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posted 11/18/2009 1:47:22 AM |
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  lunanegra

I hate to get into this whirlwind, but some sound advice:

1. All that's involved...STOP GOADING THIS NEANDERTHAL! I'm pretty sure this guy is one person with two profiles. Ynot, you're an alright guy, but please put an end to this. You came back to deal with trolls, but you're only throwing gasoline into the bonfire, not trying to stomp it out, its counterproductive.

2. Everyone REPORT THE SHIT OUT OF THESE TWO PROFILES. Everyone band together and go to the Help section of the forums and keep posting the links to their profiles. Go over to Matchdoctor and bug the hell out of the Mods over there until they come to solve this.

3. Be productive and blog. Talk about your dogs, kids, whatever. As long as there's other blogs to comment on, HOPEFULLY it will take attention away from the asshole in question.

4.Block this fucker and delete his comments on your blogs. Obviously, he snuck into computer room at the group home and is now wreaking havoc on this website. I pity the fact that no one has upped his medication yet.

5. Make your blogs limited to friends if you have to so he won't comment. This would only be temporary until the problem is eliminated. Dont know how to do that? Help>Email Preferences>Email Subscriptions>Comment settings and regs who comment, but aren't on your friends' list? Well, add them.

This is supposed to be an enjoyable place, but outbreaks like this have only lowered the quality of the website. Not to say that other sites don't have troublemakers, but with those places, sometimes there is a competent Moderator or staff to hand the situation quickly and efficiently, or at least have preventative measures in place. Adultmatchdoctor has been rated a poor website in dating site reviews on account of instances like these and incompetent maintainers. The members are here to enjoy themselves, not play the job of policing- that is the Mods and Owner's job.

Now, I doubt anyone will follow such advice, but this bullshit has gone on long enough. Let's be adults again. Thanks.

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lunanegra

Nov 18 @ 1:53AM  
About #2, only if you're a member over at the vanilla site, just go over there and keep bugging them until they deal with their shit over here.
KitKat25

Nov 18 @ 1:57AM  
*Leaving a basket of kudos by the door*
selectusername

Nov 18 @ 2:07AM  
it's probably just some snot nosed kid,

why waste your time with him.











Looking4ever

Nov 18 @ 2:13AM  
NightOfOld

Nov 18 @ 2:53AM  

Your to good a guy to fuck with them Y. Just repot them as Abuse and forget them. I think it's one person too. Using two profiles.

This is a very good blog. Kudo to you.
whisperingcomet

Nov 18 @ 3:21AM  
will do, luna
tassie1

Nov 18 @ 6:16AM  
did I miss something ?
well at least this was interesting to read and sounded like good advice .
if I throw my kudo in miss Kitty's basket, does that still count
JustAnAvatar

Nov 18 @ 6:27AM  
Amen, Luna. The back and forth comments on the blogs sound like 13 year olds trading insults outside their middle school. Half of that back and forth is coming from people who claim not to like the childish behavior. The obvious question is, if they really don't like the behavior, why are they engaging in it?
Wordsofwit

Nov 18 @ 8:11AM  
Here! Here!!
flavorbuster

Nov 18 @ 9:47AM  
Fight back against what ? People like to use the expression adding gasoline to a fire but to me if you don't feed them beans they won't fart. You might as well say they are talking out of their asses because everything stinks that comes out of mouths. It's just a bunch of stinky hot air that will disappear & not linger very long like a fart unless you add beans.
sundance64

Nov 18 @ 10:06AM  
Name calling, threats, posturing, and general childish schoolyard behavior. My question is: Which ones are the trolls?
cottoncandydragon

Nov 18 @ 10:40AM  
Ditto!! Great post! Best I've read in 2 days!! Way to go! Green thingie for ya!

Oh, and we all know who she is talking about and what kind of stuff he is saying, so why even bother to look at the blog?
Looking4ever

Nov 18 @ 1:01PM  
soft_touch938

Nov 18 @ 3:45PM  
I report them incessantly. Then today I see it's worse....but at least Y is being the bigger man now.

So....I called AMD...left a message. Worked before so maybe it'll work again. The phone # is there...anyone can call....hell fill their lil box with lots of complaints.

In the meantime report 'n block.
Exothermic

Nov 18 @ 6:18PM  
Amen Luna!!! I've never felt the urge to participate in the discussions in question and agree that this is the best way to shut these losers down.

One concern about limiting blog comments to friends only - don't forget us well-intentioned newbies that want to get involved. If you cut us out of the conversation, we'll have to go elsewhere.

I'm giving you my first kudo ever! *wonders if this means you got my cherry?*
lunanegra

Nov 18 @ 6:23PM  
Maybe I got it, Exo...maybe not? ;-) I wouldn't worry too much, seems like the furor is dying down a little, but I cant promise anything just yet.
StraddleMyNose

Nov 18 @ 7:04PM  
Both have now been cancelled
Looking4ever

Nov 18 @ 7:08PM  
*wonders if this means you got my cherry?*

Ohhh...there you go, Luna!

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