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posted 9/6/2009 5:43:48 PM |
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[B]Can you really be giving mixed signals if you let the other person know before you start to get busy that all you want is a one night stand nothing else and you give the person a chance to back out? I am moving to the west end of the state and my ex boyfriend found out. He came by my house one night last week. He was asking me to come back to him. I told him no way. Well he started making his moves on me and hey I have had a little bit of a dry spell.It was like finding an old pair of house shoes you thought you had lost forever. I told him right off that this did not mean we was getting back together. It was nothing more then a roll in the hay.Then I gave him the chance to back out. He stayed. After we had some great sex he left. I thought that is that but then he started calling me and texting me. Telling me that he loves me. I called him and told him hey I told you that I was not going to get back with you. He said what about the other night. I said hey I told you it was just a roll in the hay and I gave you a chance to back out. He got nasty and told me I was sending mixed signals. Am I off here ? Is he right?

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selectusername

Sep 6 @ 5:56PM  
Let's get together tonight and mix some signals!!
Ewe_Wish

Sep 6 @ 6:03PM  
If thats what you told him prior to having sex.............you didn't give him mixed signals........he was just hoping that once you had sex you would get back together with him........no mixed signals........just wishful thinking on his part........
PinkToeNails

Sep 6 @ 6:38PM  
There are many people out there who DO send mixed signals... and hurt others in the process... ask me, I know!

But I don't think you sent him any mixed messages... like Ewe said... probably wishful thinking on his part.. I think more people should appreciate the fact that someone DOES want to be with them... some of us would give anything to have that.....
shewolf53

Sep 6 @ 6:41PM  
This is proof that you never have sex with the ex. It just causes too much drama in the long run.
onehornytoad69

Sep 6 @ 6:49PM  
I'm with Ewe... 100%!
Though, sometimes.."Some" of Us "Guys/Gals" speak too soon...(when breaking up!)
"Have you ever Broke Up too soon?"
Hell, that would be a good blog!

Most/Some ppl don't know how they feel about someone...till they cant be with/have that Person anymore!!!
Breaking up takes Time!!!!

I'm in a Deal like that!!!! (Not me...Her!....So.... I will have to Wait...and Hold on to my Emotions...Until...I'm sure she is over this "Latest "X"...)

My 2 cents!!
fordman09

Sep 6 @ 6:54PM  
I am also available for a mixed signal night, the trick is, to make it GOOOOOOOOOOOD! If that don't work, you have a great memory of a spectacular night!
sugarnspice005

Sep 6 @ 6:57PM  
You told him before you had sex, even gave him the chance to leave. He stayed, you had your "roll in the hay". He knew from the get go there wasn't going to be anything more after that. Like Ewe said, wishful thinking on his part. You didn't send any mixed signals.
Wordsofwit

Sep 6 @ 7:11PM  
It is unusual for a guy to make a big deal out of. Usually it is the omen that bitch. Hell, you are moving across the state, that is a pretty strong signal.
lintroller

Sep 6 @ 9:15PM  
I'm not sure how you could have been any clearer. Perhaps he has trouble processing signals properly.
frank747

Sep 7 @ 8:14AM  
a funny thing about people is that even though they know how to hook up, they dont want to go thru the bs of starting new. the other side is that no one i have met can understand that sex is only 4 steps from a hand shake. that as long as warm water and soap will wash it away, it is just another body function that we happen to enjoy.
just remember God is great, beer is good, and people are CRAZY.
could go into the idea that emotions are nothin more than mental ghost, but u already get the idea.

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