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posted 10/2/2009 9:25:45 AM |
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  Sunshine79

I just came across an interesting article. It states that larger women are having more frequent sex, with more partners than the normal weight women.

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Sunshine79

Oct 2 @ 10:01AM  
Everyone is afraid to comment.........Wake Up Peoples!!!
Wordsofwit

Oct 2 @ 10:02AM  
Slipping you a greenie for an interesting article. It makes sense to me. Obese females, particularly in their youth, are more promiscuous and have more esteem issues. Like the research in the article cites, it isn't a matter of women of size being preferred but rather sexual availability. I recall a colleague in the military going after overweight girls (17-24) because as he said, "you can always poke the pork."
Wordsofwit

Oct 2 @ 10:08AM  
BTW, in support of the article and my comment, a couple of years ago I posted a link to research by the University of Texas that clearly showed that was the case. Like most of my blogs, that one has since been deleted.
flavorbuster

Oct 2 @ 10:26AM  
That is true. I learned that from my brother years ago when he told me the BBW take all the men that stick bitches reject from being fickle & too picky. He said something like they turn down more dick than they actually get.
somnium

Oct 2 @ 10:30AM  
I like a woman with some meat on her bones- great for cuddling!

Sunshine79

Oct 2 @ 10:39AM  
Slipping you a greenie for an interesting article. It makes sense to me. Obese females, particularly in their youth, are more promiscuous and have more esteem issues. Like the research in the article cites, it isn't a matter of women of size being preferred but rather sexual availability. I recall a colleague in the military going after overweight girls (17-24) because as he said, "you can always poke the pork."

Now, the atricle stated.........

When a man propositions a woman, she can respond in one of two ways; she can say “yes” or she can say “no.” When a woman propositions a man, he can also respond in one of two ways; he can say “yes” or he can say “yes, please.” He has no realistic choice to say no. Men may not be saying “yes, please” to overweight and obese women, but Kaneshiro et al.’s study clearly suggests that they are definitely saying “yes.”


Wordsofwit

Oct 2 @ 10:47AM  
When a woman propositions a man, he can also respond in one of two ways; he can say “yes” or he can say “yes, please.” He has no realistic choice to say no. Men may not be saying “yes, please” to overweight and obese women, but Kaneshiro et al.’s study clearly suggests that they are definitely saying “yes.”

I will agree with that conclusion, but the first five words,
When a woman propositions a man
, is the key. I take that to mean that heavy women are the ones most likely to proposition. Guys say can either say "yes" or go without. I am recalling the old saying, "Any port in a storm."
dmbchick420

Oct 2 @ 10:48AM  
I agree I've been told by guys that if a woman is too skinny, it actually hurts because they are so bony.
sugarnspice005

Oct 2 @ 10:50AM  
When a man propositions a woman, she can respond in one of two ways; she can say “yes” or she can say “no.” When a woman propositions a man, he can also respond in one of two ways; he can say “yes” or he can say “yes, please.” He has no realistic choice to say no.

So........is this study saying men think with the head in their pants more so than with the head on their shoulders?

Someone would have said it sooner or later.

Ok, being serious now. I actually found the article interest. What I saw was that both sexes want sex. And while each has their individual "ideal" of the "perfect partner", they will "settle" for what they can get in order to satisfy their needs.

Wordsofwit

Oct 2 @ 11:24AM  
What I saw was that both sexes want sex. And while each has their individual "ideal" of the "perfect partner", they will "settle" for what they can get in order to satisfy their needs.

