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We All Have Them.... posted 8/30/2009 5:30:42 AM | 2 kudos what's this?     report abuse   casuallylooking There are really good people on this site and there are not so good people on here also. Just as in our everyday life. At least on here we have delete and block as an option for the not so good ones... As we get to know people better, we discover that they have traits that we may admire or completely dislike, depending on who we are and what kind of person they are... But this doesn't mean we can't still love or care about that person. As long as there aren't too many of those negative traits or characteristics. Are you more apt to focus on another persons good or bad characteristics/ traits/ behaviors? Out of all the people you know, what is one trait that someone has that you truly admire and who is that person? Did it take you very long to come up with an answer? Honestly, what do you think is your own worst trait ? Your best? Copy & paste to friend: (Click inside box; Ctrl + C to copy; Ctrl + V to paste)

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StraddleMyNose	Aug 30 @ 6:08AM
	Some very good questions. Are you more apt to focus on another persons good or bad characteristics/ traits/ behaviors? I try to focus more on their good traits when I like them. As for some people that I don't like, I have to have my reasons, and they must have some pretty bad traits for me not to like them. Out of all the people you know, what is one trait that someone has that you truly admire and who is that person? Honesty and integrity I like in people. A lot of my friends have that, so I can't really name just one. Did it take you very long to come up with an answer? Nope! Honestly, what do you think is your own worst trait ? Your best? I'm a very good judge of character, but my worst trait would be I'm very judgemental. My good traits are honesty, integrity, and loving to a few. Please delete my first comment. I screwed up at the end of my comment with the bold button. lol
Ewe_Wish	Aug 30 @ 6:54AM
	Are you more apt to focus on another persons good or bad characteristics/ traits/ behaviors? I bet you already know my answer............you always say I wear rose color glasses because I always try to see the good in people. And you're right, how many times have I wanted to believe in someone who turned out not to be a nice person? But sometimes I get pleasantly surprised.................. Out of all the people you know, what is one trait that someone has that you truly admire and who is that person? Honesty........that's above everything else..........and that's with everyone I know. Did it take you very long to come up with an answer? nope , not even a second. Honestly, what do you think is your own worst trait ? What I have a bad trait? Actually i probably have a few but maybe being gullible? Or maybe to quick to react without thinking things through. Or maybe putting blinders on when I know something bad about someone I love but don't want to admit it, mostly to myself. Your best? That when I love someone I can forgive them for just about anything. and since OneHornyToad doesn't seem to be around............I am going to ask what he always asks you...............So what are your answers to your blog? Interesting blog..........let me get one of my kudos from the safe for you......
girlcountry	Aug 30 @ 8:42AM
	I don't really focus on any one characteristic of anybody. My worst trait can be a 2 edged sword.....I'll trust just about anybody, until they give me reason not to....then I'm done with them. Sometimes that is good and sometimes not. I admired my grandma the most...she's gone now, bless her heart, but she was always such a gentle soul, forgiving, loving, and accepting. I wish that I could be more like her.
Lisa46	Aug 30 @ 9:17AM
	There are really good people on this site and there are not so good people on here also This is true even in real life. Which is why I don't get involved with disputes until they are directed at me Out of all the people you know, what is one trait that someone has that you truly admire and who is that person They care about others you know what I mean CL Honestly, what do you think is your own worst trait ? Your best ? Me a bad trait?? I don't trust easily anymore my best! I don't judge people, why would I? I am not perfect and I don't know what is going on in their lives
Wordsofwit	Aug 30 @ 9:26AM
	My friends in the real world have many good attributes and the one that came to mind first is loyalty. The answer came to me before I finished reading the question. Like and dislike are black and white concepts to me in a world of grey. I tend to be neutral about most people but tend to like most people to a degree.
theSkwirl	Aug 30 @ 5:44PM
	Are you more apt to focus on another persons good or bad characteristics/ traits/ behaviors? It depends on the person, really, some I can overlook the bad and just enjoy the good. Some, I can't find the good in. I like to focus on the good, but ... yanno.. I have my days too. Out of all the people you know, what is one trait that someone has that you truly admire and who is that person? Complete Honesty! G has it.. he tells me the truth even if it's not something I want to hear. Did it take you very long to come up with an answer? About as long as it took me to read the question. Honestly, what do you think is your own worst trait ? Your best? Worst: temper Best: Ability to get the fuck over it!