Okay, to those of you who are here for a week/month and decide it's just not what you were looking for because you haven't gotten laid yet...pay attention.
I've been here for ...umm, I'm not real sure but it's either going to be 3 or 4 years somewhere around Feb.
I don't keep track because this site is not the most important thing in my life...But it has become an actual part of my life to come on here and laugh with friends, find out how things are going with them and such..
I am only on here to play in the blogs and sometimes the forums, but mostly to communicate with friends.
Those friends are some wonderful, witty, caring people who are on this site and most of them play in the blogs. But it took time to get to know them.
I even found my Mr Perfect for ME on here... but it took quite a while of getting to know each other first also. which btw, in case you don't think that's a good thing...comes with awesome sex. 
But no one says anyone has to be looking for long term or committments with anyone to have sex. However, how often do you walk in a bar... oh, I forgot some of you aren't old enough to walk in a bar... But if you were, how often do you think you could walk in one, spend 10 minutes giving girls a lame line like how good you are sexually, or how well you are hung, what you can do with your tongue.... to complete strangers who have never met you before... and walk out with someone who is going to have sex with you?
Chances are really good, it is NOT going to happen. 
Maybe a slap or a drink thrown in your face, but still not laid.
AMD is the same way. Most women want to at least learn something about you and who you are, even if she is only looking for sex also.
We get random emails on here everyday, what makes yours stand out from the rest to get her attention? Because you want to have sex with her? Yeah, well so do all the other guys sending the other hundreds of emails....
Quit feeling sorry for yourself because you joined an adult site and didn't get laid within a week or a month.
If you decide to leave the site, it only means you will miss out on the chance to meet some awesome ladies on here.... some of which may have eventually decided you were worth getting to know.
And not to sound too harsh, but when you write blogs saying I'm leaving because of yadda yadda reason... who the hell even knew you were here, or who you are, if they never saw you around in the blogs or such? 
But from a womans point of view, whining about not getting laid and threatening to leave because of it, is not going to help your position. Or get you into any of the positions you would like to be in either............ 
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Ewe_Wish
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Sep 10 @ 11:32AM
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And not to sound harsh, but when you write blogs saying I'm leaving because of yadda yadda reason... who the hell even knew you were here, or who you are, if they never saw you around in the blogs or such? Here let me put this in terms they may understand better..........
I have been here a week and I haven't gotten laid.......I am leaving......Stomp stomp stomp...............Oh no one even noticed or cared............guess I will slither back in.............
I even found my Mr Perfect for ME on here Hell i found him here a few times........... 
But from a womans point of view, whining about not getting laid and threatening to leave because of it, is not going to help your position. Well CL, I don't mean to disagree...........but yea there are a few of us women who would love to meet these guys, its our fantasy to go to their place (mom's basement) and have sex while mom comes in with a new box of condoms, cause she doesn't want sunnyboy having unsafe sex, and she would even, I am sure, bring us clean towels, so we know that we are being treated like a lady and can shower afterwards. Cause maybe if she waits on us hand and foot she can get someone interested in sunny boy and she won't have to loan him her car for dates or the money to go on dates on, and she might finally get that room back in her basement that she originally used for a craft room.....................................Yeap and when the date is over.....I am sure mommy will be there to polish the big "L" on his forehead....... 
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dmbchick420
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Sep 10 @ 11:42AM
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You said exactly what I've always thought regarding these one-liner whine blogs 
And not to sound harsh, but when you write blogs saying I'm leaving because of yadda yadda reason... who the hell even knew you were here, or who you are, if they never saw you around in the blogs or such?
Exactly...who are you again? Never seen you before but thanks for letting us know you are leaving! Don't let the door hit your ass on the way out! Oh....and don't forget your caveman club!
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Lisa46
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Sep 10 @ 11:49AM
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spend 10 minutes giving girls a lame line like how good you are sexually
Really??  damn *pushes CL and EWE outta the way* let me in here
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Wordsofwit
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Sep 10 @ 11:50AM
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If new people want to pout and cancel, great, go for it!! But do the rest of us a favor, don't post a fucking blog about it. All you do is waste space posting crap nobody gives a shit about. The rerun stale jokes are bad enough without further polluting Blogland with rerun stale people and their asinine pathetic whining.
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sugarnspice005
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Sep 10 @ 11:53AM
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However, how often do you walk in a bar... oh, I forgot some of you aren't old enough to walk in a bar... But if you were, how often do you think you could walk in one, spend 10 minutes giving girls a lame line like how good you are sexually, or how well you are hung, what you can do with your tongue.... to complete strangers who have never met you before... and walk out with someone who is going to have sex with you?
Chances are really good, it is NOT going to happen.
And chances are....lines like that just might get you slapped, punched, or kicked.
We get random emails on here everyday, what makes yours stand out from the rest to get her attention? Because you want to have sex with her? Yeah, well so do all the other guys sending the other hundreds of emails....
You mean I'm not the only who gets those?? 
But seriously....we get so many...we get to the point of just block and then delete.
Quit feeling sorry for yourself because you joined an adult site and didn't get laid within a week or a month.
