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  weasell_l

I dont know and cannot speak on behalf of the rest of the males on here, but I can state for the record that a select few of us are sick and tired of being made to look like a sex crazed, self indulged, one track mind thinking moron with the brain span of a feild mouse. To the women out there, I sencerely appologize for the actions of my fellow man/cockroach. We are not real good thinkers and are driven on by nothing more than the need to multiply and drool, as it would appear by so many profiles and e-mails.

To the men: Nice dick,,I have one just like it,,,they are not that fuckin fascinating. Blogs, I promise if you put up another waste of space blog stating that you want/need/or must get laid, I am going to write a one page letter on how much a fuckin waste of space in this life you really are. Respect you dumb fucks,,would you go in public, whip out your dick and then start talking?? Its the same in here, which is probably the main reason you are here,,your dick is the only good thing you have to offer, and your best quality obviously doesn't shine in the outside world.

Lets put on our big boy pants and show women that we are more than what they have become to expect form us. Lets break the mould and dare to be different, ask them what they like, get to know them as more than a blow up doll with a heart beat. They are not hookers and should not be treated as such. They are mothers/sisters/daughters and should..no....WILL..be treated as you would treat your own...And because you dont think well,,,an angry response (comment),,shows that I was right on the money and struck a chord.

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ponme

Dec 20 @ 12:14PM  
Do you know how incredibly sexy you are right at this moment?
StraddleMyNose

Dec 20 @ 12:18PM  
There are a few bad apples with both sexes with most of what you're saying. The only thing I would really have to take issue with you in the whole blog is saying that we men are not real good thinkers and drool with our profiles and emails. Not true with a lot of us guys! Btw, why feel the need to apologize for the sleezebags on here? I never would. Sure, I feel bad that good people have to put up with that from sleezebags, but those people should feel sorry enough to apologize, not you, or me, nor anyone else that's descent and respectful to others on this site and everywhere else.
Rockstar8869

Dec 20 @ 12:21PM  
Nicely said...If you are real woman will want to know more....
weasell_l

Dec 20 @ 12:25PM  
It was not meant as an insult that we all drool, but as a general personification that is now out there due to this constant bombardment of stupidity. My preference would be to show a size 11 boot in the ass beats a dick in a pic anyday,,but I cant do that, my visa expired.
tlc0766

Dec 20 @ 12:29PM  
Thank You weasell and pon got it right again, you are sexxxyyy as hell!!
writesexxx

Dec 20 @ 12:33PM  
..and your forgot grandmothers!

Well said...I have only been here a few days and have been amazed at those who 1) don't bother to read my profile/essay and 2) think that a photo of their cock is the highlight of my day...NOT!
uhohs

Dec 20 @ 1:05PM  
Preach on!
Mymastersslave

Dec 20 @ 3:08PM  
I agree with ponme.... I am drooling myself. Knight in shining leather.... SWOON!!!
astorm

Dec 20 @ 3:31PM  
He is the real deal , just like that inperson. i am gonna keep him.
canuhelpme258

Dec 20 @ 4:01PM  
...and though I stumble... another takes up the banner

You are really going to get along with the real women here man, seriously.
weasell_l

Dec 20 @ 4:04PM  
I was just holding it for you, it is yours..
belle1010

Dec 20 @ 5:48PM  
First off, thank you. Second P's right, you're lookin mighty sexy right now!
enjoyingitall

Dec 20 @ 6:05PM  
1st of - displays of public nudity or posting nude pics on here is called something - exhibitionism? now for all of you who arent grown ups or havent expanded your mind - here is the definition: a tendency to display one's abilities or to behave in such a way as to attract attention. - i would say that this describes anyone on here with dick pics...

maybe your not a voyuer but there are plenty of people on here that are and my pics are for them...

now are we adults or not? does the sight of a penis actually offend you that much? if so your probably on the wrong site. so - why is it ok for a woman to have your breast showing or her vagina but not for a guy to show his penis? and weasel - why are you checking out the guys profiles? i mean damn - how else are you going to know there are all the penis pics unless your checking them out? which makes me wonder - why are you doing that?

now as far as the ones that are fake? hey - cant do anything about that. yeah if your gonna throw out a picture of a side of beef and your really only sporting a oscar meyer weiner - then yeah - that's messed up. but if you got it - flaunt the shit out of it.

lastly - ths is AMD.. if you take the adult part out of it (the talk, pics, hook ups, etc..) then it becomes MD.... now i have met, talked to, gotten winks from, had my profile checked out by some pretty amazing women from here who seemed to have and know for fact have loved my cock pics.. guess your calling them all hookers and whores? now who is the fucked up one in the bunch here? it takes ALL types to make this world go around.. worry about yourself and stop worrying about a few people that might have an exhibitionism or a voyuer in them.. stop being so closed minded and take the blinders off...

now - there is no anger in this post.. read it as you may.. and let's see if it actually gets postedd or deleted...
sundance64

Dec 20 @ 6:36PM  
Thank you Weasel!!

