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posted 11/2/2009 7:09:25 PM |
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Wow... I left for almost a month and come back into the same crap that was going on when I left.

Same shit different day...doesn't it ever get tiring?
BTW, that is rhetorical... no replies needed.
Just my thoughts..

The real reason for this blog is...
I watched a show the other day called The Doctors and the gynecologist in the group mentioned that only 7% of women... Yes that's a really low percentage... But only that small number of women have orgasms from vaginal intercourse.
While 98% of men get off from vaginal intercourse with a woman.

Being a woman, I have to ask, How fair is that?
I knew that not many women could have an orgasm with just intercourse, but I never realized the numbers were quite that low.

I realize there are many men who take this into consideration with their sexual partner, but for those who may not have even known this.... now you know.

I also read in a magazine where some men have the opinion that women just want to get sex over with and and having an orgasm isn't even a thought.
One guy admitted that the longest he and his wife of 11 years had ever had sex was 10 minutes, from start to finish....
Straight missionary sex, no foreplay by or for either, and as soon as he cums, it's all over. He said that she says she doesn't want anymore than that. And he's just content as long as he gets that. Feels it's better than his hand.....

Umm, HELLO!! This is Not the stone ages..

It made me wonder if they had all just been with extremely frigid women or if they were the reasons the women just wanted to get it over with....
Not good either way.

Admittedly there are those times that an orgasm isn't at all important....nor is fore play...Just fullfilling that urge...or someone elses urge or wants.
But there are also those times that we need or want the release of those mind shattering orgasms.

And we love it when you make that happen...........







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ynot7769

Nov 2 @ 7:15PM  
not EXACTLY the same yano

Wordsofwit

Nov 2 @ 7:24PM  
Maybe it is double, triple, quadruple, etc. for women. The multiple orgasm thing. Factor that by multiple sources; vaginal, clitoral, anal. Depending on the prowess of the partner, it more than evens out. Just my thoughts.

A man can have a good night with one squirt if any woman shows up. With a woman, the most sensual part of the body is the mind. What a woman thinks about something is largely irrelevant as how she she feels about it everything. Just my take.
Ewe_Wish

Nov 2 @ 7:28PM  
Ummmm Welcome back.............and God I missed you...........


and I am afraid I am not going to say anything else because God knows someone will take it out of context and bitch...........................yep your right nothing changes........
Sunshine79

Nov 2 @ 7:31PM  
Welcome back. No it's not fair..... And yes, same shit, different day
ynot7769

Nov 2 @ 7:32PM  
Ewe you fuckin say what you want......gahead..say it.....hell write it to me I'LL SAY IT
Loveyoulongtime2

Nov 2 @ 8:10PM  
I guess I've been lucky to meet women who can have vaginal orgasms, I love intercourse. It's hard to believe only 7% of women can have vaginal orgasms, some blame must be on incompetent men.
whisperingcomet

Nov 2 @ 8:21PM  
Hey girlie... nice to see you
DesertSmile

Nov 2 @ 9:09PM  
some blame must be on incompetent men.

I am not sure it's incompetent men but certainly men who are not interested in giving back (and learning how to give back) the attention they receive OR understanding and appreciating the wonderful journey that a sexual encounter can be.

Sadly enough far too many men just don't take the time to understand their partners....** sigh**

ksk72

Nov 2 @ 9:18PM  
Woo Hoo for being the minority

It's not all the guy's fault. There are still a large number of women that are to shy to explore ther own bodies and if you can figure out how to cum then how can you expect to teach a guy how to make you cum...its all about communication
sugarnspice005

Nov 2 @ 9:24PM  
The Doctors? Guess you're not talking about the old soap opera my Mom used to watch. I think I know what show you're talking about..it's a panel of Doctors discussing health issues and such.

Wow, only 7% of women have orgasms from vaginal intercourse? See...there's the argument for more foreplay!

One guy admitted that the longest he and his wife of 11 years had ever had sex was 10 minutes, from start to finish....

10 minutes isn't long enough. I like to enjoy, take my time. Give a little, receive a little...

Straight missionary sex, no foreplay by or for either, and as soon as he cums, it's all over. He said that she says she doesn't want anymore than that. And he's just content as long as he gets that. Feels it's better than his hand.....

And he stayed with her? Talk about love and devotion. Honestly, I don't know how I would handle something like that....to me, straight missionary sounds about as exciting as watching rocks.

But there are also those times that we need or want the release of those mind shattering orgasms.

And we love it when you make that happen
Wordsofwit

Nov 2 @ 9:49PM  
I am afraid I am not going to say anything else because God knows someone will take it out of context and bitch

I can totally relate to that. The woman is talking true!
onehornytoad69

Nov 2 @ 10:19PM  
Hi there Lady!!!!
My "EX" GF...was/is a "Take a Long time to cum..Lady!!! (G spot)
But after a Hour of good exersize...I learned that she would Squirt somewhat...and it would hinder her Orgasm...!! (No she didnt squirt with her orgasm) We talked about it..and then she would let me know when to stop..and she would grind untill she had the Orgasm..and more times than not...3 or more of them!!!
We have gotta talk..and let each other know whats Happening!!!

SOS here? Yeah it is...so nothings gonna change..."Come on in..the water is fine"!!! Welcome Back!!!!
Ewe_Wish

Nov 2 @ 11:32PM  
I can totally relate to that. The woman is talking true!
Damn straight I was.............since you were in part of whom I was speaking of.
NightOfOld

Nov 2 @ 11:55PM  


Welcome back sweetheart.
dirtywhiteboy34

Nov 3 @ 12:38AM  
Don't fall into the trap of listening to an "expert" just because he/she's been billed as such.
I think the good doctor is full of shit.
borty293

Nov 3 @ 4:11AM  
I've never had a vaginal orgasm.. I'll be seeing the doctor tomorrow and ask him about it.
aftershox

Nov 3 @ 6:59AM  
I have come to the conclusion that there is alot of bad and mediocre sex going on out there. I think people don;t know better. I know I didn;t know better during 25 years of marriage. I thought our early sex life was pretty good. Now I realize it wasn;t . It was just boring mediocre and I was lucky if I ever had an orgasm.

Now I have come to realize that there are alot of guys who really and truly do know what they are doing. They know how to please a woman, orally, manually, anally, vaginally, with toys, etc etc. Slow, patient, sensual and fun.

But it easier to let things be as they have always been Sex is just for procreation anyway, isn't it?
dmbchick420

Nov 3 @ 8:20AM  
Woo Hoo for being the minority

I second that

After reading this, I am just blessed I have an awesome partner, who I have awesome sex with. He just knows what I like and I know what he likes and we are so good together. I think a lot of people just don't know better (like what Aftershox said) or they just don't care (I don't know why you wouldn't want to try and make your sex life better).

Good to see your back! I was wondering where you went!

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