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posted 10/19/2009 4:02:17 PM |
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A very few short months ago my mother and father was doing ok on their own. I was living on the east end of the state in a 3 bed room house that was paid for. I had a cool job and I was 8 hours away fron my nutso sister and crazy ass brother. Life to me was as it should be. Then I got a call one weekend dad's heart. He was in the hospital. I came back to find my mom and dad in need. My sister lived down the street my brother lived across town and nothing was being done for mom and dad. I left my job I put my house up for sale and I moved back to the west end of the state. I am now running dad's cleaning store and giving the help my mom and dad needs. I now rent a small little 2 bed room place and I have to put up with my sister and brother everyday.Yesterday was not a good day for me and my sister seem to have a way to pick days like yesterday to bug the shit out of me. So I asked her Kathy you live down the road from mom and dad Brent lives across town why in the hell was mom and dad in such need when I came. This is what she said to me..... Anna you are the only one who is not married you don't have a family to take care of you have no life so we thought it only fair that you take on the job of taking care of mom and dad. I felt like smacking her brains out. . Frist of all mom and dad raised all 3 of us and all 3 of us should be helping out. 2nd I may not be married with a house full of rug rats but that don't mean I don't have a life.. Somebody needs to save me I am about to tear her head off

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sugarnspice005

Oct 19 @ 4:29PM  
Take a deep breath and then tell yourself this: "it isn't worth it". Cause it's not. Yes, she and your brother need to take part in helping, and I would suggest the 3 of you sitting down and finding a way to work this out, for your parents sake.

Wordsofwit

Oct 19 @ 6:41PM  
If there is an afterlife, there is a special place for you in it and a different place for your sister and brother. I feel sorry for your parents that when the chips were down, they had to experience the sadness of how self centered and ungrateful two of their offspring really were.

Just pondering rhetorically if would not have been better for them to move in with you eight hours away and sell their home and business.
KitKat25

Oct 20 @ 1:52AM  
I have a girlfriend who is experiencing the exact same thing as you, except she has a brother who is married with kids and they live in another state. After 3 years of continuous care, her brother finally came home for an entire week visit so she could have some time off. She loves her mom dearly, but most days she is in way over her head. The sad thing is she will have to eventually put her mom in a home because she is not getting the support she needs from her brother, and she can't continue to do everything on her own. It's a very tough situation...just like yours.

You are a wonderful daughter, and your parents are truly blessed to have you there with them in their time of need. My heart goes out to you.

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