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Dead Wives....What a crock!!

posted 12/13/2006 3:30:10 PM |
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  Sunshine79

OK, my last blog made m have to write this new one. I was gonna write it awhile ago, and use names..but I can see now that you can't do that.

But, here is the story...I meet this guy, he tells me his wife dies 4 years ago on Christmas eve, they were high school sweethearts. Then he goes on to tell me he met another woman and moved in with her, but while he was away on business, her ex came back into the picture and he got booted to the curb. I felt kinda bad...I really did, what crappy luck???

Well, after 2 weeks of communicating, I get an e-mail from his account to me and 3 other women.....It was his UNDEAD, very alive, irrate wife!!! I wrote an apology letter...had I known the truth, I wouldn't have wasted my time!! I don't understand what's wrong with stating your attached and looking for fun on here....this site is all about hooking up and gettin' some....not getting married....BE REAL!!!

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StraddleMyNose

Dec 13 @ 3:35PM  
There are some scummy guys that do that. Just be careful and try not to think that way about every guy.
beforethemast

Dec 13 @ 3:37PM  
While I am honest....as you can see from my profile,
I have found that women tend to profess that they
want honesty but when told a man is attached
they are not too interested any more.

ikziejesnel

Dec 13 @ 3:37PM  
Hey Babe...you know I am real...you're right it sucks when things like this happen. Either you are honest to eah other..and yourself..and you just say, this is the situation but I am interested in something physical with you, NSA..or you just get your kicks elsewhere right!

Kisses Hun
Rockstar8869

Dec 13 @ 3:45PM  
Thats what he gets from lying....oh boy would hate to be in that house right now
bentan

Dec 13 @ 4:16PM  
While I am honest....as you can see from my profile,
I have found that women tend to profess that they
want honesty but when told a man is attached
they are not too interested any more.

There is no reason to suppose that being honest will necessarily lead to an outcome you desire. If it did, nobody would think twice about being honest; it would be a non-issue.

I'm also just wondering about this guy: he wants to cheat and he doesn't have the common sense to keep his e-mail account properly concealed. Looks like idiocy and dishonesty don't go well together.

JJN4Fun

Dec 13 @ 5:50PM  
Wow, how freakin' rude! Dead wife? I wonder how long he'll live now...bastard!

beforethemast, yes, we want honesty - and I, for one, make no apologies for that. Quite simply, we can't make informed decisions without information. Isn't that not only fair but the best way to start off, as well - with the truth?

Thanks for being open, Sunhine79!
manstblame49

Dec 13 @ 7:20PM  
You're dead on Sunshine. There's no need to lie here!! I say know what it it before you sign up for it.... if yo want to fuck though sounding tacky at times is above all else is honest and would welcome honesty before wasting my time with something that seems to good to corney ect... so you go girl and keep your head up cause there is some for real men on here that truly know what they want and will conect with you
31sunshine

Dec 13 @ 7:50PM  
Hey Sunshine,
In my life I have seen some screwed up shit, but to profess my ex was dead? That's totally morbid!!! I am glad is wife caught him and I hope she fried his butt!! It sucks you were caught in the middle. I'm right there with you, give me the truth and nothing but the truth. You did right though by sending a reply!!
2passionate4u767

Dec 14 @ 3:26AM  
Unfortuneately the internet is full of fakes and players... It's an excellent medium for those types of losers for sure. Hang in there!
ibfit

Dec 14 @ 12:38PM  
the site's name has a dead giveaway..ADULT DATING AND SWINGER COMMUNITY...daaaa...you sleep in the bed you make..get real!!!
JJN4Fun

Dec 14 @ 8:38PM  
the site's name has a dead giveaway..ADULT DATING AND SWINGER COMMUNITY...daaaa...you sleep in the bed you make..get real!!!

Excuse me? Are you saying that because this is an Adult Dating and Swinger Community it's a given that men are a bunch of lying fucking bastards - and that it's okay? If this is what you mean, allow me to correct you.

Being a member of this site is not an open invitation to be dishonest – nor should anyone expect to be lied to about anything. In fact, because this is an adult and swinger community (the key word being ADULT), it's absolutely reasonable to expect that people will be honest about their marital status – especially since being here and married is not against any rules and, in fact, is quite welcomed here. “Sleep in the bed you make” Just what the fuck is that supposed to mean? Is this to say she invited his lies and is suppose to be all good with it? Get a fucking clue! No woman or man on this site deserves to be lied to – not even you. Unless of course, you want to be lied to; am I correct in assuming that’s what you want? ‘Cause I can think of a few lies to tell you off the bat...oh but wait, I’m sorry – can’t do that; I’m not a lying fucking bitch. Just a bitch. I hope lots of women read this and see how you feel about lying to women…and don’t let me meet one you’re interested in because I surely will direct her to this blog; I’m willing to lay money on it they won’t agree with you’re comment.
StraddleMyNose

Dec 14 @ 9:27PM  
Sxze, when I read that comment from him earlier I thought to myself that this isn't going to go over well. You're right, that doesn't entitle guys to lie, no free pass on this one!
JJN4Fun

Dec 14 @ 11:15PM  
Well, Straddle - you know I'm not going to sit by and let someone dog on a sweet lady like Miss Sunshine here...she neither deserved to be lied to and led on, nor told to lay in the bed she supposedly made. Now, on to nicer things - like naughty emails! heh-heh!
allforyou999

Dec 16 @ 5:39PM  
All I can say is that my EX is still alive.........Very much alive
allforyou999

Dec 16 @ 5:43PM  
I laos have to say that if you don't want to be lied to go to Matchdoctor, yahoo. But I have been lied to also on those sites. BUYER BEWARE.

