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Rude "No guys" comments in Essays

posted 12/23/2006 6:10:37 PM |

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tagged: both, no guys, rude, lesbian

WildestDreams

Why do women put themselves under the category of seeking both and then in their essays section make rude comments about no men contacting them? Isn't it just easier to say you are seeking women? What am I missing?

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wtxman

Dec 23 @ 6:33PM

I also was wondering about that; is does seem like BS to me,but I'm sure you'll catch hell for your obsevation,as well as I for this comment. Kudos to you.

bentan

Dec 23 @ 6:53PM

I asked the same question in a forum thread long ago. It was explained to me that in many cases it's a couple seeking another woman. But when they initially sign up they think that because they are a couple they need to put "both". I guess even after they realize their mistake they somehow find it easier to shout "No men!" in their essay than change "both" to "women" in their profile. But don't ask me to explain any further cos I'm just parroting what others have said but I don't understand the logic either. The world is full of illogical people so I'd say don't sweat it.

StraddleMyNose

Dec 23 @ 7:19PM

Because most of those "Lesbians" are really guys playing lesbians and they don't want to make it obvious that they're really guys so they say "both" on their profile, and then they get tired of guys emailing them so they stick "NO MEN" in their profile and essays. Why they do this, perhaps to get pics from other real lesbians on here. I know it's childish, and actually kinda stupid when you think about it.

uhohs

Dec 23 @ 9:20PM

Straddle hit it right on the nose. I would say 99.9% of them are actually men or married men using their wives pics to get pics of other girls..that is my take on it buddy.

Thick8forUn04

Dec 23 @ 9:30PM

i have seen acouple womens profiles in my area that say both ,but the essay says no men,its just idiots on here trying to screw with people,one of them in my area says that and has even gottin on here and bitched about the guys and their nude pics

zippy50

Dec 23 @ 10:09PM

Life would be easier here if they had the option of listing yourself as a couple. It would cut down on some of the BS.

emewz44

Dec 24 @ 8:20AM

Takes notes...and plays Lesbian....he he

ponme

Dec 24 @ 9:40AM

I dunno either.. though I think maybe Straddle has it right..

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