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What I want in a Woman. posted 9/18/2009 1:42:16 PM | 1 kudo what's this?     report abuse   notjustanotherguy I want a woman who feels really comfortable living inside her own skin. That means no matter what she's doing, she expects to do an excellent job of it. She has already envisioned her life, and even if she isn't there yet, she goes to bed each night knowing things are pretty much on schedule, and that makes her happy. This woman is neither afraid of her sexuality nor unwilling to share it fully with men who get her attention. Each new experience allows her to grow and evolve into a more totally fabulous woman. She rises each morning with a new zest for life. She sees beauty in places where others only see the mundane. She lives each day as if it was her last, filled with joy, and she knows it'll be even more beautiful than the one before. Sadly, this woman is somewhat rare. I know she exists because I've met a few of her sisters, and I see her often in the smile of so many woman I've yet to meet. Copy & paste to friend: (Click inside box; Ctrl + C to copy; Ctrl + V to paste)

read more blogs! Blogs by notjustanotherguy: R U here for a relationship or just for a fuck buddy? An adult dating site is...well, kind of interesting, maybe funny... Younger women, older man. What Women want from a Man What I want in a Woman.

flavorbuster	Sep 18 @ 1:55PM
	Well there are good women out there & you probably can't see the forest for the trees.
sarafinablu	Sep 18 @ 2:21PM
	Cool blog.....hope ya find her!! and here's a green thingy for ya!
soft_touch938	Sep 18 @ 2:52PM
	Aw hun...love your attitude but methinks you're puttin' an awful lot of pressure on a woman to be that perfect mate/partner. Life should be so idealic...yanno? I read your 'Younger women-older men' blog. I think for men that may work...or for a while anyway as time slows down for no one and eventually a man seeks a gentler life and she still wants to party. And you see, so many men aren't into long intimate talks so the lack of things in common with a younger women works for them. But my opinion on that is...it sure makes for a shallow relationship when two people doesn't have similar memories and a past grounded on yesterday's in common. But to each his own. You mentioned a high sex drive...sex every 2-3 hours during the night. You get a young lady with a work schedule and afterwhile that interrupted sleep...no matter how good the sex... will take its toll on her and she'll balk at your advances. I wish you the best in finding what you're looking for. Myself, I want an older mature man who accepts me the way I am...flaws 'n all. Softie
notjustanotherguy	Sep 19 @ 7:28PM
	u won't get any argument out of me for putting a lot of pressure on a new woman...i guess that's why we all write profiles and express our expectations in advance... so such things are known up front...and potential mates can agree or not... those who agree, then get to move forward and explore all those sticky details for making a relationship work...dating is not an exact science but it's also not a turkey shoot... can't determine age difference is a big issue yet cuz the couple has very different memories of the past...seems to me that's rarely what common interests are based on...
Ewe_Wish	Sep 19 @ 8:55PM
	want a woman who feels really comfortable living inside her own skin I would thnk a woman comfortable in her own skin would know that she doesn't have to be the greatest at everything but accepts like everyone else she has her limitations and can be happy with that........
ladybootscooter	Sep 19 @ 9:09PM
	^^^^^^^ yeah, what she said!
notjustanotherguy	Sep 19 @ 9:57PM
	gosh, looks to me as if we're saying the same thing using somewhat different words... me: "...no matter what she's doing, she expects to do an excellent job..." you: "...would know that she doesn't have to be the greatest at everything..." to me, excellence means to rise into the better part of our self...i am excellent at a number of things i do...in other things, i'm somewhat shitty at doing them... still, i do the shitty ones with my usual standard of excellence...i just don;t have the skill at doing them...and they come out way less than some of the other things i do... it's not about perfection, it's about giving ur best...i wouldn't hold my partner to a different standard...
notjustanotherguy	Sep 20 @ 3:33PM
	...woman who feels really comfortable living inside her own skin... pondered this idea a bit last night... seems to me we live our lives in a particular way...that's our mindset... i suggest that mindset is on a continuum between love and fear...since u can't fully have both of them at one time, we can have mixtures...for example, lots of love surrounding us with only a little fear...some have exactly the opposite...lots of fear and little love... a woman living comfortably inside her skin most likely is further along that scale toward the love end...she may still have fears and she may still mess up some of the things she does... still, she is way more effusive and joyful... i hope all that makes sense...