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posted 10/15/2009 5:44:18 AM |
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  onehornytoad69

Working with the title of this Song...By Rascal Flatts.."Things that Matter!!!
As Most of yall know I do Not have a JOB....Yeah... I have turned down a couple in other States..and a Couple of Low paying Jobs...!!!
I've been looking very hard...spending almost all of my time seeking something, most anything...thats not to far away....that pays..enough to pay "Most" of my Bills...lol (Mine are Prolly lower than Most all of yalls... lol)
Last weekend my Sis In-Laws... Sister Passed away that lived a couple of Hours away....So.. I Sit with my Mom...that has Alzhimers while she was gone.....for the Better part of 3 days....!!!
What an Awesome experence that was!!!! Though....I knew all along that Mom forgot some things...I really didnt know how she was...till then!!!
What a Horrible, Terrible Illness that shit Is!!! and Thats all I'm gonna say about all that!!! (Shame on me for not spending More time with her!!!! )
I enjoyed our time together....to say the Least!
Monday I recieved a Call from a Cousin...letting me Know that her Father was dieing.....
This is the Man that was Like a Father to me.....Well...he was more like a Daddy!!! (If you know what I mean???) He is the Husband to the Lady in this Blog!!!
I had been trying for Weeks to get to see him...but something always came up!!!
Since the call came..I have visited him 2 times!!!
Gosh how time and Cancer can take a toll on a body!!! and thats all I'm gonna say about that!!!
My visits ..were good..but He just Laid in the Bed...coming and going to and from sleep!!! The doctor told the family he has from 1 day to 2 Months left to live!!!
I am coming to terms with all that...its hard..but most of yall know where I'm coming from!!!
I visited him yesterday...and then stopped by and Visited my Mom for a few Mins..as her House is on my way to his!
She ask me if My daughter's Daddy was dead!!!.....that just blowed me away...Yanno? So after a few mins..I went home.
A hour or two later I get a Call from my sis In-Law..saying Moms feet have Swollen...and she called the Doc....and he said to bring her In.....for a visit!
He sent her to the ER..... she has Pneumonia and Congestive Heart Failure ...............!!!! She will be in the Hosp. for a few Days!!!

Last Week...the Only Worry I had was..Finding a Job!!!!!!!
This Week.....All the "Things That Matter" (the Most to me....) Are threatening To leave Me..and this World!!!!!
"Things that Matter".......What a wake up call that Was for me!!!!
What Matters to YOU right Now?
I myself .....am Re-Looking at what Matters the Most to me!!!

Life is short PPL....Lets "Take care of the things in life that may die"
Thanks for letting me Vent...sorry about any typo's...but I am headed to the Hospital..to be with my Mother..and lack time to Fix all of my fuck-Ups!!! Things that Matter....Rule with me Right Now!!!!

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zaralyon

Oct 15 @ 6:19AM  
Good luck, and when the time comes, I know that there are plenty who will be around if you need them.
frank747

Oct 15 @ 6:57AM  
it always seems that those things that do matter are the ones that always seem to be in trouble or some such problem that we have no control over. for those of us who belive in a higher power it seems he or she wants to fuck with us just to see how we will jump.
i came on this site because the one that did matter to me, had a problem with the medicade and medicare groups. as long as she was with me we could not afford her medicine. well it sucked and we stayed pretty close, even with me bloggin and such.
you and all the rest have been a lot of fun and comfort for an old fart like me. not to mention a bunch of laughs that i really needed at the time.
sweety and i have since done an end run around the group that thinks it is in power and are havin just as much if not more fun than we used to have. at least till the next unsolveable problem comes up or should i say the next shoe to drop. either way we will continue to keep on keepin on.
no comfort, but as u know we where born to die. i will keep u and yours in my prayers with the hope that you can get a grip on today, look forward to tomorrow, and leave with a smile on your face.
later friend
frank747
Wordsofwit

Oct 15 @ 7:24AM  
All the best to you for what you are going through.
RevDocLove

Oct 15 @ 8:33AM  
You're doin' good man!
At least you figured out your priorities pretty well
sugarnspice005

Oct 15 @ 10:15AM  
Things that matter to me would be my parents and my sisters, my pets, and then my house and job. I've said before, if it came down to where my parents needed me...I'd sell the house and move back home to help.

So sorry for all that is going on OHT. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
theSkwirl

Oct 15 @ 11:49AM  
Oh man.. lots of this shite goin around right now isn't it? Big hugs sugar.. I know it's tough.. and I agree Alzheimer's is the cruelest joke that life can play on a person. Just awful.

What matters most is the PEOPLE that you love.. and who love you.
1bunny629

Oct 15 @ 1:22PM  
I am so sorry for all your going through. I understand completely how it is when all is in your face. I am grateful for you that you realize how important these people are to you and you are seeing them. Peace be with you and your loved ones. I know how much you care. Nothingelse matters, I am right there with you on that.

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