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posted 8/29/2009 6:45:51 PM |
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  bigie

It's amazing that there are women in GA and Alabama on here frequently but they never respond to emails, winks, or other attempts at communication. If a guy attempts to make contact at least have the common courtesy to respond. Even if it's to decline the offer to chat or whatever else, be kind and let them know. I'm not sure what the other guys on here are like but I try very hard to be kind and a distinguished gentleman when taking the time to write or communicate with a woman on here.

Maybe that's it. Maybe there are a lot of dick heads on here and they are ruining it for the rest of us. Maybe not. However ladies, I must say that if a person seems genuinely interested, show them that you are not the bitch that you seem to be by not even acknowledging them.

Guys; if you are the reason that women won't even respond to us legitimate gentlemen. Get lost. Respect, passion, and compassion is a 2-way street that starts with YOU!

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shewolf53

Aug 29 @ 7:13PM  
There are a lot of men on here who are not gentleman. Just be sure that you read all of a person's profile before you contact someone. Some people are only on here as a social site or just for blogging. It helps to have that information before you contact someone.
Ewe_Wish

Aug 29 @ 8:31PM  
For the most part, you hit the nail on the head as to why women don't respond back with a polite no thank you............many of us tried to say thanks but no thanks and we were called nasty names and swore at. After a couple like that, why would we care about being polite........

Another thing to keep in mind when writing to women (and of course I am not saying that you don't do this) but remember to read her profile fully...........if she isn't looking for what you are looking for ..........move on........chances are you are not going to change her mind............when you write to her make sure that you write an email that reflects who you are, what you are looking for, and what you saw in their profile that made you think that you two would make a good match.

Also remember that free members only get a hundred free emails a day, and yes that sounds like a lot but in some cases women can run out of them quit quickly. Have patience the odds are sooner or later someone that you have written to will write back.

Good luck in your search.
bigie

Aug 29 @ 9:25PM  
First off I would like to thank SheWolf and EweWish for posting a comment. I have to say that they provided new insight into exactly what I was talking about. Gentlemen, it's time to start acting like gentlemen. Chivalry is not a dead art. It's as simple as acting like a MAN and not like a horny schoolboy. One word, RESPECT, sums it all up. Read each profile you email thoroughly and if they aren't looking for the same thing you want, don't make an ass out of yourself. Use, SELF CONTROL, (i know it's something that most jerks aren't used to) in your response to their profile.

Once again, thank you ladies. I really appreciate your insight. Good luck in your search.

PinkToeNails

Aug 29 @ 9:52PM  
Okay... so my 2 cents..... your profile says you're looking for a woman 18-60... well you see... women tend to narrow those ages down condiserably.... just because a guy is looking for a woman between those ages, doesn't mean a woman he hits on is looking for such a wide range of ages... but it usually doesn't dawn on the much younger or much older guys.... they just "hope" they might be the exception to THE rule.... LOL

and I know also, since they DON'T read essays....... okay wait.........what's up with that???!! they have filled out there essays, surely..... don't they realize women have essays as well?? oh wait...............that's the head between the legs thinking......... no brain there!! ha!!

okay okay... we ARE the women here!! Respect us and don't ask if we'll cam with you... please! and tell those bozos to STOP from posing blogs saying, "hi let's have phone sex" "who's horny? I am" and fantasyfingers.net!!!!!!! oh shit! did I just give her a plug!!?!?!? she certainly needs to plug it up! in the blogs anyway!!





PinkToeNails

Aug 29 @ 9:55PM  


Thanks for setting your comments for auto approval!!
PinkToeNails

Aug 29 @ 9:57PM  
free members only get a hundred free emails a day, and yes that sounds like a lot but in some cases women can run out of them quit quickly

Sunshine..............



That's what she gets for being such a hottie!!


bigie

Aug 29 @ 10:29PM  
Thanks PinkToeNails, I appreciate your input. You are right...unfornutately guys do think with the wrong head sometimes. I have to say that I'm not perfect and can't point fingers because sometimes the wrong head does start thinking. That's when I think us guys should pause, take the time to see what she wants, then send or don't send.

BTW....Your profile is awesome Pink... Thanks again.

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