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posted 10/8/2009 11:58:59 AM |
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As alot of you know I move to the west end of the state cause my parents are in bad health. It has also put me in my sister's and brother's back yard as well. I have wrote a blog or 2 about that. Late yesterday I went over to check on my mom and dad and found my mom upset...The lady next door is mom's best friend we will call her Mrs.X ....Well every Wed. Mrs.X likes to do her shopping. My mother has seen Mr.x leave the house after Mrs x and go to Miss Y 's house and stay a while then come back home before Mrs x gets back....My mother asked me what should she do should she tell her friend she think her husband is stepping out on her or keep her nose out of it... To tell you the truth I was not sure what to tell my mother to do....

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Oct 8 @ 12:35PM  
Cheating is wrong. But maybe she already knows and has given approval.

I haven't liked my wife going for 8 years now and I still don't cheat.

I'd tell my friend. What if later she finds out what was going on and that your mother knew about it.

Oct 8 @ 1:31PM  
That's a hard one. Not really a whole lot of info to go on. Just the little bit said, makes it sound he is cheating on his wife. Maybe he is, maybe he isn't. Bear with me. If your Mom was to tell Mrs. X "I think your husband is cheating on you with Ms. Y", and then it turns out he isn't...that could cause tensions all over. BUT, if he is cheating, and Mrs. X finds out her friend knew of it, but didn't say anything, she could be upset by it.

Maybe she could ask her friend if she is aware that her husband goes over there?

Oct 8 @ 1:31PM  
I keep my nose out of other people's business. If she has no proof of what is going on she could lose her friend. Cheating is wrong but so is running to their partner with the news. Best thing to do sometimes is bite your tongue and mind your own business. I have always taken the approach of I did not see anything, I did not hear anything, and I do not know anything about what others are doing and keep my opinions to myself. Just stirs up a lot less crap. JMO

Oct 8 @ 2:15PM  
Maybe there is nothing really to tell..................maybe he goes over to help her out and chooses to go when his wife is shopping so that its not taking time away from him and his wifes time..............maybe they are just friends and he goes over and had coffee..............maybe his wife knows this and trusts her husband enough that shes not worried..................Do i sound naive? probably but sad that cheating comes to our minds before anything innocent would................and I am no different i would have thought the same myself.........................but men and women can be friends without anything going on between them and trust can be so strong between a couple that they know that nothing but something innocent is going on...............

Now if it was my mother that came to me and told me that i would be honest with her and tell her.............whether its innocent or not...........its not my mothers place no matter if it was her best friend.............because its none of my mothers business.........and in the long run, even if there is a stormy affair going on over there, if mom tells her friend............the only two things will happen...........friend will forgive her husband and she will never forgive mom for telling her..................JMO

Oct 8 @ 2:15PM  

Best bet is to say nothing. Pretend you don't know. Once you say something,
you do not know how that person will take it, and your taking the chance of ruining
a long time friendship.

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