Just seeing a comment on one of the blogs and was thinking...
WOULD YOU WANT TO KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE YOUR PARTNER SLEPT WITH? Or would you just expect that who you were with had multiple partners and NOT want to know exact numbers? Lets face it..We've all been around the block once or twice so does it actually matter in the scheme of things!
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Ewe_Wish
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Sep 22 @ 8:45PM
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As long as they were STD free........with proof...............what does it matter.......not just in a sexual partner but a LTR...........ain't no ones business what happened before they met...........
My second husband one time got in a tizzy wanting to know how many men i had slept with prior to marrying him............when i was fed up with his shit I told him Quite frankly if i were you............I would be more worried about how many men i sleep with since I married you......... that shut him up..........not that i would have cheated on him............but i didnt care who he was with before he met me........cause it was none of my business and thats how i thought he should feel.
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sugarnspice005
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Sep 22 @ 8:50PM
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I agree with Ewe.... As long as they were STD free........with proof...............what does it matter..
As long as my partner is disease free, how many partners he HAD in his PAST, I don't care. It's the here and now I would care about.
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somnium
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Sep 22 @ 9:19PM
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Not really- you get an idea if your partner has experience or not, the first time you connect! Could always be a deal breaker! I was with a lady years ago who had next to nothing experience in sex- it was easy to tell when she orgasmed too! ................... ?????................ damn... wonder what she's up to these days! 
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shewolf53
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Sep 22 @ 9:24PM
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I don't care about the numbers, but would want them tested if they had not been before they ever slept with me.
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rdsingle
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Sep 22 @ 9:25PM
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Doesnt matter. As long as she is with me and not someone else. Dont own her just agree we can look and talk. No touching others.
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casuallylooking
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Sep 22 @ 9:29PM
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I agree with above comments.
As long as he was careful...or at least has proof that he is disease free, his past is his past.
In honesty there are times that things that were in the past or ex partners do get brought into a conversation, but how many someones....... not my business, so let's leave them in the past.
I'm his present and his future, that's all that matters. 
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StraddleMyNose
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Sep 22 @ 9:33PM
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Yeah, I guess I would like to know somewhat
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gsxrman750
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Sep 22 @ 9:43PM
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Last count was atleast 15 but that was only when i was not drunk lol 
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KitKat25
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Sep 22 @ 10:33PM
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I'm always curious when this question comes up. When I was younger...I wanted to know about my partners previous hookups. Now, I think I just want to know they didn't sleep with everything on their block...so I do still want to know some of their backstory...and that they have been tested and are clean.
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NightOfOld
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Sep 22 @ 11:02PM
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4,326.7 between the ages of 16 and 17. To this date 
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somnium
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Sep 22 @ 11:18PM
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4,326.7 between the ages of 16 and 17. To this date Slowing down there Night??
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Wordsofwit
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Sep 22 @ 11:51PM
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Sure, why not. I am in a mode to gather as much archaeological data about my life as I can.
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casuallylooking
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Sep 23 @ 12:25AM
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As an after thought...I don't want to be walking down a busy street and every woman we pass stopping to say hello to him and as they leave him saying Oh I just used to have sex with her............ 
I am in a mode to gather as much archaeological data about my life as I can. What exactly does in a mode mean?   
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cardplayerAKQJ10
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Sep 23 @ 2:55AM
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Not as concerned with how many they've slept with,,, as how long ago was the last one they slept with. Not interested in being the follow-up to yesterday's encounter.
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tassie1
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Sep 23 @ 5:55AM
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my daughter (the wild child one lol ) reckons its not cheating if its in a differant postcode.
I mentioned this to my sister once and she said ; I thought if it wasn't in your street ya sweet
personally, its their past and I respect that, if they want to share thats up to them otherwise its none of my business....unless she knows some bi-sexual nympho she wants to bring home and keep fo' a pet  
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RevDocLove
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Sep 23 @ 7:46AM
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It ain't how many you slept with, it's how many you screwed
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soft_touch938
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Sep 23 @ 9:19AM
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Like Kitkat when I was younger I wanted to know....but not how many...I wanted to know WHO...then every time I turned around I either ran into them or thought about them and did a slow boil.
But I outgrew that. I don't wanna know anything about their sexual past but it seems men nowadays like to crow about their past conquest...it's irritating.
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dmbchick420
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Sep 23 @ 9:22AM
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so does it actually matter in the scheme of things!
For me, no. As long as they don't have any STDs, I don't care.
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slohand_47
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Sep 23 @ 10:26AM
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I read an article in Cosmo once that said, and I quote "Never, never, never, never, never talk about how many people you have slept with......." Yep, it was 5 nevers. And they were right. There is no "right" number for many people. It might be too many..... heck, it might be too FEW.
For instance, wife #1 was the first girl I ever had sex with. Wife #2 was the second. #2 had never been married, but she taught me a LOT about sex. And, I knew she had to have learned it from SOMEWHERE...... but I realized it didn't matter to me where she learned it...... I was just glad to be the beneficiary.
Back to the numbers question, not only will I not reveal numbers, I won't even discuss anyone I've had a relationship with..... unless we were married, or had lived together. Nobody REALLY wants to know that stuff, even if you think you do. One of the watergate conspirators once said, during the attempted coverup...... "once the toothpast is out of the tube, you can't get it back in"
That is applicable for quite a few situations.
And that's all I have to say about that.
fg
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theSkwirl
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Sep 23 @ 5:59PM
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I don't care how many they slept with.. as long as for the last two years their tests have come back NEGATIVE!
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BABYDOLL666
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Sep 24 @ 5:03PM
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Well as they say u sleep with one u sleep with their partner and their partners if you slept with 5 guys and the guy u sleep with slept with 10 girls you slept with 15 people and the people they slept with . An Std check is always a good thing to do and ask if they done it ....Mind you i watched a show i think it was 60 minutes where a guy gave aids to 11 woman he claimed he didnt know he had aids which was BS they checked his medical records and saw he got an aids test done in 94 then 2001 and so on and claimed the doctor never gave him his results. so far all they know is of 11 woman and more out there since he had a long list of sexual partners he was brought to court and was named as a risk to society they even gave him a cease and desist to stop having sex and he didnt listen by the time these woman found they they had full blown aids....so yeah id like to know but thing is what tells u hes or shes going to tell you the truth about how many people he or she slept with .... and so many people arent using condoms cause they dont feel the same well ...will it feel the same the day u find out u have aids just a thought where not invincible aids and other Stds are still out there..ok ima shut up im starting to sound like a sex Ed teacher lmaooo 
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