As for the naysayers...let me add my two cents here, hell I've been doing it since I joined this site why stop now?
Yes, this is an Adult site. Adult in this context generally refers to content but also means only Adults can join. So I agree...we have to expect things like nude pics, profane language and erotica. I am not offended by that at all.
What I am offended by are the stupid fucking males on this site who insist that I must tell them how much I love their dick...who just have to tell me what orifice they would love to slam that dick into...and then tell me I must be a bitch/cunt/tease/lesbian because I either replied with no thank you or just flat out ignored them.
I'm also offended when these same stupid fucking males get on the blog page with their Whiny Little Bitch Syndrome and cry about the fact that they aren't getting any responses.
And finally I'm offended by the assholes who think they know it all when it comes to picking up women on the internet and then turn around and try to tell me and every other person with a brain on this site that if we don't like looking at the dicpics then we should go someplace else!
Let me say one more thing then I'm done. The dicpics are not that attractive compared to a good face or even body shot. Or even an average shot. Really! Most men like the way thier dick looks...most women like the way thier man's dick looks. But fuckit people!! That is not the first thing that we want to see! And as far as why are men looking at other mens profiles...they're probably reading the blogs!
**Passing the ranting stick back to Weasel with a bow** Thanks hun...good blog!
ponme

Dec 20 @ 6:39PM  
~~~~~*TWAAAAAAAAAAANG*~~~~~~~~~
JJN4Fun

Dec 20 @ 6:59PM  
Damn - sorry I'm late in reading this! (unexpected visitor...and no, did not get laid
)

weasell - excellent blog. I see nothing wrong with apologizing on behalf of your gender, nor for speaking to the issue of dickpics. Yes, this is an adult site and it's perfectly okay to post such pics - for whatever reason someone may want to post one. BUT - read what the women are saying; in many cases it's not that they don't want to see them at all, they just don't want it to be the first thing they see. I feel that way. Dicks are great; love 'em. But don't want to be greeted by one. Your point about would a man walk up to a woman, whip his dick out, and say hi was very well made and taken. A man who does that to me is first going to slapped (good and fuckin' hard), then going to jail.

enjoyingitall, to answer your question about how he knows there are so many dickpics - check out the blogs and forums - cocks galore! One doesn't have to cruise profiles to see who's flaunting their wares and who isn't.
JJN4Fun

Dec 20 @ 7:14PM  
Sorry, one more point to make - on behalf of women. Thank you to all the men who wage war on douchebags for helping to make this a more enjoyable place to hang out!
enjoyingitall

Dec 21 @ 2:27AM  
sundance64 - as far as why guys are looking at profiles - well before i ever wrote the 1st blog - i would get atleat 10 views a day of guys.. guys who say they are straight... ok - fine - guys are checking my profile.. my pics are up there - ohhh fucking well...

ok - wrote the 1st blog - now i'm getting even more and btw - if you just READ the blog - it doesnt go into your history... you actually have to go into their profile for it to go into the view history... so that dismisses that theory.. any others?

also - as far as the view history goes - i have a LOT of women who have viewed my profile... now some are because - i contacted them and they checked my profile out.. some are totally unsolicited.. imagine that - women who want to look at dick pics.. women who arent scared to say that they are intrigued.. guess my profile is for them... or really anyone who wants to look... for that matter - i have direct links to my server here at my house that i have a LOT of pics on - dick pics, face pics, body pics - you name it... annnnnnd i do share... i covered this in my blog... some people may have reasons on why they post the ones they do. you actually have a reason for choosing/changing the pic you have posted right now...

what it comes down to it - it's plain and simple - if you dont want to look - dont.. skip the profile, block the ones you want to block and move the fuck on... geez.. and weasel - quit your whining - damn dude.. there are a couple of "guys" in here that really need to grow some..

look - there are about what 10 women in this blog total and well - if that is all there is that's bitching about the pics - so be it...

now - sundance64 - if a guy is asking you to comment on his pic or being rude in the way he is approaching or talking to you - then yes that is fucked up! but - unless asked (i hate cyber sex and phone sex, as well as strip clubs and most types of porn) i wont talk to a woman in that manner. i'll comment on their profile, tell them what i think and also let them know that i'm interested in chatting/talking. that's it.

yes - the pics are crude... whoop d shit... so a few of us are a bit bolder than others.. we take chances that others are too chicken shit to take (in chances - not talking about unprotected sex - doing that well - that's just stupid!) and for the most part - the chances i take pay off - how i wanted them too...

as far as putting my 2 cents in - think i'm up to about a buck fifty...


btw - SxzeBBW - i dont check out dick pics.. i dont check out profiles of guys... if its blue - i move on.. and i have to take issue with your comment about waging war.. guess in your world we cant just all get along... hmmm - wonder where your since of being able to feel free to express themselves is at?

i am following the Acceptable Use Policy of this site. thankfully they arent as close minded as the bunch in here are... damn people...
Lynwho

Dec 21 @ 9:10AM  
I've got to tell you Weasell.................I'm liking you! You have class
tlc0766

Dec 21 @ 10:21AM  
Hey enjoyingitall, I think you are missing the point, yes maybe there a few women on here you enjoy seeing nothing but a cock picture, but I think I speak for the majority of us by saying we would much rather see your smile or your eyes. That is what draws my attention first and foremost. The eyes are the windows to your soul, and I can honestly tell a lot about someone by their smile and wether or not it reaches the eyes. Hey if all you want to post is a pic of your dick, fine go ahead, but that isn't what really grabs our attention, there has to be something worthwhile attached to the dick, and how can you tell if that's all you see?
weasell_l

Dec 21 @ 10:42AM  
Lmao,,me,,whining,,enjoying it your a funny boy. I think it is rediculous.You read my entire blog and the only thing you can get out of it, is that I am whining and I look at pics of guys...You are right, yes I do, therefor I must be gay, or very analytical on someone elses behalf. You wanna judge me,,well here let me help,,,I have a degree in Electrical Engineering as well as robotics and automation with 18 years under my belt 10 of those in a top executive position. to put it plainly, yeah it is rocket science, and I have probably forgot more than you know...I do not like to say it,,as I prefer to not toot my own horn so to say. Now,,,lets look at you for a moment...
