week and wanted to meet me - he asked me if he could see me on certain days. I wrote back to let him know when I would be able to meet him several days before he arrived and guess what? He NEVER read the email I sent to him UNTIL he got back home and tried to send me an email back, but I gave him a piece of my mind first and told him to lose my number, then blocked him. Mercifully, he has not called me.

I hope that the men on this site will read this and understand why I wrote what I did in my essays - not only did that jerk I met on craigslist this past summer prompt me to write what I did, it's players like him, others before him and these two that made me the way I am. I'm sure a lot of women on this site can relate to what I went through this week.

I need to stop being so trusting.

Addendum - The first jerk texted me at 130am later that night wanting to come over to visit me. I called him back and told him that I was already settled in bed for the night and that I don't allow men to come over to my house who I haven't met in person and have gotten to know. What the HELL was he thinking? He must have thought that I was one of those stupid women who let strange men they haven't met in their house. I'm not one of those stupid women.

Please..don't write to me to tell me to block these guys - I've done this already and wrote that I did. See paragraphs #2 & 3. This one gets pretty old. Make sure you read everything I wrote before you give me advice and such - I'm a big girl and I know how to take care of myself.

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sugarnspice005

Nov 29 @ 8:39PM  
I blocked this guy from being able to write to me, but unfortunately, I cannot block him from texting or calling me. Damn mobile carrier!

If he's being a pain, you can always check with your mobile carrier about changing the number.

I know it don't seem this way, but, there really are decent guys out there.
whisperingcomet

Nov 29 @ 8:59PM  
Hang in there girlie!

Oh BTW....been there, got a tee shirt....many times, I think I get more pissed at myself for being stupid, than them for being jerks.... now I stay home alot!
DesertSmile

Nov 29 @ 9:01PM  
That is such a sad story and a rotten thing to do to you. I do know there are good guys left out there; keep the faith.

But, it does remind me of a fella a few years back that kept contacting me wanting to connect. After weeks and weeks of chasing me I agreed to meet him for dinner. Of course he didn't show or call. When I did contact him on my drive back home he actually had the nerve to tell me "well, I decided not to meet you in favor of someone that I knew would be a "sure bet".

You guessed it, 2 days later he is back to emailing me. His "sure bet" wasn't as sure as he thought she was going to be.

Some men, not all by any means, will never learn and we are better without them in our lives.

whisperingcomet

Nov 29 @ 9:05PM  
LOL....I had a man tell me, one our first (and only) date that he had a date with someone else the next night, and he would let me know which of us he would like to date....
TROLL_PATROL

Nov 29 @ 9:30PM  
Here's how it works. When You ask a bitch out on a date, you bring two pills, one pill is a laxative. The other pill is a sleeping pill. Take the cunt to dinner, after she eats all her food, drop the two crushed pills in her drink. She'll fall asleep at the table, shitting herself. Leave the money for the bill and the shitty cunt behind.
ladybootscooter

Nov 29 @ 9:36PM  
Hey my new cell is a Samsung Impression w/ ATT and it does have a block number feature on it! I was really happy to find that feature!
Better luck to ya in the future hun, don't let 'em get ya down!
KitKat25

Nov 29 @ 9:41PM  
I'm sorry you've had such a bad week. I hope this week is better...and that you find the kind of guy you're looking for. (((((hugs)))))
texastigress

Nov 29 @ 9:48PM  
Here's how it works. When You ask a bitch out on a date, you bring two pills, one pill is a laxative. The other pill is a sleeping pill. Take the cunt to dinner, after she eats all her food, drop the two crushed pills in her drink. She'll fall asleep at the table, shitting herself. Leave the money for the bill and the shitty cunt behind.

Troll_Patrol needs to be kicked off the site for what he wrote. That's why he only has ONE friend.
selectusername

Nov 29 @ 10:40PM  
Men are such pigs. OINK!!
texastigress

Nov 29 @ 11:39PM  
Sadly, I had to change the settings to the comment approvals from allowing all comments to where I have to approve them. I wrote a serious blog and there are people on this site who decided to make fun of what I'm going through and it wasn't appreciated. It didn't make the subject I wrote about funny in any way and I'm sure that the ones who've gone through the same thing I have would agree. Thank you to all who've written to me with your own horror stories and words of encouragement, but to all others, you can just go straight to hell.
justme4u

Nov 30 @ 1:49AM  
Don't give up it is definatly thier loss. It just wasn't meant to be and that's how you should look at it.
reverendbubba1

Dec 10 @ 6:44PM  
Don't let a few idiots & and a moron {troll patrol} guide you away from everything that may be good for you. I would love to meet you,but I am not sure that Houston is close enough for you. At any rate, I was taught a man is as only as good as his word...and I believe that.I get in trouble sometyme for being too forward and truthful. I hate upsetting people,but I would hate to be the liar that lost in the long run...Blessed be your trials and tribulations, and may luck and happiness fill your soul. Your path will be blessed if you look ahead and forget the crap you leave behind!

SINCERELY & with LOVE,

BUBBA

P.S. All Bubbas' arent hillbillies or idiots.
adventure8000

Jan 11 @ 5:35PM  
Hi Tigress,

I'm a peaceful guy and don't like violence but at times I'd like to form a Jerk Posse to go out and thumb jerks like you wrote aboiut.

Besides that being mean and unconsiderate of ladies the jerks make dating that much harder for us nice guys.

If I am ever going to be more than about 7-8 minutes late I call...for any appointment, not just a date.

If you'd like, give me a shout...I'll show up...on time too!

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