Well put, My take away was that overweight women and men, in general, settle for what they can get if they can't get what they want.
Wordsofwit

Oct 2 @ 11:43AM  
I know it is an old stale joke but, "Fat girls are like mopeds, fun to ride unless your friends find out."
carlos2342

Oct 2 @ 11:53AM  
I read the article, but I do not see much from the article besides bmi indexes, the article is sloppy and meant to serve the purpose of just to catch readers and get them talking. I recommend that the author of this article fix it as it is a "half-ass" and "poorly" done scientific writeup.

spontaneousfun

Oct 2 @ 12:14PM  
i would have to agree with carlos2342 - i read the article as well and the premise of evolutionary psychology is definitely misrepresented and the research was indeed sloppy! evolutionary psychology supports the idea that males are are biologically attracted to a woman who looks 'fertile' - the 'child-bearing' hips type of woman, curvy and young - while females are attracted to someone who can 'provide' - i think times have changed and don't really agree with either of these premises as a general rule (case in point my strong attraction to young guys who have no 'provision' benefit...lol), but in any case, if you're at all familiar with the principles of research, remember that correlation is not the same as cause and effect...
shewolf53

Oct 2 @ 12:29PM  
This is more of a self-esteem issue than a size issue. People with low self-esteem want love and attention like everyone else and a lot of them think that is the only way to get the attention of the opposite sex. I have been all sizes from very underweight to overweight now. A good rule of thumb I have found is if they want to have sex with you first they have to take you our to dinner in a public place, introduce you to some of their friends and then if they are lucky they might get some. That kind of weeds out the users and the men who kind of forgot to tell you they are married. A lot of women in these studies are probably having one night stands because they do not value themselves. That usually stems from the way overweight people are treated by the public in general. Personally I think they should have self-esteem classes in school for at risk kids taught by a psychologist. These kids are the ones who turn into the young adults that people tend to use and spit out. I also think they should teach nutrition classes for kids since apparently parents are not doing it at home and you would have fewer obese people. I am not talking the overweight people, I am talking some I have seen who weighs about 500 pounds or more. You see a lot of them in the south.
spontaneousfun

Oct 2 @ 12:44PM  
kudos to shewolf - excellent points to consider - this trend would def be impacted by more education to prevent some of those self-destructive behaviors - and i agree 100% with it starting with kids since too many parents don't take responsibility for these issues!
Wordsofwit

Oct 2 @ 12:46PM  
Personally I think they should have self-esteem classes in school for at risk kids taught by a psychologist.

Great idea and parents need to recognize it and deal with it. Some of it is hereditary and parent need to accept and acknowledge it. Often it is brushed off with cliches like beauty is on the inside, which may be true, but does not address the issue the child faces.
shewolf53

Oct 2 @ 12:49PM  
parents don't take responsibility for these issues

Many overweight children and children of low self-esteem come from parents with the same problems. This would be more of breaking the cycle in those cases.
flavorbuster

Oct 2 @ 1:13PM  
Would you rather have a clam on a stick or a side of beef ?
This is going like a bottle rocket without a stick..


DarkKnightWalking

Oct 2 @ 1:14PM  
Some Men say no.....

And I find in my personal experiences, larger women ARE more aggressive about it than some of the prissy little don't touch me, I'm beautiful mindsets....
flavorbuster

Oct 2 @ 1:44PM  
Although I personally wouldn't have sex with a woman so big you could use her for a trampoline but a woman on the thick side gets down to business & doesn't worry about their hair, make-up, or breaking a nail in the process. Despite everyone thinking about fat women having insecurity issues about their weight petite women have far more insecurity issues that are nothing more than petty bull shit like I previously mentioned. I aint got no shame in my game & have played with thick girls which can back that ass up.
lunanegra

Oct 2 @ 1:45PM  
Its always been that way, its just the trend turning back to bigger women after thinner women have had their time in the media- this is a "no duh" article.

However, when they mean big- they don't mean 600lb land whales.

And again rolls aren't curves, the morbidly obese should stop saying that, and its my only gripe with other fat chicks. Curvy women have a difference in hip to waist ratio, some are just...fat.
Wordsofwit

Oct 2 @ 2:04PM  
There is the old saying that "you have to be comfortable in your own skin", even when there is too much of it. On one hand, it is a big esteem/acceptance issue for the large girl. But once she becomes an adult she should have a good sense of self and adjust.

That being said, people that are not overweight in their youth that become so later have big ego issues and that is not uncommon. I will admit that happened with me. I used to be the kid that ran around in the shower to get wet and never dreamt that I would be overweight. It was a complete and total mind fucker. I have looked nine months pregnant for nine years and basically blew off dating because of it as I was not the man I was. Shallow, yeah. Honest, yeah.
dmbchick420

Oct 2 @ 2:23PM  
Luna's comment make me laugh..........

