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posted 11/14/2009 9:25:39 AM |
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I finally bit the bullet, signed up for an ad on the site, and I am interested in seeing what type of people actually look at my self-description and essays. I am not very good at talking about myself, and I don't know that the internet is a good place to find the kind of person I am looking for to date. I know that honesty is important to me, so I am pretty up front and direct when it comes to describing what I am looking for and what gets my engines revving...but I can honestly say that I am my worst critic. I can walk into a outside sales situation and actually meet people, shake their hands, and be perfectly comfortable. I mean, you have to present the product, but if they don't like the way you look or come across...then they aren't going to listen to what you have to say. I guess the best way of getting feedback is to hear it direct from your closest friends. That is where I have a dilemna....unfortunately. Most of my friends are across the country, or they probably would never understand why I am divorced to begin with...since I was raised in a very conservative environment where divorce didn't happen. I still believe in long term relationships, but maybe not so much in the marriage just doesn't seem to work for me. I am also interested in an alternative to the 2.5 children and the suburban house with the minivan....but I want to avoid the adrenaline junkies who have the vial of cocaine in their pocket...or have to pop pills to stay alive. Happy medium...I want a substance free existence without drugs/alcohol/tobacco...well maybe a little alcohol once in a while. Oh,yeah...avoid like hell the militant muslims who think that Malcolm X hung the moon or like to shoot at soldiers in the US military.(BIG HINT) Add to that some friends that I can call up once in a while to do things with, maybe dinner and some fun conversation. Maybe I can attract the right kind of friends... the quiet librarian who you would think was a spinster or the "cat lady" but when she is alone with me behind closed doors screams at the top of her lungs and wraps her legs around me so tight it hurts. I don't know...maybe the MBA that travels 90percent of the time for her job based out of New York...and wants to stop in my little town for a nice dinner and conversation....and maybe some cuddling along the way. Some people I don't want to meet....ladies who are married to someone in the military...and are cheating on them while they are overseas...drug users....people with evil twins(one is good and then they switch places and cause all kinds of drama)...people embezzling money from their work widows(I like to live)....please leave all that drama and crap out of my life.

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Nov 14 @ 9:40AM  
well i can give you the short scoop..number one setting your blog to AUTO approve will help you get more comments...alot won't bother to type knowing you might not approve em....

your essay seems well written that's a plus....tho might find the married thing slows some down BUT being honest does go a long ya got my answer but whada i know?

*sits back sippin coffee and watchin n waitin to see what happens*

Nov 14 @ 9:57AM  
opps ..sry guess i shouldn't comment till i've had nuff coffee..UNmarried

that will help alot

Nov 14 @ 1:29PM  
Nicely written blog and profile. You just might find what you are looking for. Won't be easy and I doubt it will just drop in your lap. Something worth having seldom does.

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