You wanted my attention,,,,well now you have it....what I got from your is that you talk a very good game,,,babes love my dick pics,,but I did notice: out of 9 pics that are only of your dick only 3 have comments,,and your freinds list only has one person. You profile switches from comments about oral and sex and how good you are then the next statement is how you would like to get to know them, which tells me you are through your profile trying to cover all aspects of what a woman would like to hear said.The posting of Msn adn Yahoo names tells me that there is also a sence of desperation. A statement sayin no expectations on the evening, tells me that you are exactly as stated,,,not much to the eye beyond your dick. You do not at all like poor hygene,,,but this statement is from someone sitting bare ass on their couch, their dick on a credit card,, a cell phone..and a table to which you put your food on,,,hygene is more that just looks and brushin you teeth. I also noticed that you have a shammy over you far end table and everything is neatly folded and in it's place, but by the general appearance of the shirt and the joggin shorts combo, you are not the type of male to have that kind of upkeep, which tells me you are probably takin the pics while "she" is at work, or you are in the basement recroom as I do not see any shadow other than that of the overhead light....I could go on...but it seems pointless..
I posted your profile due to you are entitled to your opinion, and I enjoy the variation of opinions,,but,,,it could have been stated without the personal attack towards me and others...Merry Christmas...
bibrandy

Dec 21 @ 11:41AM  
Hats off L.... U tell it like it is.... Very well done hun I gave u my last Kudo on this one !!!!

~~Brandy~~
allforyou999

Dec 21 @ 5:08PM  
Remember, Eagels may soar, but weasels don't get sucked into Jet engines
enjoyingitall

Dec 25 @ 1:05AM  
well, well... it did got posted.. checked for a while and figured you had just pussed out.. and didnt come back til now.. nice..

ok - you say you have an electrical engineering degree.. wow... nice.. i'm impressed... actually not because i know a lot of people out there who can run circles around people with degrees.. so move on... top executive.. nice non-descrip title.. and though you have been in a top paying position for 10yrs you choose to have a free account.... nice... guess that makes you cheap.... nice quality that women look for in a man... but no - it isnt rocket science.. exec positions (if you have ever held one with a company with any gumption - or maybe it was your company (i had one of those too - sold it - made quite a bit of money off it too)) are not tough to get. have seen a lot of people give up on the tech side to go into the management/senior management side only to reget it later, thus why i'm still a tech but one that will clear over 130k this year. so i'm betting it wasnt a fortune 1000 company that you held this "top executive" postition in...

what else... lets see.. my dick pics.. yes - i have 9 on here.. not going to apologize a bit for that... and only 3 have comments.. so what dude? what the hell.. do people need comments on their pics? havent looked at yours except for the ones you have up as your main pic.. could care less how many people have posted comments on your pics or mine.. i want to thank the ones who have... that was very nice of them, but dont think for a moment that me not having people comment about my pics concerns me or bothers me in the least..... sure if it makes you happy and will make you quit whinning - i'm sure you have more comments on your pics... there.. happy? geez.... lol

friends.. ok - i'm not one of the guys who asks every woman if i can be their friend. as a matter of fact - i have never asked anyone but if someone asks - sure - i will say yes and no - dont care who it is....

my profile.. glad you read it.. sorry dude - not meant for you..... that is me.. pure and simple. i dont tell people what i think they want to hear and if you have read my posts or my blogs (the few that ive written) you might understand that. i give the truth.. i call them like i see them and if some one doesnt like it - ohhhhh fucking well...

my hygene... thanks for noticing that there is upkeep in my home. that is greatly appreciated!! most dont look that far, but i'm glad you studied my pics... if thats what you do anyway.. the table i have my cock over.. well - they were actually taken at the holiday inn in oneonta ny.. that is the desk in the room.. so - no i didnt actually eat off that table... and anyone who has ever stayed in a hotel knows - there is bio material alll over the place - and even though they clean - uhhh - its still there.. so i dont ever eat on any of the surfaces.. the pics with my coffee table and end tables are in my living room... i do fold and hang my clothes.. anyone who knows me - knows this. i'm almost OCD about cleaning my house.. if you dont know what OCD is - look it up... i am somewhat of a clean freak. but you dont know me and wouldnt know this.. however you are judging me by what you see in pics..

now if i did that.. i would say you are compensating.. you let your hair grow long because you havent grown up. you threw the part in there about being a top exec because you most likely either can't hold a job or have a small dick.. probably the latter of the 2 due to the fact that you get upset with the dick pics. electrical engineering degree.. hmmmm... maybe from a tech school or somewhere like itt or devry but not a engineering school like nc state or of the sorts.... but most importantly you were really trying to show me up... that's impossible... why you ask? its state of mind. if you are doing better than me financially - awesome for you. if you have had better realationships than me, more/less of them (whichever you think is better) - awesome - im proud for you.. if you drive a better car, own a better/bigger home - freaking awesome dude! i'm happy for you.. and that my friend is why you will never show me up because i want everyone to have the things i have.. i want everyone to do as good if not better than i have and you know what? i'll even tell them how.. give them links on where to go and what to do to acheive it cause i really do care for people. can you say that? and for people i truly call my friends - i'll even help them acheive it.. give them the books they need, the financial support they need or whatever. hell for a friend of mine - i built her 2 computers for her kids... no - never had sex with this woman.. hell she looks fabulous but i care more about our friendship than getting a piece of ass. and over the years have given her money to help her out - because i care. does that make me special? no.. its what friends do for one another but i doubt you understand that.