600 lb land whales.....LMAO

jjhxjpb

Oct 2 @ 2:38PM  
First of all you all are not factoring in that we live in an obese country so you are arguing semantics. Of course fat chicks get laid more, there are more fat chicks in america... period.

Second, I get hit on much more frequently now that I am a BBW than I was when I was skinny, why? Because most of all I am much more confident in who I am now than I was then.

Its all about confidence pure and simple, men are attracted to a woman who is confident in who she is.

So with that said... Yay fat chicks fuck away!

Good post sunshine, green guy for you!

ksk72

Oct 2 @ 2:53PM  
Guess it all depends on who they talk to. I was not a BBW till my later 20's and my sex life hasn't really changed. I get it when ever I want it always have. I believe it has nothing to do with size at all. Its about confidence in yourself. I am smart I am cute I am good I am fun and I know it and thats what makes men want me not just my physical apperance.
Wordsofwit

Oct 2 @ 3:47PM  
This would be more of breaking the cycle in those cases.

Agreed, and it a cycle that needs to broken as it is a problem as are most cycles.
RevDocLove

Oct 2 @ 5:42PM  
I likes 'em big and I likes 'em small..
Acres and acres of 'em..
I loves 'em all
soft_touch938

Oct 2 @ 6:37PM  
Good read...blog, article and comments. Interesting. I have nuttin' to add 'cept ya earned a greenie.
KitKat25

Oct 3 @ 3:59AM  
Personally, I think it’s a matter of confidence. Confident women are sexy women. With that being said, I also think guys prefer women with a bit of meat on their bones because apparently, a bony chick is uncomfortable in bed.

Hey Sunshine...thanks for making blog land more interesting today. Sending you a greenie.
KitKat25

Oct 3 @ 3:59AM  
Personally, I think it’s a matter of confidence. Confident women are sexy women. With that being said, I also think guys prefer women with a bit of meat on their bones because apparently, a bony chick is uncomfortable in bed.

Hey Sunshine...thanks for making blog land more interesting today. Sending you a greenie.
theSkwirl

Oct 3 @ 11:51AM  
No, sorry, I am overweight and I do NOT settle. I may be more promiscuous than most, but not because of self-esteem issues, because I genuinely like sex, enjoy bringing pleasure to myself and others and because.. hey.. it's the most fun you can have with your clothes off.

I will not take whatever i can 'get'. I can get lots.. I don't want lots of it.. I want quality not quantity.. does that make me an exception to the rule? I don't really think so. Maybe twenty years ago this was more true. But now, women are allowed to be sexual creatures and to enjoy their sexual encounters without fearing the word slut.

In fact, I can point to twenty some years ago when I did settle. I learned my lesson the hard way. Never settle ladies.. go for what you want.. if you have something to back up the sex you might even keep what you want.
aftershox

Oct 3 @ 1:16PM  
It is all in attitude. I am a large woman and am quite empowered in the fact that I can have sex pretty much on my own terms and that I don;t have to settle, quite like Skwirl said. I have sex because I have a healthy sense of self-esteem and I feel that I deserve it! I am not going to wait just because I do not have one special guy. I may be too old to really enjoy it the way I do now if I wait.

Maybe big gals just want sex more because they have more skin surface area, and it is all one big erogenous zone and a massively huge sex organ (next to the brain). The wind blows and it can make me tingle. The feel of a scarf or leather... mmmm. Even hot and cold, the prick of a pin, the sting of a papercut,, all wonderful sensations to be savored and enjoyed.

It is true that some women/girls do have sex because of low self-esteem. I probably did to some extent when I was young, and had known 1 or 2 girls for whom that was definitely true. So in my early discussions about sex with my daughter, I told her:
" It is important to have sex for the "right" reasons
* I want her to have good sex down the road, but not too soon and not because of a low sense of self-esteem
* Don't get rushed into it and ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS be smart about it! Condoms. Condoms. Condoms.
Wordsofwit

Oct 3 @ 1:38PM  
In fact, I can point to twenty some years ago when I did settle. I learned my lesson the hard way. Never settle ladies.. go for what you want.. if you have something to back up the sex you might even keep what you want.