This site, there are a lot of people telling tales. Married ladies saying they are not married, married men, ladies etc.

Its an adult site for people seeking sex via companionship. A little time to free up the agreations of life with no strings. If you sleep with someone and like them , then maybe it wil be fun
StraddleMyNose

Dec 16 @ 7:08PM  
Allforyou999, I totally disagree with you about if anyone doesn't want to be lied to go to md instead of being here. No one deserves to be lied to on this site!
mr_smedheader

Dec 18 @ 2:35AM  
Ouch that sucks. Hey, I admit right up front in my profile that I'm married and just looking for some fun, either short or long term, depending how it works out.

Then again, you state "had I known the truth, I wouldn't have wasted my time". THAT is probably why he didn't tell you the truth. That is what is wrong with stating you're attached and looking for fun on the side.
JJN4Fun

Dec 20 @ 7:57AM  
Then again, you state "had I known the truth, I wouldn't have wasted my time". THAT is probably why he didn't tell you the truth. That is what is wrong with stating you're attached and looking for fun on the side.

Why the fuck do you men act like there's something wrong with a woman who doesn't want to be involved with a married man??? It's not always about passing judgment - maybe it's about wanting more than what a married man can offer...or maybe it's about not wanting to sneak around? How the fuck can you fault anyone for not wanting a married man - for any reason??? But to think that being on this site means a woman should be open to fucking anyone is ludicrous! Grow the fuck up!
belle1010

Dec 20 @ 8:22PM  
There are liers everywhere, not just here. You could meet a guy in a public place and unless he's wearing a wedding ring and has his wife along, how would you know he's married? I don't assume people are always honest. Not here or anywhere else. I do agree with Sxze though, that just because we post a profile on an ADULT site, it is acceptable to be less than honest. Or to assume that because we post a profile here, we are willing to fuck anything with a dick. What this guy did was WRONG on so many levels. Oh and for you married men, i'm sure there are women that are interested in having their freedom, and a relationship at the same time. I've considered it in the past, but didn't act on it. I know many great men here that are married, and don't have a problem flirting and goofing around with them. Honesty from everyone would be nice, but it's not realistic.
Sunshine79

Dec 20 @ 10:38PM  
In regards to: (and I agree with you)

There are liers everywhere, not just here. You could meet a guy in a public place and unless he's wearing a wedding ring and has his wife along, how would you know he's married? I don't assume people are always honest. Not here or anywhere else. I do agree with Sxze though, that just because we post a profile on an ADULT site, it is acceptable to be less than honest. Or to assume that because we post a profile here, we are willing to fuck anything with a dick. What this guy did was WRONG on so many levels. Oh and for you married men, i'm sure there are women that are interested in having their freedom, and a relationship at the same time. I've considered it in the past, but didn't act on it. I know many great men here that are married, and don't have a problem flirting and goofing around with them. Honesty from everyone would be nice, but it's not realistic.

I'm not upset at the fact that he was married. I'm attached too!! I was more or less questioning why he lied?? There was no reason to! I'm in the same boat myself....so what's up with that??
bentan

Dec 21 @ 9:40AM  
Then again, you state "had I known the truth, I wouldn't have wasted my time". THAT is probably why he didn't tell you the truth. That is what is wrong with stating you're attached and looking for fun on the side.

Why the fuck do you men act like there's something wrong with a woman who doesn't want to be involved with a married man??? It's not always about passing judgment - maybe it's about wanting more than what a married man can offer...or maybe it's about not wanting to sneak around? How the fuck can you fault anyone for not wanting a married man - for any reason??? But to think that being on this site means a woman should be open to fucking anyone is ludicrous! Grow the fuck up!

Essentially what he is saying is that men are tempted not to tell the truth because of the undesirable consequence that most women would choose not to get involved with them. I don't think he is condoning it nor faulting women for choosing not to get involved with married men; he is just stating a simple reality. Heck he said himself he has been upfront with his own marital status. You are seriously reading too much into a simple statement and blowing people away without a second thought. Calm down and be more objective.
Rikosound

Jan 9 @ 4:00PM  
You are 100% correct! Tell the truth and dispense with the head games and lies! I hate that! The same thing in a way happened to me. I was to meet this woman whom had a different description of herself then when we met! It was very weird and frankly I wouldn't have minded so much but what was she thinking? I was to meet her! Did she think I wouldn't notice that she was a blonde and was vastly different from her description she gave! It's not fair! Be honest and everyone get's what they want and no unexoected surprises!
veeruinus

Jan 9 @ 5:13PM  
I am not ashamed to put up MARRIED in my profile. Why the fuck lie here.

I did not lie to R either BTW.

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