you say - i'm prob married.. nope.. and will say its because of me. been engaged a couple of times but due to me having to travel as much as i do - well - it doesnt work out.... but hey.. good try.. your batting ohhhh - let's say .000....

didnt judge you... ever... just said - makes one question why... did i step on your toes or something?

as far as attack goes? let's see the 1st time i ever saw anything from you was your comments in the blog i posted.. now attack is a strong word for what i stated here and before in here and what you stated in my blog - but your words were quite condesending... did i complain? no but i fired back... will i complain? no... i will make a point. if you make or attempt to make a counter point - then i will then take the debate and continue on. my words on here carry no malice. i do not get angry... as you so elquently put it - it's pointless. i dont know you, i will never know you. and i will even go as far to say that if i did meet you - i would not even acknowledge your existance. why? because from what i have seen - you need to grow up. you need to mature just a bit. drop the "tough guy" persona you are trying to project with the "wife beater" shirt and the long hair and full beard/mustache. it's not working.. i'm not intemidated in the least... all the pics you have cycled through as your main pics are of the same thing (just as mine are)....

i dont attack. i dont pick on.. i dont target.. but as i said earlier in another blog - if you want t
LunarMagick

Dec 27 @ 7:34PM  
Weasell... I think I am in love... with your style.

For the guys who say there's "nothing wrong" with posting a dick pic... You are right there isn't. You are also wrong. Just as you have the "right" to post a dick pic we ladies have the "right" to delete your emails when the first thing that we see when we open them is your dick. Your rights END where ours begin. You don't have the right to comment on our choice to consign your emails to the trash, you don't have the right to send us abusive emails when we say "thanks but no thanks" or choose to not respond to you at all and you don't have the right to get upset because we don't want to look at your hootis.

Yes, I know, God gave you that playtoy to keep you entertained. Afterall the easiest way to potty train a boy is to dump a few cheerio's in the toilet and tell him to sink them and you CAN write your name in the snow with it. Playing with it will keep a body entertained for hours. None of that though makes it the first thing that we want or need to know about you.

Sorry but the only hootis I want to see is the one that crawls into bed with me. The rest of y'all can keep your hootises to yourselves.
SexPet

Dec 27 @ 9:53PM  
For what it's worth - I, personally, don't respond to emails that have a dick pic on them. I think it's vulgar as an introduction and shows that most men... just don't have a clue. And, it does make you wonder... if they can't show their face, there must be a reason.... hmmmmm?

But what have we here... ah.... weasell - a rare exception. mmmmmmm Very intriguing indeed. Beauty and brains is always a dynamic combination. Add chivalry - and WOW - watch the ladies swoon like a row of falling dominoes.

Nice post, weasell


bentan

Dec 27 @ 10:06PM  
For the guys who say there's "nothing wrong" with posting a dick pic... You are right there isn't. You are also wrong. Just as you have the "right" to post a dick pic we ladies have the "right" to delete your emails when the first thing that we see when we open them is your dick. Your rights END where ours begin. You don't have the right to comment on our choice to consign your emails to the trash, you don't have the right to send us abusive emails when we say "thanks but no thanks" or choose to not respond to you at all and you don't have the right to get upset because we don't want to look at your hootis.

Small point of logical discourse: the guys who say there's nothing wrong with posting a dick pic do not necessarily also say/imply/claim women don't have a right to respond as they see fit. So your statement: "You are also wrong" is quite simply a non sequitur.
bentan

Dec 28 @ 12:59AM  
I think it's vulgar as an introduction and shows that most men... just don't have a clue. And, it does make you wonder... if they can't show their face, there must be a reason.... hmmmmm?

Well, unless you are prepared to state and defend as fact that most men have dic pics as the main pic, you can't conclude that it shows most men don't have a clue. And if they can't show their face, there may be several reasons -- for some it may be due to the fact that they are in a job where it is not advisable for their bosses or colleagues to know they are members of an adult web site. Yes, it's a sad fact that not everyone in the real world is quite so open-minded. So try to take that into account when you pass judgment.
weasell_l

Dec 28 @ 1:28AM  
Wow, enjoyin it...Lol...I did actually start to explain what I do,,but it seems pointless ...we're throwin stones,,As you,,I agree we could do this back and forth till we fill their servers,,,and I have also realized something (good point Bentan),,,you make a choice to have your pics and I make a consious choice to which ones I post..and who am I to say that you are wrong or that I am right..Its like the desperate e-mails and blogs,,I am not desperate and do not have the need of a dating site whereas you may due to travel and it may help to meet new people in places prior to getting there...It does make it easier for me to be judgemental as I am not actually looking hard at all..

I have categorized you and appologize for that,,to each their own,,differences is what sets us all apart..
bentan

Dec 28 @ 1:57AM  
Ah no no Weasell, I'm not even talking about opinions, judgments and that sort of stuff. I'm talking more basically about not using faulty logic to support desired conclusions, as the above two posters have apparently done. Rather I apologize for hijacking your blog. I should really start my own blog to cover this what I feel is very basic issue of logical discourse.
SexPet

Dec 28 @ 6:12AM  
Well, unless you are prepared to state and defend as fact that most men have dic pics as the main pic, you can't conclude that it shows most men don't have a clue.


I didn't say that was a fact and I already knew that most men don't have a clue long before I came here. I get 100 emails a day and may respond to one on ocassion, but dick pic or not, they still don't have a clue. I didn't say the ONLY emails I don't respond to are dick pics.

So try to take that into account when you pass judgment.

