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posted 11/23/2009 8:09:41 PM |
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I don't know about other people, but I feel there are so many emotions that are just a waste of my time and energy. And I have to admit to being an extremely emotional person. Good emotions though... my daughter says I'm overly sentimental and sappy in my old age. Rotten kid .... lol

But I feel actions like anger over petty stuff, revenge, fighting and jealousy are just wasting time that could be spent doing so many better things with the short time we are giving on this earth.

I bring this up because of this past Sat and my sitting here all by lonesome til my daughter got back with nothing to do, while Griz was up in Northern Mn visiting. Another woman... a redhead even.....can you imagine that??

Okay, I am just kidding... no one take it seriously or put troubles there that aren't there.

He and I were supposed to go up North to visit Dayna...(Ewe_Wish) last weekend and even meet this man in her life that I keep hearing so many wonderful things about. Over and over and over......
Yeah, someone has it bad. But it sure seems to be a mutual thing.

Since I couldn't go, neither of us saw a reason he shouldn't go ahead and go. After all Griz and Dayna have been friends for quite a while also..... and he had already told her that he would work on her computer while we were there. Besides, we had gotten her a Pooh Cookie Jar in July, as an early birthday present, to go in her collection. Okay, so maybe my faith in the postal service is not quite as strong as some peoples, and I wanted it to get there in the 2 pieces it came in.....

I had mentioned to my daughter that he was visiting Dayna and she started to tease me... Which was actually funny because I had already teased Griz about "sure I leave and you run off and see another woman"..... He might have taken it more seriously if I had not had to quit laughing to finish the sentence.

Anyways, my daughter and I were discussing it and she said how many women would go off the deep end or be extremely jealous of him and the friend. Or just forbid it.

Which did make me wonder how many women... or even men... would have been jealous of the situation?

My outlook is if I was jealous about it, that would mean I didn't trust him. Or her. And if I didn't trust either, him and I would most definitely Not be together and Dayna and I would not be friends.
I wouldn't be spending my time being jealous. If I don't trust, I don't trust. Simple as that.

So, on the matter of jealousy with your spouse...significant other...partner or whatever... where do you stand? Are you a jealous person in general?
Would Sat have bothered you?
Would any of it depend on how many hours they were there?

Or do you pretty much feel the way I do about it?





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sugarnspice005

Nov 23 @ 8:16PM  
I pretty much feel the way you do CL. Loving someone means you trust them too. And that goes for friends also.

Yep, he fixed her computer...I've gotten 2 emails from her tonight.
ynot7769

Nov 23 @ 8:18PM  
i'm with you ... jealousy is a waste of time and energy

good one......
LilGriz

Nov 23 @ 8:18PM  
Hey darlin ...

It was a beautiful day for a road trip, no kids, and just had to meet this guy with the same name .....

If it was you doing something like that, I wouldn't worry about it for a second .... course, ya already know it, doncha now.... oh BTW

ynot7769

Nov 23 @ 8:22PM  
btw

HE TOLD HER HE HAD A BETTER GARAGE!!!!!

mines better .!!! got more of the stuff that belongs in a garage ..yano weights...ect....

ain't that what its for ??
StraddleMyNose

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Nov 23 @ 8:27PM  
He and I were supposed to go up North to visit Dayna...(
Tell Dayna that I said hi and that she's missed by many on here.
casuallylooking

Nov 23 @ 8:46PM  
HE TOLD HER HE HAD A BETTER GARAGE!!!!!

mines better .!!! got more of the stuff that belongs in a garage ..yano weights...ect....

ain't that what its for ??

Umm, Y, I have to agree with him.
Tools... work bench , doors that lock and lots of room to hide from the kids and they can't hear anything....... you know, like if he's running the drill or something.

If it was you doing something like that, I wouldn't worry about it for a second .... course, ya already know it, doncha now
Yeap... I already know it.


ynot7769

Nov 23 @ 8:58PM  
Umm, Y, I have to agree with him.

doors that lock and lots of room to hide from the kids and they can't hear anything...

well your WRONG...1st off. got locks here BUT NO KIDS

don't need all that other shit.....got da important stuff....
sugarnspice005

Nov 23 @ 9:14PM  
Man!! And I don't even have a garage to argue about.
NightOfOld

Nov 23 @ 9:28PM  


Be kind ?? You must think I have a heart.
DesertSmile

Nov 23 @ 9:34PM  
I am not a jealous person by nature but I also know that some would and have taken advantage of that. I just learned when it was time to not be so understanding.
girlcountry

Nov 23 @ 10:00PM  
I have to say that I would trust my hubby if it came to a situation like that...I have complete confidence in his love for me as he does in my love for him. If there's not any trust, what do you have left?
LilGriz

Nov 24 @ 6:43AM  
I guess I better say, I didn't FIX her computer, I gave her a laptop that I had worked on, pulled data off a hard drive pulled form a dead computer, figured out what was wrong with a third one she was given that didn't work, and cleaned spy-ware and viruses off another one. She was also really happy getting a new/used lcd monitor. Yep, she's wired again Seven hour round trip road trip to do all that, and fed too .... yaaa sure youbetcha
max49

Nov 24 @ 9:42AM  
YOU trusted DAYNA!!! I'm just kidding. Thought maybe it would bring her out long enough to kick my ass anyway.
Wordsofwit

Nov 24 @ 9:49AM  
I am not that way and if someone is possessive and prone to jealousy, it is an immediate deal breaker, period.
1bunny629

Nov 24 @ 2:15PM  
I concur with you Casual. Negative emotions are time wasters.
Lisa46

Nov 26 @ 9:53AM  
Well personally I felt like I almost lost a friend due to jealousy! He and I were very close and then kinda lost touch when he met someone special. So I just hang out and hear from him on occassion. Not like I use to but, hey I love him and I will always be around

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