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posted 8/22/2009 6:18:55 AM |
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  KitKat25

I was having lunch with some girlfriends yesterday and the topic of porn came up. What can I say? It was a table full of women drinking alcohol...porn was bound to come up sooner or later!

Anyway, the question of the day was this...if you are in a relationship and the other person does not know you are watching porn, would this be considered cheating?

I personally prefer to watch porn with my guy, so this doesn't really apply to me. However, I do know that a lot of people consider "online sexy chit chat", especially if it's done on the down low, to be cheating. So, would this be considered cheating as well?

Just wondering...

Kat

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RevDocLove

Aug 22 @ 7:56AM  
How can it be considered cheating by watching a movie or video???
selectusername

Aug 22 @ 11:19AM  
If you star in a porno and then chat about it on your fan site, that might

be considered making a profit!
Ewe_Wish

Aug 22 @ 12:57PM  
If you looked at magazines about sports cars would that be cheating on your old ford pickup? Some people like porn others don't but I don't feel its cheating if someone watches it.............now cybering, cam, or phone sex............with someone other than your SO............yea i would classify that as cheating as you are taking a role in it............JMO
shewolf53

Aug 22 @ 1:10PM  
No because what are the chances you are ever going to meet or talk to any of these people? Now if it gets in the way of your real life relationships that is a problem. Or if you are addicted to it, then we are talking a whole other problem. But just watching it once in a while is not cheating.
KitKat25

Aug 22 @ 6:57PM  
How can it be considered cheating by watching a movie or video???

The example given during lunch was a husband who would get up early in the morning before the wife was up...go into another room...watch porn without the wife's knowledge...and masturbate. I guess some of the gals viewed this as the husband choosing the porn over his wife...and this was without her knowledge. Therefore, they felt it was cheating.

Honestly, I sat back with my glass of wine and simply enjoyed the conversation, as some of these gals can get a bit heated on the topic of cheating. Besides...I thought most guys liked watching porn anyway.

It's not my job to sit in judgment...but I was curious to know what other people thought about this situation.
KitKat25

Aug 22 @ 6:59PM  
If you star in a porno and then chat about it on your fan site, that might

be considered making a profit!

LongLegsLooloo

Aug 22 @ 7:30PM  
Way I see it, if i have a guy, what the hell do I need porn for? Far as that goes, my need for it even sans boyfriend isn't all that great, either. It's rather a turnoff for me to see another woman engaged in sex acts, so if I watch it at all, it's simply to see the man. And I've seen more than my share of nude men in my day.
sugarnspice005

Aug 22 @ 9:49PM  
Watching porn considered cheating?

No. Even if ones significant other "sneaks off" to watch it. If someone is going to think watching porn and masturbating to it cheating..then they are insecure in their relationship.

If the guy I'm with wants to watch porn, fine. He don't need to complain if I want to watch soap operas all day.


31sunshine

Aug 23 @ 9:24PM  
Well my understanding of many men is that they are visual creatures and so if they feel the need to watch porn, more power to them. I'd rather my man watch porn than go elsewhere everytime he has an itch. I wouldn't feel threatened by this at all.

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