Pass judgement? I did NOT pass judgement on anyone - I stated my preference. I don't care what part of your body you decide to display. Me saying that I think dick pics are a vulgar way of introduction is only my opinion. Not saying anything bad about those people - I understand, I have a tad of exhibitionist in me myself. But if a guy walks up to me and whips out his dick first thing - that's just AGAIN IN MY OPINION ONLY crude, disgusting & immature. I don't call that passing judgement - I'm just saying how it makes me feel.

ok?
astorm

Dec 28 @ 6:19PM  
So into Wow enjoyingitall and bentan you are both so hung up on yourselves. It guys like you that turn women off. . Its pretty clear. All i can think when i read your comments is assholes. Patting your self on the shoulder Kind of assholes. You guys have your opinions and are very self centered .Who is judging who ??? First impressions do mean alot to people but you guys just don't get it I guess. There is class and than there is trash
And weasell you have class i have seen it first hand, and your my guy. xoxo
bentan

Dec 28 @ 8:57PM  
I didn't say that was a fact and I already knew that most men don't have a clue long before I came here. I get 100 emails a day and may respond to one on ocassion, but dick pic or not, they still don't have a clue. I didn't say the ONLY emails I don't respond to are dick pics.

Read your own statement again:

For what it's worth - I, personally, don't respond to emails that have a dick pic on them. I think it's vulgar as an introduction and shows that most men... just don't have a clue.

You basically say dick pics as an introduction are vulgar [your preference/opinion is not disputed and I respect it]. Then you go on to say "and shows" which I take to mean using dick pics as an introduction shows. Shows what? That most men don't have a clue, according to you. Now kindly tell me if there is any other way to understand your sentence, but to put it together, in my understanding, you are somehow saying that the presence of dick pic emails (you didn't say from how many guys) shows that most men just don't have a clue. How could you have made this work logically without in fact saying that most men have a dick pic? Of course now we understand from your clarification that you independently believe most men don't have a clue ... thank you. But your original sentence was just plain illogical as I have just pointed out.

Pass judgement? I did NOT pass judgement on anyone - I stated my preference. I don't care what part of your body you decide to display. Me saying that I think dick pics are a vulgar way of introduction is only my opinion. Not saying anything bad about those people - I understand, I have a tad of exhibitionist in me myself. But if a guy walks up to me and whips out his dick first thing - that's just AGAIN IN MY OPINION ONLY crude, disgusting & immature. I don't call that passing judgement - I'm just saying how it makes me feel.

Read your statement once again (and perhaps my remark from before):

And, it does make you wonder... if they can't show their face, there must be a reason.... hmmmmm?

I was commenting about this statement, essentially a snide remark about people who can't show face pics. I was not commenting about your preference for not seeing dick pics. Try to stay focussed please. I was pointing out to you that people have legitimate reasons for not wanting to show a face pic, and that you should really open your mind to more possibilities before thinking ill of others.
bentan

Dec 28 @ 9:11PM  
So into Wow enjoyingitall and bentan you are both so hung up on yourselves. It guys like you that turn women off. . Its pretty clear. All i can think when i read your comments is assholes. Patting your self on the shoulder Kind of assholes. You guys have your opinions and are very self centered .Who is judging who ??? First impressions do mean alot to people but you guys just don't get it I guess. There is class and than there is trash

I can't speak for enjoyingitall but from me: it's very clear you have not even bothered to read my comments before reacting. This is the kind of sloppy attitude that bothers me. Where on God's great earth (well ok, just these blogs) have you seen me say anything about impressions not mattering? I was pointing out logical fallacies on some poster's comments, and also responding to one snide comment about people who don't post face pics. Please do us all a favor and read things carefully before responding.

I just want to say: I respect the rights and preferences of women on this site. I have written blogs that have slammed guys for being whiners and dumbasses towards women. Weasell can back me up on this; he posted on one of those blogs. But I do it not because I respect women only. I do it because I respect all people who deserve to be respected, guys or gals. Just as there are clueless guys, there are also clueless women. I'm fair and my barbs are gender-neutral. So don't be crapping on me when you don't even know me. Go read my blogs, understand what I'm about, and get your bloody facts right before typing rubbish.
enjoyingitall

Dec 29 @ 12:37AM  
guys... here it is in a nutshell - a slightly large nutshell...

1st to the ladies... if you dont like dick pics - you dont have to look at them.. you dont have to check them out either.. sexpet - thanks for checking my profile back on christmas day.. i appreciate that.. and though you may not answer the emails - it is nice to know that you do check profiles that have dick pics..

2nd to the guys who do have dick pics and and the ones who dont but think its ok for the ones who do to have them as it's their choice... way to go!

3rd to the women who think dick pics are ok - your welcome to check my profile as much as you like.. hell - if you send me a wink - awesome. if you send me a note - you are sure to get a response. and i promise to not block you!!!

4th to the guys who dont think dick pics are ok... uhhhhh - grow the fuck up! its not your dick up there. so what is the big fucking deal? or is it your just jealous that some have more balls than you do? whatever the reason - its not your profile so why are you even worried about it and if your truly straight - you should even be seeing the pics.. i mean damn - are you checking the profiles to then complain about them?

my god a blog that has been given way too much attention... there are 34 (35 if you count this one) posts. it comes down to this - either you think they are ok or you dont... let it go...

and to weasel. to your comment about throwing stones... i believe you have this honor as well as i do. if you look at your original post, the one directed to me and your last one - yes you "throw stones"... and though you have a little following - you have demonstrated that you dont have a clue. you go through my profile and try to point out short comings with me, yet you do not even police your own profile. you need to wake up.... but hey - you have to live with you.... i'm happy with myself... i really dont believe you can say the same. and finally to you (unless you decide to respond at which i will again respond in kind) if you want me to disect your profile - please just say the word as you have my attention.. i believe you have tried to gain it - well now you have it - what now? you say you are "very well educated" - that's nice to hear! your not the only one.