It is true that some women/girls do have sex because of low self-esteem. I probably did to some extent when I was young, and had known 1 or 2 girls for whom that was definitely true. So in my early discussions about sex with my daughter, I told her:
" It is important to have sex for the "right" reasons
* I want her to have good sex down the road, but not too soon and not because of a low sense of self-esteem

These two ladies convey sage wisdom. The problem lies in conveying it to our daughters, nieces and grand daughters that are over weight. There is a saying by Mark Twain that rings true; ""When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years."
rayden900

Oct 5 @ 12:32AM  
I'm not trying to stereotype. But from my own experience, skinny women were always bad in bed. I'm not trying to sound like an asshole, but I was always disappointed.
rayden900

Oct 5 @ 12:46AM  
Of course fat chicks get laid more, there are more fat chicks in America... period.

Very good point. I was going to say something about they did a study and concluded 60 percent of the population in America is overweight, but she beat me to it. That's what I heard anyway. That 60 percent of the population in America is overweight, but I don't believe it. Because according to the BMI scale, George Clooney is overweight. So you can't go by that. I'm not joking about George Clooney beginning overweight either. According to the BMI scale he is. That's cause the BMI scale is bullshit.
tjack

Oct 5 @ 7:35AM  
My first thought? There are more overweight women than women of "normal" weight. What's overweight, anyway? Every woman I ever met thinks she's fat, even the ones with eating disorders that look like skeletons. My preference is a woman who isn't underweight, nor obese. Santoshi is right about one thing though: Most young guys with perpetual boners will say yes if propositioned by an overweight woman. I'm glad I can finally be picky.
chuck111

Oct 7 @ 5:10PM  
id do you.and ladies are not fat.thay are very pretty like you
chuck
wolfdenay

Oct 11 @ 6:54PM  
I am a BBW w/44 dd's. I have 5 men that I fuck on weekly to bi-weekly basis. So YES i think its true. larger women are getting fucked more. My gentleman friends tell me its because we no how to do it. That we are more passioante. I dont know. I just now i LUV 2 fuck a man.
jetfighter2

Oct 16 @ 10:20AM  
i agree I get more pussy from larger women, sure I want to fuck
allforyou999

Oct 21 @ 5:13PM  
They do, they are more open and honest
Ewe_Wish

Oct 21 @ 5:53PM  
They do, they are more open and honest
I am a fat chick and I am just curious.............What the fuck does being open and honest have to do with looks?
blkbabe44

Oct 23 @ 7:39PM  
Its not about self esteem I know lot of thin women dont care about them self .I bbw I get laid I love some me and get hit on all the time by young old a like.I all about what type of women a man like period.
lartenvanderpool

Oct 28 @ 2:55PM  
Well that depends on two things really. Some big women don't feel like great about themselves, so in a weird way it makes them feel beautiful to be treated like a slut, but I think that's because of the media. Then there are a lot of guys who like big women. MY personal I go by how a person is, so it doesn't really matter to me.
teac59

Oct 31 @ 10:49AM  
Lets just say.....BBW woman know how to play, they don't mind toys, having their ass licked, and as a man is licking their pussy and he puts a finger in her ass she just cummmmmms all over! Give me a BBW any day!!!!!!
ynot7769

Oct 31 @ 11:35AM  
afraid?? are you NUTS!!??!?!?!

sooo bascily i want to grow up to be a fat chick???

*sits n ponders the ramifications of all this.....gets a fuckin headache n goes to sleep*
ladykendra

Oct 31 @ 12:30PM  
extra pounds people want love too. want it to be because someone wants to be there.
badboi19

Oct 31 @ 12:39PM  
i agree nothings sexier then a girl with some meat on her bones.
blue_eyes02

Nov 1 @ 7:50PM  
well i cant really agree with the fat chicks are gettin laid more than skinny gurls and the only fat chicks that i have ever saw always gettin laid is the ones that are easy and like to be paid for there sex and its wrong

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