If you decde to leave the site, it only means you will miss out on the chance to meet some awesome ladies on here.... some of which may have eventually decided you were worth getting to know.
I totally agree!
But from a womans point of view, whining about not getting laid and threatening to leave because of it, is not going to help your position. Or get you into any of the positions you would like to be in either
That's right.
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Lisa46
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Sep 10 @ 11:56AM
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psst CL?? you forgot to ad proper spelling  Personally I get amazed at how many young people forget how spell!  I am an adult I prefer reading english in the proper format with proper spelling yeah I know bitch bitch bitch
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Blueyesprkln
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Sep 10 @ 2:49PM
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 Just wondering if anyone knows if the site keeps a record of when we all made our profile and joined? I'd be interested in seeing just how long I've been here. No.........I didn't keep up with it, just seemed unimportant to me somehow in the thick of things, but I would really like to know.
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fordman09
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Sep 10 @ 5:35PM
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Damn CL, no one told me I actually had to get to know a gal to get laid Shit maybe thats were I went wrong !  You mean to tell me it takes more than Wanna fuck, to actually bed a chick on here ? NO wonder looking doesn't talk to me anymore.
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Ewe_Wish
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Sep 10 @ 5:56PM
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NO wonder looking doesn't talk to me anymore. Well it could be that you expected her to pay for the plane ticket .................
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alybai42
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Sep 10 @ 6:45PM
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I have a little story to tell...
I was in a bar around a year ago with a friend..I had a few beer's in me but was not drunk. This guy came and sat right next to me and the first thing he said to me was "are you horny" I said what did you just say? He repeated it..I said no thanks..The more I thought about the more pissed off I got. I know it was because he was drunk and stupid..At the end of the night he came onto me again..So I thought I would show him..We took a cab to where I left my car parked. I had quit drinking so I could drive..He wanted to go to a hotel..I drove us to a hotel..I made him go in and pay for it..We went to the room...He went to the bathroom and I slipped out the door to my car and was long gone.. He thought he was going to get laid..I am sure he was pissed off too..Tuff Shit. That is what he get's for asking me a stupid question.
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Ewe_Wish
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Sep 10 @ 6:54PM
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Well either way you look at it Aly, he sure got fucked didn't he.......
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alybai42
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Sep 10 @ 7:20PM
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Just because men think women are in a bar they are looking to get laid..Most of the time if I went into a bar I didn't drink..I had a pepsi. I was out just to get out. I had a man ask me if I wanted to feel his hard cock..He walked up to me and asked me..too bad I didn't have a meat cleaver in my hand..
What happened to a when a man would walk up to you..ask you how you were? Could they buy you a drink? Would you like to dance?
Now it is...let's go fuck..Makes me want to jump off the bar stool and go right with him..I was at the Eagles one time..I was talking with some friends at a table..This one guy came over and sat right next to me..Didn't say word. I didn't know if he was a mute? Or just enchanted by my beauty.. He finally got up and walked away..I didn't bother to make small talk with him..But at the end of the night I gave his cousin and the man she picked up that night and him a ride to his house..Since I was sober I got to drive. I thought I would sit outside with these three people and talk. He went into the house for a while, came out and said " I made a bed for us to sleep in.. No thanks..I left. I went back to the Eagles a few times after that and he was on the prowl for me. His cousin had a enough never to tell me he was in love with me..I said we talked maybe 15 min..And that is love..Damn he moves fast. And he also failed to tell me he had a jealous ex wife. Needless to say I quit going to the Eagles. I was tired of his ass everywhere I went.
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Lisa46
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Sep 10 @ 7:35PM
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Well either way you look at it Aly, he sure got fucked didn't he....
I'm sorry but that is funny
Aly I remember when that happened to you and yep you were pissed 
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alybai42
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Sep 10 @ 7:41PM
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Aly I remember when that happened to you and yep you were pissed
That guy there proved the men think with their dick's...
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theSkwirl
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Sep 10 @ 8:07PM
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I found my life partner online.. but he sure didn't start out with a wanna fuck.
I've been here.. umm longer than CL I think.. not much but some.. and yeah I've met great people..
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casuallylooking
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Sep 10 @ 8:25PM
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That guy there proved the men think with their dick's... In all fairness...Not all of them.
You mean to tell me it takes more than Wanna fuck, to actually bed a chick on here ? Well, probably at least 98% of the time...Yes. 
Hey, that leaves the possibility of 2%... or less..... you just gotta figure out where to find them....
How many women are on this site? and 2% of that would be?  ...and then again my calculations are just a wild guess.
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LilGriz
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Sep 10 @ 10:03PM
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Well it could be that you expected her to pay for the plane ticket
At least I paid for a plane ticket.....and what a greeting I got....  And here she thought I had forgotten her phone number.....
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alybai42
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Sep 10 @ 10:06PM
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That guy there proved the men think with their dick's...
I want to say I am sorry to the men who don't think with their dicks.. 
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casuallylooking
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Sep 11 @ 1:41AM
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And here she thought I had forgotten her phone number..... Well no, actually when you didn't call, I kind of figured you had gotten rid of it. 
At least I paid for a plane ticket.....and what a greeting I got.... Worth the plane ticket and the flight, huh?
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