lastly... people - get a grip. except for a few free thinkers in hear (bentan, sxze and sassy - you all are in this group of individuals) the rest it seems sit around and pat each other on the back. to put it bluntly - a circle jerk... but hey - who am i? just a person just like you who has an account in here.. one who doesnt violate the TOS. one who believes his pics are fine as do the hundreds of people who have checked my profile.. so until AMD changes its rules about what is suitable as far as pics go - you will have to live with my dick pics.....

my last firing shot - whatever happened to tolerance? the people who have posted to this blog are some of the most intolerant people i have come across on here...

enjoy people! have fun - that's what this is supposed to be about....
weasell_l

Dec 29 @ 12:59AM  
FOR THE RECORD,,,This was a blog no posted out of hatred or spite,,but from a view point of a man sitting at a table listening to his 3 daughters laughing,joking and playing a game in the livingroom, and wondering what kind of world is going to line their futures? Are the men that I must prepare for in their futures going to be like the men on this site, and yes that includes me...will they lie to get laid,,,will they be heart broken by a man making empty promises,,,will they fall prey to a man who just wants to indulge himself in carniverous sexual acts and use them as nothing more than a slab of meat with a warm spot..will what I have seen as a bright happy future end in nothing more than random acts of sex with passing strangers with nothing more to offer than sexual variety..will they grow up to be like some women on here praying for a gleam of hope to find someone they can love,,will they see themselves as honey used to attract a swarm of flies..I want more for them than a pic of a dick,,or what can I get if I say and am willing to do this...this was written by a proud father who wants more for his children,,,as I am sure yours did...and it is a side of the fence that I will continue to stand on,,those who do not agree may feel free to take a number,,,line up,,and kiss my ass!! Unlike the other blogs,,I do have a phone number,,,and the ability to travel and beleive that a more personal venture is the best way to discuss this matter rather hiding behind the screen of a computer, for those who prefer to attack and redicule...
borty293

Dec 29 @ 1:46AM  
you wouldn't be threating anyone would you?
SexPet

Dec 29 @ 8:48AM  
Try to stay focussed please

WTF??????? Plesae don't tell me what to do.... especially on someone else's blog.

I guess I can't voice my personal opinion without it being convoluted into something other than what I said.

To all the men who DO have a clue... I apologize for that statement - it was not directed at you.

sexpet - thanks for checking my profile back on christmas day

Oh believe me, it was my pleasure.


Look... I'm as kinky as the rest of you, probably more kinky that half of you. All I was saying is that opening a first-time email and seeing a guys dick is a turn off for me personally. That is all. I didn't say I don't like dicks or that I don't like looking at them, but as far as starting a relationship (of any type) goes, I just think you should be dressed when first introducing yourself to someone. And, it's just fine with me if other people feel differently.

Geeesh! I feel so misunderstood.
weasell_l

Dec 29 @ 1:22PM  
you wouldn't be threating anyone would you?...Lol..nope..But I have noticed that bravado flows freely when typing online,,are you all as brave, forward and verbaly outspoken in person???I am..
JJN4Fun

Dec 29 @ 5:12PM  
Whoa! Timeout! WTF??? I'm offline for not even a full day and come back to this - my friends at war?!? No, no, no, no! This is all wrong!!!

First I want to say that SexPet, though previously a member, has recently rejoined this site in part because of my encouragement - she is not here to fight and make enemies, she's here to have fun like the rest of us. And she happens to be a very nice person!

Bentan is also my friend - a good friend, as far as I'm concerned! He is kind, funny, and fair. Even when I've taken issue with something he's said - or vice-versa *grin* - we manage to talk it out...privately. May I suggest this happen here???

Other folks involved in this argument are people I respect and/or like, as well. This is insane! Truly, it's not worth all this - everyone has a valid point. Can't we just agree to disagree and leave it at that?

But, I must say with respect to at least some of this argument here - I said virtually the same thing that SexPet did and didn't get even a 1/8 the shit she's getting. I don't care for dick pics to be the first thing I see and I said it loud and clear. I handle it differently, but she is well within her rights to handle it the way she does - and say it - without being totally slammed. Others shared a similar opinion and didnt get this kind of shit...

My bottom line is, So What? So what if some of us don't care to see dick pics - ever or as primary pics? So what if some of us do? If all we do is delete, where's the harm? It would be different if we replied talking shit, but simply deleting - why is that so wrong? Isn't that what we tell everyone to do when they don't like something? When someone blogs on the issue and someone responds in opposition, don't we usually say that's okay as long as no one's being targeted or slammed? She did neither. Nor did I. Come on people - this isn't fair.
enjoyingitall

Dec 29 @ 7:18PM  
Sexpet... hey - if we got past the online side - trust me - i'd be clothed... im not into meeting people at a restaurant in the buff....

Sxze - ok - was giving Sexpet a lil bit of crap... yes... it was all in fun.... think we have gone back and forth a few times. i'm glad to see she came back. that's awesome! and i agreee with you whole heartedly - if someone has dick pics or any non-facial pics up - so what? and as you said - if you dont like them - just delete them. for some it isnt dick pics. its pussy pics or tit pics or clothed mid section pics (sorry astorm (sundance as well) - picking on you again - but is not personal.. promise!).. we cant see faces in any of those types of pics but for some reason - we are focusing on dick pics.... and what is odd is it was all started by a guy - not a woman....

it was asked if some people are as outspoken in person as they are on here... sure i am. just ask me.. lol i'm as laid back as they come, but when provoked - i'll stand toe to toe with anyone... i'm not mr. macho (think that went out a couple of decades ago) but i'm not a door mat either... but to answer your question - i tell it like it is in any circumstance, i stand my ground BUT i also am tolerant of others and i do take other opinions into account. and the one thing i have said from the get go is - there is room for all of us in here. it takes all types to make this world go around and if your unwilling to accept that - you are and will be a very bitter and sad person...

