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posted 7/22/2009 12:29:28 PM |
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  onehornytoad69

Is a Beautiful thing...
I am wondering How Long..do you have to Date someone..to Really Be in Love!!!?
I'm Not speaking of Attraction..or LUST!
But Heart Felt "TRUE LOVE" !!!!!
Can it happen on the 1st date? At 1st sight?
Or does it take...a While....?

(PS: Before anyone thinks this is about me... NO..I am not In love or lust!!! Hell,... I run from dating!!! )

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Looking4ever

Jul 22 @ 12:44PM  
I think it has to take awhile. But, infatuation definitely can happen right away...and, isn't that the first step towards love?
somnium

Jul 22 @ 12:48PM  
Depends on how horny I am!

Cootiesprayer

Jul 22 @ 12:49PM  
alright, i will answer this. I use to think it was lust at first site. but now, yes it can happen. when you have been out on dates & talked to people but then you meet that one person who all you do is think of their well being, what are they doing every moment of every day. I do believe there is love at first site.
dmbchick420

Jul 22 @ 12:49PM  
For me, it definitely takes a while and once I do fall in love, it's gets stronger over time and the longer I am with that person.
max49

Jul 22 @ 1:02PM  
LOVE is in the eye of the beer holder (hiccup) I mean beholder (hiccup).
casuallylooking

Jul 22 @ 1:06PM  
I don't believe in love at first sight. I believe in infatuation at first sight that can sometimes lead to loving and being in love. Once you get to know each other.

But real love takes time to actually know that person and who they really are.

How long? That depends on the people involved and the circumstances.

Darn, Alex, it's a shame you're not at least in lust.....

I run from dating!!!
coughbullshitcough......... ..........
shewolf53

Jul 22 @ 1:25PM  
There is attraction at first sight, but long term love is not an emotion, it is a decision you make every day. When people stop making that decision,for whatever reason, that love ends.
RevDocLove

Jul 22 @ 1:39PM  
Ain't no such thing as love at first sight..It's all lust!!
theSkwirl

Jul 22 @ 4:58PM  
Love.. well hmmm.. I don't know.. sometimes I question the validity of romantic love..
onehornytoad69

Jul 22 @ 5:48PM  
Thanks everyone for your Comments!!! Yall rock!!!!

I run from dating!!!
coughbullshitcough

Hell, I have too!!!! I'm Broke!!!!
wstang69

Jul 22 @ 7:35PM  
Dating? what is that?


longhorn386

Jul 22 @ 11:24PM  
I don't think it takes long at all to think you are in love. True love is pretty rare, if there is such a thing. People seem to settle into a mutually satisfying relationships, and make it work. Half of married couples get divorced and the other half manage to stay together somehow. I think I may have been in love, but maybe it was only long term lust. I can not have pure lust without caring about the other person.
longhorn386

Jul 22 @ 11:31PM  
Forgot to add that dating sucks. Dating was invented by women to get free stuff from as many men as possible. Even that word makes me almost puke.
casuallylooking

Jul 23 @ 1:40AM  
Dating was invented by women to get free stuff from as many men as possible.
That's called stereo typing and complete BS nonsense.
I'll agree some are like that.....as are some men... but not all or even most.
NaughtyBoy424

Jul 23 @ 2:33AM  
Here's a test for you - take it for what it's worth:

After dating for awhile, ask yourself how much of the "love" you would feel if the person were physically unnattractive, but otherwise exactly the same.

The results may be rather sobering, and could serve as a bellweather for the future of that relationship.

I recently blogged on this subject myself, as way of trying to establish a framework for evaluating love:

http://www.adultmatchdoctor.com/blog_37015/On_Types_of_Love_and_Their_Balance_in_a_Relationship.html

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