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posted 9/16/2009 8:44:42 AM |
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  onehornytoad69

Working with the blog I posted yesterday
A Couple of people ask other Questions that I really would Love to hear the answers too...... from all of yall!!! (Plus a couple questions are my own!)
1.Who says "I Love You" 1st?
2.How long do you Date/Go with someone before you tell them..."I Love You"! (If you really do?)

3.While seeing someone and Falling in love..... Whats the Longest that it took you to tell them?
4. Do you Hold back those 3 Wonderful words...or Do you Speak from your Heart?
5. How do you Know(I'm talking being 100% sure)... that you Love someone? (I'm speaking Love not Lust! )

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lgfishnet

Sep 16 @ 9:32AM  
[I]dont think it matters who says it first.Say it from the heart when that is who knows.Im ready to tell my girlfriend that now but not really sure were i stand or how she really feels.As for lust or love i know this is love as i had lust before and my feelings are truely different this time which is seeming to cause one issue.Maybe its just to early to express my feelings,can anyone really give the right answers!
ThePurpleProphet

Sep 16 @ 9:33AM  
I've never said it first verbally. But I've said it with eyes first. If said at the wrong time it can end a relationship, if said at the right time it can last forever.

When is the right and wrong time, it really depends on the individuals and the state of the current relaitonship. "Feel" for the right moment and it will come, but don't hesitate or the moment may pass. The crack in the door becomes wide open. The feeling in your stomach is extasy. Your heart is racing. Don't hold it in in. Let the other person know. Let it out.

Oh, the joy, the first embrace afterwards. When the eyes meet. You hear "I love you, too." Two lives have just been changed forever.
sugarnspice005

Sep 16 @ 9:42AM  
1. Who says "I love you" first? Depends. On who is more brave. Ok, seriously, doesn't really matter to me. I've been the one to say it first, but, when Mick and I started seeing each other, he was the one who said it first.

2. Well, got to at least wait till the second date. Seriously, that is hard to say.

3. About 2 seconds after he told me he loved me.

4. If I'm going to say "I love you", I'm speaking from the heart.

5. You know you love someone when you can't stop thinking about them, wanting to be with them.
Ewe_Wish

Sep 16 @ 9:56AM  
Alex I hope you don't mind but I am going to add a couple questions to your questions.........

1.Who says "I Love You" 1st?
another thing........do you wait until you are sure the other person loves you back or do you just take the bull by the horns and just tell them how you feel?

2.How long do you Date/Go with someone before you tell them..."I Love You"! (If you really do?)
Well if i truly love them, I wait until they say it first.........so I guess it depends on how long it takes them to tell me..........

3.While seeing someone and Falling in love..... Whats the Longest that it took you to tell them?
same answer as number 2, I think I have always been afraid that if they didn't love me, that not only would I be embarrassed but what if they decided not to go out with me anymore because i felt something they didn't, and if they tell me I love you and its before I know for sure that I do, I just thank them.....and tell them I am not ready to say that ..............but either way its uncomfortable as hell.............damn it kinda makes you wonder how I have been able to be married 3 times

4. Do you Hold back those 3 Wonderful words...or Do you Speak from your Heart?
obviously i hold back until I know how he feels.....

5. How do you Know(I'm talking being 100% sure)... that you Love someone? (I'm speaking Love not Lust! )
Finally a question I can answer lol........I can love someone without being in love........I have loved a lot of my boyfriends but in the end it wasn't a lasting kind of love.........How do I know when I am really in love.........when I am willing to put their needs before my own and do it subconsciously.........but that only works when they put my needs before theirs..........if that makes sense..........Oh another way for me to be sure......and it may only make sense to a few........but if I am wiling to spend New Year's Eve with him...............To me New Year's eve is the ending of one era and a beginning of another........I don't want to ever spend one with someone I don't plan on being with in the next year...........in other words.....New Years Day...............is the beginning ..........and I want that beginning with someone I plan on spending the rest of my life with.............

Alex, thank you for posting this blog..........you're not alone in wanting to know the answers to these questions.......
casuallylooking

Sep 16 @ 12:02PM  
Who says it first?
I guess the person that feels it so strongly that they can't hold it in any longer. Or is confident enough to take that risk of the other not having the same feelings.at least not yet.

No time limit. But I don't say it unitl I am positive I want to take the relationship to a committed, serious level with them.

I loved someone once that I never told. I knew it was not a good relationship to get into and I didn't want to take it to more than friendship between the two of us.

Those 3 words are really difficult for me to say... so yes, I hold them back. But when I do say them, they come straight from my heart and I mean them with complete honesty.

I don't think I can put how I know into mere words...
It's just a feeling that no other can match. You want to share everything with that person. You miss them before you hang up the phone. Your heart skips a beat and your eyes smile when you see them. You find comfort in their arms and no words need to be said to say a lot between the two of you. I completely give of myself without even thinking about it first. It just happens.
I trust them knowing they can break my heart, but some how I know he would never do that. I want to make them happy. I'm sad when they are sad. I feel their hurt when they are hurting and would gladly take their pain for them if possible. Thinking of them brings an unconscious smile.
And it's so, so, so much more than sex, regardless of how mind blowing that may be between the two of you.
I can't imagine being completley happy without them in my life.
And so much more........

and it may only make sense to a few........but if I am wiling to spend New Year's Eve with him...............To me New Year's eve is the ending of one era and a beginning of another........I don't want to ever spend one with someone I don't plan on being with in the next year.......
Exactly.. But I would change willing to spend... to wanting to spend New Years Eve with. And every one after that.........

So, Alex, where's your answers?


Ewe_Wish

Sep 16 @ 12:05PM  
But I would change willing to spend... to wanting to spend New Years Eve
Ummmm Treas............If I am not wanting to...........than I wouldn't be willing to...........
casuallylooking

Sep 16 @ 1:21PM  
............If I am not wanting to...........than I wouldn't be willing to...........
But some people would..... smartass...
31sunshine

Sep 17 @ 12:00AM  
I think CL said exactly what is in my head:

Who says it first?
I guess the person that feels it so strongly that they can't hold it in any longer. Or is confident enough to take that risk of the other not having the same feelings.at least not yet.

No time limit. But I don't say it unitl I am positive I want to take the relationship to a committed, serious level with them
onehornytoad69

Sep 17 @ 10:31AM  
Thx everyone for the Comments!!! There were some really good responses..Thx a bunch!!!!
So, Alex, where's your answers?
Huh..... Whut

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