anyway... unless drawn out again - this will be my last post in this blog as it is becoming quite boring. i will try to find something a bit more thought provoking than - should we or shouldnt we post dick pics....

enjoy people!
JJN4Fun

Dec 29 @ 8:11PM  
i'll stand toe to toe with anyone

Ah, but would you stand nipple-to-nipple with me, that's what I wanna know!
bentan

Dec 29 @ 10:06PM  
Thanks Sxze, SexPet and I have talked it over and we are cool.

But, I must say with respect to at least some of this argument here - I said virtually the same thing that SexPet did and didn't get even a 1/8 the shit she's getting. I don't care for dick pics to be the first thing I see and I said it loud and clear. I handle it differently, but she is well within her rights to handle it the way she does - and say it - without being totally slammed. Others shared a similar opinion and didnt get this kind of shit...

My bottom line is, So What? So what if some of us don't care to see dick pics - ever or as primary pics? So what if some of us do? If all we do is delete, where's the harm? It would be different if we replied talking shit, but simply deleting - why is that so wrong? Isn't that what we tell everyone to do when they don't like something? When someone blogs on the issue and someone responds in opposition, don't we usually say that's okay as long as no one's being targeted or slammed? She did neither. Nor did I. Come on people - this isn't fair.

Sxze, can I just say this for myself? Read my comments to SexPet and see if my points to her ever dispute her's or anybody's right to handle dic pics as they see fit? No seriously, really read them and see what exactly I'm saying. In fact, read all of my comments here and see if I have ever contested this. And then also read enjoyingitall's comments and see if he also disputes this anywhere. (You can skip over large swaths of his banter with Weasell although they make for interesting reading ... lol).

The problem I see, and I'm being brutally in-the-nuts frank here, is that this blog has become so angst-filled that the only thing some of you ladies want to do is vent and shout about disrespectful guys. You have a right to be angry with these idiots; I add my anger to yours! But look, you are shouting so loud that you don't hear anything else, such that when some guy attempts to say something unrelated it just gets misconstrued as an objection to ladies having rights and he gets hammered. Look for example at that lady [astorm] who called me a self-centered asshole; and she doesn't even know me. In her hateful diatribe she just wanted to scold men, and since I was hanging around having a debate with SexPet (about something else), she conveniently picked me to be her punching bag. She did even bother to understand what the heck I was saying. Just because I had the temerity to disagree with a lady about "something" doesn't automatically mean that the "something" is about the rights of women. And the only way to know that is to really really really really really REALLY R-E-A-D my comments. I'm truly sorry that I know of no easier way. I know it is human to want to vent and rant but please please please be aware that you may be inadvertently shooting an innocent bystander. No, it's not fair ... to be bashed for something you never said or did. So for the last time it's not about the cursed dic pics and how people handle them. God, I'm starting to develop an aversion to dic pics myself .

Short version: read things properly and really understand them before responding. It's really meaningless to have a discussion on a blog when people insist on hearing the voices in their head and imagining what's being said than making the effort to understand what is actually being said. That is why I wrote a blog about why people seriously need to read and think before speaking. I dunno, should I write another blog explaining this? Oh fuck it, I'm too tired for this shit.
enjoyingitall

Dec 30 @ 3:06AM  
Sxze - without hesitation!
Chancesare_1958

Jan 5 @ 3:22AM  
EXCELLANT THATS WHAT i"M SCREAMING!!!
DoIDetectAHIntOfTuna

Jan 7 @ 12:01PM  
Dude, You're fired from the male gender. Turn your bathroom keys in to me, and turn your nuts in to the receptionist's desk.

Men are not dumb, but we are sex crazed. If it wasn't for the desire to have sex, we would go the way of the panda. Duh! We need that craze to continue the species.

But why is that a bad thing? It is also that "craze" that motivates us to do better in life and pursue higher success, better lives, and work on improving ourselves.

luckypassion

Jan 7 @ 12:49PM  
i think im in love

seriously...thank you!
geena

Jan 12 @ 2:50PM  
unluckily, men like this are close to extinction. kudo for you
Sara12307

Jan 16 @ 10:03PM  
I like what you have to say, Well written and gorgeous, wow, Awesome combination
yourfacefits

Jan 17 @ 12:02AM  
I'm with Enjoyingitall, Bentan, & my girl Sxzu on this one! If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen! There are less risque' dating sites for the squeemish!
weasell_l

Jan 17 @ 12:14AM  
I'm with Enjoyingitall, Bentan, & my girl Sxzu on this one! If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen! There are less risque' dating sites for the squeemish!..Lmao...look at my pic closer.."me and squeemish"...two words i never thought i'd hear in the same sentance...It is the portrayal of being neanderthols that I have issues with..Squeemish my ass..lol
yourfacefits

Jan 17 @ 6:46PM  
So, just distinguish yourself from the neanderthols! Maybe some people like neanderthols! Pointing out how superior you are to other people has the opposite effect. If someone's so great, their integrity speaks for itself. They don't have to go around tooting their own horn! ( I love the neandrethols on the cave men commercials ) Variety is the spice of life. Open your mind. God gave us eyelids and put our heads on a swivel so we can choose not to look!
kayla524

Jan 17 @ 8:52PM  
what more can i add that has not been said by others.. wow...
are you for real... heres a kudo..
kayla524

Jan 17 @ 9:05PM  
what more can i add that has not been said by others.. wow...
are you for real... heres a kudo..
there are a handfull of men on this sight that i rated a 10.. and you are way over that number..
love the hair....
sinkx

Jan 30 @ 11:11AM  
hell yeah i drool, when i see a gorgeous woman guess what im thinking ...its the most powerful instinct in man and I am a man, i like looking at women, and making love to them , and being naughty..isnt this the place for that....i think the eharmony site is what you are looking for....me i want to hook up with a sexpot and do the nasty
scarlet_fever418

Feb 4 @ 2:02AM  
