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posted 10/23/2009 3:09:09 PM |
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How Many Is Too Many?



A what point do we become "SLUTS?" Is there a number of men we have to sleep with to become sluts? For instance, once we have slept with 9, 18, or 27 men are we officially deemed as sluts? Is it not necessarily the number but how you conduct you sexual encounters? Who is to be labeled a slut? In my opinion many women have had their share of great, average and failed fucks. I for one have had my share. I have learned many lessons through the men I have slept with and I don't think I would be who I am today or tomorrow if I were to erase my good or bad sexual experiences. Is it someone who sleeps with men hoping it may be more after sex many times over? Or is it someone who is finding themselves through various sexcapades? If either of these are the case, are we all sluts or is it quite possible that we are all saints trying to find our way through sexual experiences?

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Wordsofwit

Oct 23 @ 3:33PM  
It is not a matter of how many as much as how fast.
HotCityKitty

Oct 23 @ 3:40PM  
Ok I will be the first to tell you I walk on the wild side and I have had a person or two to call me a slut... This is the way I look at it. I do not use sex in a way as to make a living I work my ass off. I do not sleep with anyone who is in a relationship. I just don't want to be in a relationship. I do enjoy having sex. The 2 long term relationships I was in...Lets just say it was not pretty.....I worked my ass off and they took over my house my car my food my money hell that got old . So now I have my flings. If someone out there wants to call me a slut ..Fine cause honey it is not what they call you but what you answer to and I do not answer to slut ....well maybe if I am in the middle of some hot sex but thats another story
Ewe_Wish

Oct 23 @ 4:22PM  
Personally i think the meaning of slut.......is whatever woman you are pissed at ...at the moment because she is getting laid and you're not!!

I don't believe its the number or the time it lasts or how many in a period of time........first off, its no ones business who you have had sex with so if you don't tell someone who you have fucked, how could anyone know whether you were promiscuous......
RevDocLove

Oct 23 @ 5:39PM  
Ah...For the good ol' days when sleep was to
close your eyes and sleep, not fuck!
When sex was a gender, male or female
When a slut was just a woman or girl who fucked everyone indiscriminatingly
And nobody really cared about other people's fuck habits
somnium

Oct 23 @ 6:47PM  
Personally... I never liked terms used on women to describe their so-called 'promiscuity' as they say, for doing what comes natural- especially when a male is called a 'stud', for doing the same damn thing!

JMO

fordman09

Oct 23 @ 7:48PM  
All right honey, looks like its going to take fordman to explain this to you. These women are all off track here. tisk, tisk, A slut, is more than a name, it's how you conduct yourself between the sheets. Has nothing to do with numbers of men, or how many times you've been laid. It's a behavior when aroused. Ho hum, another question properly answered.
DesertSmile

Oct 23 @ 8:53PM  
it's how you conduct yourself between the sheets.

Sooo....if I play dead and lay motionless I am not a slut but if I get into the groove of things then I am a slut?


Horraaayyyyy I am a slut!
theSkwirl

Oct 23 @ 10:47PM  
Slut, being an odd shortening of the word slattern doesn't mean what it's used to mean in today's english.

I'm a slut. I'm damned proud to be a slut.. but then, I'm an ethical slut. So it's all right.

On another note.. what's the difference between a bitch and a slut?


A slut will sleep with anyone.. a bitch will sleep with anyone but you.


How many is too many... so many that you yourself feel badly about the numbers. Or 2 can be too many if one of them is someone you regret having put out for. See.. it's really hard to define.. for some.. 2 is too many.. for others.. 100 isn't enough.

I'd say when you can drive a truck in there.. turn it around and still never touch the sides... you've had tooooo much!
soft_touch938

Oct 24 @ 1:03AM  
Small town meaning of a slut...

Walk in a bar alone and leave with a man...you're a slut....doesn't make any difference if he went left and you went right..ya walked out the door at the same time...sets jaws ta flappin'....
dirtywhiteboy34

Oct 27 @ 6:36PM  
I think you nailed it skwirl.....no pun intended! No further input required on my part.
I will say that it's nobody's damn business how anyone conducts themselves.
Nobody has the right to judge anbody until they've walked a mile in their shoes.
Kudos to you Busty. Good post!

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