Weasell~~~~ Thank you for your blog!!! I was just discussing this same topic with a good friend of mine on here! Do men honestly think that they could go up and flash someone and then ask them out on a date? Yes, of course, most of us women like men but we want the whole package, not just a dick! They make toys for that and you don't need the man to satisfy that! LOL!
bvatl

Feb 17 @ 11:43AM  
God damned what a line of self-indulgent, pseudo-intellectual bullshit.

Some whore out their bodies to draw attention to them, you whore out your brains sans spelling.
Big fucking difference that is.

Bottom line is that you have to get seen to get noticed, and you are no different in that than the cock-pos(t)ers.

However; To drag your gender down for the mere purpose of elevating yourself is just dumb. And it makes you look small. Take that anyway you want to.

BV
odessa2830

Feb 20 @ 4:20PM  
Hey bvatl,

He's only dragging you down if your the one of the ones he's speaking of. AMD is a sex site but a lot of the men here could show a little more class!
JJN4Fun

Feb 20 @ 7:43PM  
AMD is a NOT a sex site!

It is an Adult Dating site!

Geeze, people...
HeadStrong636

Mar 6 @ 11:22PM  
Well I can see that not only does this blog hurt the simpletons , but a few intellegent people as well . Lets ask the people that think about sex all the time and have NOTHING else on their minds to stop and THINK for a minute . Why post a pic as arbitrary as your dick...why not post one of your big toe ? As my friend weasell has stated every man has a dick , but not many have the brains or the balls to speak out and state the truth . And the truth is this , all women are daughters or sisters , and if a man walked up to my daughter or sister and pulled out his dick , I would hope that he would go to jail for INDECENT exposier .

I saw a post that stated " self - indulgent , pseudou intellectual bullshit . And then the person went on to say that some whore out their bodies and some whore out their brains ! Is that all people are ? Whores ? Was this post made in an effort whore out the mind ? After all he was talking about pictures and the purpose of them ....right !?! And as far as dragging down gender , please give me a break ! That was not an attempt to drag down a gender . It was posted to let women know that there are a few men out there that value them as they are ( a person ) and not some slab of meat conceived for the simple pleasure of an orgasm . My hats off to you weasell ... good job and well said .
shellsmack

Mar 8 @ 11:05PM  
WEASELL...

Wow, there really is a nice guy out there and he's not afraid to stand up for women. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Natgoat

Mar 12 @ 3:02PM  
...And how about those 'Creative' Handles...???
...well...I can't quote any..[rules]..but you know the ones...!!!
...Stupid Macho-Slobs...!!!...
Sure..!! I know how to F***...
...I'd just rather romance a Lady...then.. 'Make Love' to her...!!!
..and not even mess-up her Makeup..!!!
Natgoat

Mar 12 @ 3:18PM  
Wa-a-a-a-a-a-h-h-h-h-h...!!!
I've got a Black-belt in 4-Iron...!!! .. and I don't go in for Girly-man sports like Basketball...
I'm a Hockey Player...
I'll protect my Lady-friend to the Bloody End..!!
. . I really don't want guys looking at my Dick-pics...It's not Intended for you...
If a Lady doesn't like looking , she doesn't Have To...but it's part of what I offer in an LTR that I seek...
I know that it's just part of Me...but Some women like to see the merchandise rather than take the word of some lying-macho-slob ..some don't...
..that couldn't satisfy a hummingbird...and has the I.Q. of a wet bale of hay..!!!
funnygirl730

May 11 @ 6:50PM  
thank you
sue1968

May 11 @ 7:17PM  
Wow
Well said, I agree, I mean if they need it that badly take a shower.
Sue
stoptheache

May 12 @ 8:48AM  
This is an amazing blog. If a guy has his shlong as his primary picture, I dont ever bother writing...total turnoff. He is obviously facinated with his idiot-stick, I could care less and his best impression has been lost forever. No need to intellectualize it, its just true.
magichardt

Jun 7 @ 2:50AM  
I agree. I put up a block so that I would not have to look at penis that apparently aren`t attached to a face. because you only see dickks attached to legs but no apparent ugly mug to show . Or may have severe lack of communication skills hell I don`t know but it a ain`t any thrill for my view or appeal!
TheLoony

Jun 18 @ 7:37PM  
HAHAHAHAH FREAKIN HA!

This has been a hilarious read. So much bickering about nothing. Really. In the grand scheme of things a dick pic is not a big deal. Come on, find a real subject! Like 9/11, our fucked up food supply, corporate Amerika, our "wonderful" government that's in cahoots with said corporations and BOTH are raping us of our rights - geez, there are more important things to bitch about. Get over it, spend your time on something useful.

Just this man's opinion. I could care less about a picture, it's just a picture!

For the record, I wouldn't send a dick pic unless a lady asked for it. Not like they haven't seen one before, so why bother?

It was a funny read, though. I guess I'm just as guilty of doing nothing to change things by reading and posting here than anyone else.

Sorry if I bummed anyone out, not my intention.

Ok, carry on! Pay no attention to the "conspiracy theorist/kook" here LMAO! Go ahead and say what you want about me, I care not. Can't hurt my feelings, I had them surgically removed years ago to avoid such things.
Fucktoy4u

Jun 26 @ 7:05PM  
Hi weasell_l,
I'm not going to get into the shoulds or should nots, because to each his or her own. What impressed me most was that you could write in grammatically correct complete sentences. I dig smart guys. And thanks for not sending me an email that says "Hey you want to web cam?" I like real dicks that belong to someone that I am familiar and comfortable with. Just because my name is Fucktoy, doesn't mean you can play. I'll only share if you are nice. Kisses
cancun1999

Jul 19 @ 5:15PM  
Good blog... I am personally turned off by a man that post pictures of his penis. Thats just me and how I am, not trying to put anyone down but I am entitled to my opinion.
RobG428

Aug 18 @ 6:14AM  
I could not agree more with this blog.... Way to go bro...!!
TrollKing

Aug 19 @ 7:41AM  
stop trying to look like the only guy who is not a sex crazed, self indulged, one track mind thinking moron with the brain span of a feild mouse.

it's transparent,,,your probably the biggest perv of them all.....

weasell_l

Aug 19 @ 1:34PM  
Lol,,Not likelly,,even my gf is a bigger perv than me,,,not that thats a bad thing...
dracula20000000

Aug 29 @ 5:36PM  
How gives a dam about what people think. And especially in date sites. Everyone in here doesn't think, or they wouldn't be here looking for something that's not there to find. It's a dam computer not an extravagant public place, where it takes style and proper edicate to land a classy partner.

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